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Anal sex after giving birth? Nathaniel's Mommy* Due September 26 (boy); 1 child; Lynden, Washington 921 posts
26th Aug '10

How long should you wait to have anal sex after you have your baby? Do the same rules aply as if it was vaginal sex?

Penny&Jess 1 child; Florida 15375 posts
26th Aug '10

that just makes me hurt, cuz that whole area hurt for a while (i had stitches and all)



I dont really know how long you would want to wait. I guess as long as it feels ok. Use protection!

*Mama G* 2 kids; Massachusetts 2249 posts
26th Aug '10

i am curious to see the answer to this cause my boyfriend has the idea that since we cant have sex we are going to be doing it anally for 6 weeks.
shoot me.

Elle With FOUR! 4 kids; Wichita, KS, United States 18964 posts
26th Aug '10
Quoting Nathaniel's Mommy*:
McLovin' 2 kids; Florida 20504 posts
26th Aug '10

Ugh....I dunno about that. That area was very sensitive for me after giving birth.

DJ Sassie ♥ #3 Due July 2 Due July 17; 2 kids; Hobart, IN, United States 681 posts
26th Aug '10

I'm guessing the rules are the same because the two are so close.
Just be really careful if you have hemorrhoids because they tend to 'act up' more after delivering a baby, especially after anal.
Use lots of lube and take your time with it, because it is quite a bit different after having a baby, at least the 1st few times.
Good luck :D

OGTattedmama2007 2 kids; Ghetto, Ca, United States 32620 posts
status 26th Aug '10

when you give birth it feels like you are pushing from your a*****e, so i would think that would be the LAST thing you would want to do.

*Mrs Cherry* 21 kids; Colorado Springs, Colorado 10450 posts
26th Aug '10

I wouldn't think there would be a problem with it as long as you don't have the lovely PP hemorrhoids or something. The reason you hold off on vaginal sex is because of the heightened risk of infection and you don't want to chance a pregnancy before your uterus has healed at the site of the placenta.



ETA Also might want to reconsider if you tore.

what?!// 2 kids; d***o, 252 posts
26th Aug '10

Give your body a break....

McLovin' 2 kids; Florida 20504 posts
26th Aug '10
Quoting *Mrs Cherry*:
*Mrs Cherry* 21 kids; Colorado Springs, Colorado 10450 posts
26th Aug '10
Quoting McLovin♥:
MuffinButt+1 Due July 21; 1 child; 6 angel babies; North Kingstown, Rhode Island 20453 posts
26th Aug '10

To all the ladies that have boyfriends who want to jam something up your ass after you just shot a baby out of your vag, or got sliced and diced. Tell them to keep their d**k in their pants. Most of the time you can't shit after you give birth, plus hemorrhoids, plus the bleeding out of your vag. They say no sex because your whole body needs a break from that kind of "trauma".

DJ Sassie ♥ #3 Due July 2 Due July 17; 2 kids; Hobart, IN, United States 681 posts
26th Aug '10
Quoting ♥Gina♥:
Elle With FOUR! 4 kids; Wichita, KS, United States 18964 posts
26th Aug '10
Quoting MuffinButts Mommy:
what?!// 2 kids; d***o, 252 posts
26th Aug '10
Quoting MuffinButts Mommy: