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if my husband doesnt cry user banned
Feb 25th '10

at the birth, does that mean he doesnt care? do you think most dads will? how will I know?

user banned 66 kids; Texas 80435 posts
Feb 25th '10
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Timothy Hay 2 kids; Georgia 22783 posts
Feb 25th '10

Haha not at all.
I didn't cry when my son was born. And I love him to pieces.

LexusNexus 2G1B 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Yigo, Gu, Guam 13412 posts
Feb 25th '10

Neither of us cried when she was born but that definitely doesn't mean we don't care. At the time we were both just in shock!

Kyrie ♥'s Monkeys 2 kids; why, az, United States 52117 posts
Feb 25th '10

You'll know he cares if he's there. He doesn't have to cry, not even all moms cry.

Coffee Milk 2 kids; Alaska 2089 posts
Feb 25th '10

My husband was to happy to cry, you should see the pictures of his smiles. Priceless

Jaimie and Alexys's Mommy Due July 2; 34 kids; St Charles, Missouri 14944 posts
Feb 25th '10

He doesnt have to cry to care.

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75118 posts
Feb 25th '10

Not at all. People react differently to these situations. I didn't cry at first, partly because of being out of it from my c-section lol and because I was just SOO excited. My husband did cry though. Not everyone cries.

I ♥ HGF&EBF! 18 kids; North Baltimore, Ohio 8543 posts
Feb 25th '10

My husband didn't cry and it he cares alot about our daughter. They are really close. I have seen him cry a few times in 2 years and only because his grandpa was dying and when he died. He just doesn't cry.

Abraham Lincoln 1 child; Lethbridge, Alberta 3253 posts
Feb 25th '10
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brittanyy [+M] 1 child; H-Town, TX, United States 4074 posts
Feb 25th '10

I bauled when my daughter was born.
When her dad saw her, he just smiled really big.

Tavi 1 child; Washington 24472 posts
Feb 25th '10

Jay never cried...he actually had the biggest smile I've ever seen.....and he's a great papa. Not everyone expresses their emotions the same..you'll be fine :)

Hy'ska 2 kids; Your mom, WA, United States 50865 posts
Feb 25th '10
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Alt.mom 1 child; Springfield, Missouri 1326 posts
Feb 25th '10
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Wiggity Wack 1 child; Connecticut 10780 posts
Feb 25th '10

People express emotions differently. Not crying doesn't equal not caring.