Me and SO were talking and he knows i want more kids. just one, when hunters like 3 or 4 and i have mirena and so i told him when hunter turns 4 i wanna get it out and ttc, and he flips out telling me he doesnt want anymore kids and that if i get it taken out and dont get on birthcontrol right after that we either wont have sex or he will leave. :( i really made me sad, iv always wanted 2 kids and its not fair.
You guys didnt talk about this before hand?
Maybe he just wasn't ready to hear it right now at this moment?
How old is hunter?
Settle down. He might change his mind.
My husband was telling me he'd get snipped once he was 23 and with 2 kids (he has a 3 yr old already) and he was turning 23, 18 days after our son was born. He's changed his mind. Give him some time, hopefully he'll come around. I kept telling DH it wasn't fair to me that he was telling me I could only have one child and reminded him relationships are about give and take and compromises. I hope he changes his mind
i know he might change his mind, i just cant beleive he said that he would leave lol
it suprissed me.
Quoting Kristie, mommy to hunter:
i cant beleive he said he would leave.. :(
Me and SO always talk about how many kids we want.. and he has always said after 3 he is getting fixed.. and i want 4 kids.. so it was always a big deal to him... but the other day he said "after the 4th kid im getting fixed" and he looked at me and smiled LOL i knew i would get my way lol.