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husband wont stop smoking weed paula :) 1 child; Long Beach, California 89 posts
2nd Aug '10

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so as a kid my mom smoked weed 24 7 and I was always sitting alone waiting for my mom to come out of her room and finish smoking. she ended up going to jail and a bunch of drama happened..
my husband recently got outta the military so he has been smoking ever since. i get it ok do it once be happy blah blah blah but he spends sooo much money and time on it now!! it causes fights between us all the time. i dont want my LO to have that kind of dad. I HATE IT!! it makes me so mad but bitching at him doesnt help at all. i dont know what to do. how long do i deal with it till its time to leave him??

Jasify Due September 2; 2 kids; South Carolina 31243 posts
2nd Aug '10

It's up to you, but if you don't want your LO around that, don't allow it.

SubLowe 1 child; Oceanside, California 15387 posts
2nd Aug '10

whats so bad about weed? does he smoke it around your child?



im in the military and u better believe once i get out ill be smoking 8)



but yea, no matter what u tell him he`ll keep smoking, thats jsut how people are. theyll quit doing whatever it is that they are doing when they are ready not when other tell em to stop

Rainbow Brite & Silas 1 child; Oregon 17038 posts
2nd Aug '10

If you don't want it to happen, and have talked to him and he won't listen, then you need to leave. I know leaving is not easy, but there really is no other way when it comes to serious issues about your child.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
2nd Aug '10

If you dont want this life for you and your LO, then you need to leave. He wont stop if he doesnt want to and there no sense in you sticking around hoping he will change.
Maybe when he realizes what hes lost he'll smarten up

paula :) 1 child; Long Beach, California 89 posts
2nd Aug '10
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Dorothy Mantooth 1 child; Louisville, Kentucky 5966 posts
2nd Aug '10

I used to have a similar problem with my SO. Not that I mind smoking, I love bud. But to my SO it was EVERY THING, he would spend hundreds upon hundreds of dollars a month on it, and since I was pregnant and didn't smoke and didn't want it around me because it made me sick he would stay gone out smoking. I told him it bothered me a lot, and we talked about it and worked it out. If he isn't willing to work it out with you, and respect your feelings leave his ass.

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