For new mothers, getting advice from seasoned and experienced moms is a must. There are a great number of nuances when it comes to raising a child. Many terrible mistakes have been avoided thanks to the sound advice from someone who has already been there. So in general, the advice from other moms starts pouring in the moment women choose to announce their pregnancy.

Nowadays, technology is everywhere and finding information is a simple internet search away. More and more, moms are relying on technology rather than their peers for advice. Why would a young mother get on the phone and call her aunt for parenting advice when she can get the same information from Google while putting in less than half the effort?

When it comes to raising children, a lot of moms are starting to take a more independent approach. These young moms aren’t interested in swapping war stories or getting advice. For the most part, they are just exhausted and are looking for a more organic way to live out their lives with their children. With all of that being said, let the eye-rolling begin. Here are 15 things moms in their 20s are absolutely sick and tired of hearing.

15 Why Don’t Have A Job?

It is no surprise that young women are becoming educated at a much higher rate than ever before. Moms in their twenties specialize in everything from science and engineering to performance art and business management. Many young moms spent quality time getting a degree or two from a prestigious place of education. All things considered, many young moms are putting their degree aside for mommy duties.

Other mothers often question these young moms about their life goals. They often inquire about why these young mothers are not applying their training. This puts the 20 something year old mom in an awkward position. While they see their whole lives ahead of them, they have to deal with other bitter moms questioning them about why they aren’t doing more with their education.

14 Always On The Phone 

The Smartphone revolution is one of the biggest technological events of the 21st century. The integration of the internet with mobile technology created a boom that has been completely unmatched. In no time flat, modern society became completely attached to mobile tech. Now, the endless array of apps gives users endless ways to use these gadgets. Young moms are comfortable with this fact and enjoy their digital lives. However, some moms are less open to the mobile madness.

You are always on your phone. Nearly every mom in their 20s has heard it, and every one of them hates it. Inevitably, some self-righteous parent will put their nose in a place it doesn’t belong. Young moms know they are always on their phones, and they simply do not care. They often use mobile tech to help their mothering efficiency. This is a fact that is often overlooked.

13 What’s The Big Deal About Blogging?

These days, everyone has a blog. All across the internet you can find food blogs, travel blogs, and even blogs about blogs. Blogging seems to be a big blogging deal. Have we said blog enough times yet? Moms in their 20s are no exception to the rule. Many of them spend an inordinate amount of time updating their personal parenting blogs.

Every mom in their 20s understands the power of blogging. However, not everyone does. It can be especially frustrating for younger mothers when they are asked about the necessity of blogging. To most, the reason to blog is obvious. It is almost as necessary as maintaining a healthy resume. Even still, moms in their 20s really get tired of people asking “what’s the big deal about blogging anyway?”

12 Do You Have To Do Yoga Every Week?

Bouncing back after pregnancy is often a monumental task. Not only are new moms recovering emotionally, but physically as well. In that sense, their normal physique has been transformed drastically over the preceding year. Getting one’s body back in shape after a baby is no small feat, but yoga has proved to work wonders. Still, some people are genuinely confused why young moms are so in love with yoga.

Whether they get it or not, it is still super frustrating for moms in their 20s to explain constantly why yoga is a good practice. Furthermore, they get tired of explaining exactly why it is they go every week. To the young mom, it is a no-brainer to work out in order to get back in shape. Similarly, they tend to get more than a little annoyed when people have the nerve to question them.

11 You’re Mature For Your Age

Moms in their twenties roll their eyes as hard as possible every single time someone tells them how mature they are for their age. It is frustrating for a few reasons. One reason is because they know they are mature. That’s why they chose to have kids. Another reason is because it’s really annoying when moms judge moms with no real foundation in fact.

Young moms find it insulting when people tell them they are mature for their age. The first complaint would be the person assuming their age. Secondly, their independent spirits hate when others cast judgment even if in the form of a compliment. They would prefer to be ignored rather than be partially admired with some off-hand passive aggressive statement.

10 You have It So Easy In This Day And Age

It is no secret that modern times are much better than previous human existences. Even 40 years ago, things were drastically different for young moms. From diseases to daycare, there are many things that the modern mom does not have to contend with. Still, she faces struggles of her own and hates when people trivialize the great effort she puts in daily.

Many seasoned veterans in the mom game have experienced a world much different than today’s. Surely, there are things going on now that are unprecedented, but for the most part, people tend to see this as an easier time. This is ultra frustrating to moms in their 20s who always have to

9 Stop Texting And Call me!

Everyone knows young moms don’t have a lot of time on their hands. Between meal times and nap times, moms in their 20s generally have active lifestyles. Often times, this make verbal communication via telephone a bit difficult. Due to their on-the-go way of life, moms in their 20s often prefer texting over calling. However, their friends and families are not always so happy with that decision.

Many people have experienced the dreaded “text-back”. This is when someone calls another person with the intent of talking to them on the phone. However, the phone call is not picked-up by the intended receiver. Now, here is where the problem presents itself. Instead of calling back, the intended receiver simply shoots a text in reply. This is often followed up by another text demanding to be called back, rather than continue to text. Moms in theirs simply hate hearing about it.

8 So What School Do They Go To?

Education should be one of the most important decisions young parents make for their children. Oftentimes, it is. Many moms in their 20s spend a lot of time deciding on where to educate their young children. However, it some circles, the question becomes a bit of an obsession.

Some mothers love to compare their children to other children. They constantly juxtapose their young humans with the kids of the peers. One question that really annoys moms in their 20s is related to this unfortunate trend. These young moms are sick and tired of people asking them about what school their children go to. For them, it is more important to properly educate their kids than to show off for a bunch of other mothers.

7 Did You Check WebMD?

One of the most frightening times for young mothers is when their child gets some sort of ailment. It does not matter whether if it’s a serious case of the sniffles or an unexplained ear ache, moms in their 20s are on top of every issue. However, these moms tend to get tired of hearing people ask them whether or not they have checked WebMD. The answer should be obvious.

Of course they have! The popular online medical assistant has become a go to for moms in their 20s. So it’s no wonder they get sick and tired of people asking them have they done their research. These moms live on the internet and try literally every avenue when trying to heal their young ones.

6 Have You Seen The Latest…? 

Moms in their 20s are up to date on all the latest news and gossip. They know the intimate details of the often changing political climate. On the other hand, moms in their 20s are well-versed in the most up-to-date celebrity news. One would think their knowledge would be unquestionable. However, one thing that young moms get tired of hearing is people asking them if they really know what’s going on.

The news cycle is 24 hours. The mobile devices we carry around daily give us unparalleled access to an infinite wealth of knowledge. That’s probably why moms in their twenties get so annoyed when people test them on the latest current events. Of course they know what’s going on in the White House, and they are well aware of the Ryan Reynolds situation.

5 What’s The Password, Oh Wait…

Moms in their 20s have no digital privacy. This seems odd when one considers the amount of media they actually consume. Still, the truth holds. Moms in their 20s are forced to forgo privacy in favor of ease of use. Most of the wireless devices are not password protected which allows their young children to gain access to the games and tools they so desperately need.

So, when people ask for the password for a young mom’s tablet, it hits a certain nerve. A specific chord is struck within them because they are faced to reconcile the dissonance they feel. They come face to face with the fact their tech is no longer their tech. It belongs to the family now. For some, it’s a bit much to handle.

4 So I Saw Your Kid On Facebook…

Nothing is more terrifying than when your parents join social media. However, the inverse reality is not often acknowledged. It is equally terrifying for moms in their 20s when their children join social media. Even worse is when they have to constantly hear about their kid’s social media activities from friends and family.

3 You Just Want Everything Handed To You On A Silver Platter

In a recent mass email, it was pointed out that moms in their 20s are the most entitled group of moms ever. It turns out, they want everything handed to them on a silver platter. The aforementioned email may be fictitious, but some mothers are experiencing this first hand. 20 something year old moms are sick and tired of people telling them how spoiled they are.

We live in a time of excess. Every year, tons of waste of produced from the unimaginable amount of products we consume. With supermarkets around every corner, it’s easy to think that our young moms may expect certain luxuries. However, suggesting this to them is simply rude, and moms in their 20s are sick of it.

2 Are They Vaccinated?

Every year, new moms face the tough decision of whether or not to vaccinate their children. Over the past couple decades new research has given many mothers confidence with the practice. Across the country, old school diseases are being wiped out by active vaccination programs. However, moms in their 20s are sick and tired of being asked about it.

It’s interesting to note how involved older moms want to be in the lives of young moms. While most of them mean well, it doesn’t change the fact that moms in their 20s simply do not want to hear it. Vaccination is a hot button topic nowadays. Even still, they don’t want to discuss it at the weekly bikram yoga session.

1 So When Are You Having Another Baby?

So, what’s next? It’s the age old question that keeps popping up for moms in their 20s. Many mothers feel like it is their maternal duty to push young moms to produce more children. For some, the experience is a bit more traumatic, and they are not looking forward to having more children. Therefore, when the question comes up, it gets really stressful for the moms who feel they have to live up to the stereotype.

Moms in their twenties want to be left to grow and develop unhindered. They are searching for independence in the world as well as endeavoring to create a safe space for their kids. So, when they get questioned about their future baby plans, it can be a bit much. Safe to say, it’s probably not wise to ask a mom in their 20s when she is having her next kid.

Sources: RebelCircus.com, PopSugar.com, Romper.com