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Cast Your Vote:

    • I want an extra man -- Votes: 82
    • I want an extra woman -- Votes: 147
    • I am good either way as long as they are cute -- Votes: 54
    • Threesomes are just not my thing -- Votes: 304
beautifullybroken Due June 25; Pennsylvania 184 posts
18th Feb '11
Quoting Em and Jay's Mommie TTNC:" I had a BAD experience with threesomes so I don't do them... sorry i couldn't be of help! "


I know someone that brought another girl into the relationship....SHE was the one that decided to have another girl in the relationship and her husband ended up leaving her for the other girl. This has happened to many people, rules or no rules there's still jealously and once it's done it's something that you can't take back.

jlmcc 1 child; Benjamin, Texas 140 posts
16th Jun '11

I've had threesomes with another girl in the past; but that was a friend and a guy she knew; I could never do it with my BF. I'm too jealous I'd end up making too many rules and then there'd really be no reason for her to be there lol. I don't want him touching anyone else...and if I thought he might be enjoying what she was doing to him more than what I was I'd just get pissed off. As far as I'm concered he's mine and I don't share.

MalibuMe 1 child; Kalispell, Montana 115 posts
16th Jun '11

I don't think I could share my current S.O - EVER. lol Definitely with any other boyfriend in the past, I would've, just because they were pointless relationships.
I've done it once before - when I was single in college. HELLA drunk, one of my best (very attractive) guy friends/screw around buddies and I would team up and ask girls if they wanted to join us at bars & then pounce. lol The one time we did it, it was with a girl I had just met like, a week before - she lived in another town & was just in town to party. Hoooo damn lol He ended up finishing with what he wanted to do with her - which wasn't much & then we snuck out of the room & continued on the couch ha ha
I think they're quite the learning experience - let's you know & set your limits... Let's you know when & if you can let your hair down a lil' bit ha ha But if you're in a really serious relationship, I wouldn't push it. Too emotional :/ If my guy and I were to fo it now, I think we'd end up fighting with the odd one out.

~DP~ 2 kids; South Padre Island, Texas 17360 posts
16th Jun '11
Quoting MomofBen:" I just saw a post and thought this would be an interesting question to ask. Personally I like the ... [snip!] ... it to be a girl and I want it to be a guy. But, I'm really not into having a foursome, so I don't think it will happen. lol's"


:!:



I've had only one before, and that was w/ two dudes I wasn't in a relationship with. If I had been, with one, I don't think a t*******e would've happened.



It was SUPER awesome. Wasn't so much about getting all this dick lmao then it was about having ALOT of attention all on me, from two HOT men. Mmmhmm.

~DP~ 2 kids; South Padre Island, Texas 17360 posts
16th Jun '11
Quoting MomofBen:" I just saw a post and thought this would be an interesting question to ask. Personally I like the ... [snip!] ... it to be a girl and I want it to be a guy. But, I'm really not into having a foursome, so I don't think it will happen. lol's"

oops double post lol

Snookums♥ 1 child; Ohio 1187 posts
16th Jun '11

I selected "Not my thing" but if for whatever reason I did have one, I would want another guy.

Jeronimo 2 kids; California 1436 posts
16th Jun '11

I dont think my SO would like a girl in a 3some, nor would I like another man in a 3some w/my SO...

But I have had a 3somes before... me, a friend, and some chick we both couldn't give 2 shits about.... that's probably why it worked out.

Amanda Mann 2 kids; Wadena, Minnesota 2 posts
23rd Jul '11

Me and my husband have talked about a t*******e a few times and have come close but the girl backed out. I think im part bi but im not sure and i have always wanted a t*******e. now he has been talking about adding another guy but he doesnt wanna join. he wants me to get satisfied by another guy because he thinks hes not big enough to do the job. I want him to f**k another girl so i can watch and then maybe join in the fun if shes willing. Any ideas on wat to do??

Bonny bon Due August 12; 6 kids; Australia 319 posts
7th Aug '11

i attempted to bring another girl into the bedroom before hubby and I got married but she ended up making all the rules. LMFAO as she was someone i had slept with before, (and a very close friend) she made it very clear she had no interest in my other half and wouldnt let him touch her. I felt pretty bad about that because i wanted to get it out of the way before we got married. However hubby was fine with it because it meant he got to watch lol. I knew I was bi before i met my hubby so it wasnt really something i felt pressured into doing. however we been married for a while now and we still havent had a proper 3some. it does get annoying when he asks sometimes (especially when i am pregnant and this is our 4th child togehter!) I dont think he understands the psychological impact stretch marks, slight saggy b**bs, and extra weight from 4 pregnancies in 7 years can have on a woman. (i have 3 kids from previous relationships aswell!) so 7 kids worth of damage to my body has made me just a little insecure as to whether or not i would be able to have another chick in the bed. It isnt that I dont trust him. Its that i dont feel good enough about myself. I dont think i could compare to anything we bought into the bedroom looks wise so i fear i would just get up walk out and ruin it for him. I have told him all this and he gets it. but it doesnt stop the wanting it. I wouldnt mind it either but too scared. I got I got all the moves required to make it good just not the confidence anymore lol. ohhhhh enough D&M from me.

Kaibutsu 1 child; Virginia 3525 posts
7th Aug '11

I would never do a t*******e. I only have sex with someone I'm in a relationship with, comfortable with, and someone I trust. Not with a stranger. It's just not my thing. And I don't want to see SO touching another girl either, so it's out for us, haha.

LilithLee Due March 24; Connecticut 11 posts
22nd Oct '11

I was born an only child, and do NOT like to share...especially my husband. I had a horrible experience from a t*******e...my bf at the time actually ended up cheating on me later down the road with her...not good...if it's something you really want to do, I would suggest you think twice is all...definitely not my thing :-p
Sorry, I can't use the smileys for some reason...

Bandera Roe 1 child; Temple, Texas 170 posts
4th Aug '12

f**k that! I couldn't have 2 guys and I kno for sure I would be way to jealous to watch SO with another girl f**k that I would only consider it if iwas single. And it was with people I didn't love

ChocolateTy Due September 10; Japan 29 posts
4th Aug '12
Quoting ~DP~:" :!: I've had only one before, and that was w/ two dudes I wasn't in a relationship with. If I had been, ... [snip!] ... Wasn't so much about getting all this dick lmao then it was about having ALOT of attention all on me, from two HOT men. Mmmhmm."

Lucky b***h!! LOL

LB&AB 2 kids; Nunya, CA, United States 315 posts
4th Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kristen515:</b>" It might make for a nice fantasy every now and again, but that's as far as it goes. I don't want anyone extra, man or woman, in my bed."</blockquote>



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.MommaBug. 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Dayton, OH, United States 931 posts
29th Nov '12
Quoting *Kiara AKA Mom* EBF:" I think if u do, the guy is going to want it all the time u are never gone enough for him, I know alot of ladies that has happen to"


this sounds legit