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WTF, a*****e. Monsters mommy :) 1 child; Texas 4076 posts
10th Jun '10

Me and SO were talking and he knows i want more kids. just one, when hunters like 3 or 4 and i have mirena and so i told him when hunter turns 4 i wanna get it out and ttc, and he flips out telling me he doesnt want anymore kids and that if i get it taken out and dont get on birthcontrol right after that we either wont have sex or he will leave. :( i really made me sad, iv always wanted 2 kids and its not fair.

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; 2 angel babies; South Land, CA, United States 116898 posts
10th Jun '10

Weird...



You guys didnt talk about this before hand?

.Meow! Due July 16; Holy See (Vatican City State) 46469 posts
10th Jun '10

Maybe he just wasn't ready to hear it right now at this moment?

How old is hunter?

PotatoHead 1 child; Wisconsin 11230 posts
10th Jun '10

Settle down. He might change his mind.

Born To Be Worn Due February 4; 4 kids; 2 angel babies; Norfolk, Virginia 5520 posts
10th Jun '10

My husband was telling me he'd get snipped once he was 23 and with 2 kids (he has a 3 yr old already) and he was turning 23, 18 days after our son was born. He's changed his mind. Give him some time, hopefully he'll come around. I kept telling DH it wasn't fair to me that he was telling me I could only have one child and reminded him relationships are about give and take and compromises. I hope he changes his mind

Monsters mommy :) 1 child; Texas 4076 posts
10th Jun '10

i know he might change his mind, i just cant beleive he said that he would leave lol
it suprissed me.

Hailee's Mama + 1 1 child; 1 angel baby; Georgia 13140 posts
10th Jun '10
Quoting Strippereℓℓa:
Moses. Due October 27; 3 kids; Texas 16003 posts
10th Jun '10
Quoting Kristie, mommy to hunter:
Zombie Mommy♡ Due January 9; 17 kids; Huntsville, Texas 2356 posts
10th Jun '10

wow..
i cant beleive he said he would leave.. :(
Me and SO always talk about how many kids we want.. and he has always said after 3 he is getting fixed.. and i want 4 kids.. so it was always a big deal to him... but the other day he said "after the 4th kid im getting fixed" and he looked at me and smiled LOL i knew i would get my way lol.

Monsters mommy :) 1 child; Texas 4076 posts
10th Jun '10
Quoting Strippereℓℓa:
ma ♥ 1 child; California 63053 posts
10th Jun '10

IMO, I couldn't be with someone any longer if I knew he didn't want more children (if I did). I wouldn't want to waste anymore time. One of the many reasons I'm no longer with the BD.