I have to put my two cents in here.... I know that the mother did wrong by giving that baby over to her father. BUT mabye she didnt know that he was this type of person... We all make mistakes.... Just too bad that this one ended in death
I have a friend... Who has two children, both of which live with their dads, and she doesnt see them that often at all... Ok, I will admit that in their case there dads are the best place for them, as they have their feet on the ground and the mom doesnt.
Once she admited to me that she misses her kids terribly, BUT she knows herself, knows her limits, and worries that one day she might snap and do somthign she regrets if she had custody of her kids. She knows that their dads are the best place for them.
Quoting krystle .:“ This topic was copy and pasted off of myspace. I was ignorant to the fact that the mother was also in ... [snip!] ... London Marie Sherwood September 4th, 2007-December 4th, 2007 TO REPOST THIS.. CLICK REPLY TO POSTER AND COPY THE CODE”
I SEEN THIS STORY POSTED ON MYSPACE, AND TO TELL YOU GUYS THE TRUTH, YOU DONT KNOW WHAT WAS THE MOTHERS SITUATION WHEN SHE LEFT HER BABY WITH THE DAD..I AM NOT CONDONING LAVING YOUR CHILD BECAUSE I COULD NEVER EVER DO THAT..BUT WE DONT KNOW WHY SHE LEFT THE BABY..AND THE DAD WHY ISNT ANYONE TALKIN ABOUT HOW HE KILLED HIS DAUGHTER..HOPE HE ROTTS IN JAIL FOR EVER ..AND WHAT I REALLY HOPE IS THAT SOME READERS LEARN FROM THIS STORY...IF YOU FEEL STRESSED SEEK HELP..THERES HELP OUT THERE!! GOD BLESS EVERYONE AND RIP LONDON..BECAUSE THIS SHOULD BE ALL ABOUT YOU..YOUR THE STAR HERE YOUR THE ANGLE..XOXO
i am sorry for what has happend to that little baby it is so hard for my to see that casue i have a 3 month old little girl and i am so upset that some one could do that to a child a helpless child i see my baby and think that every time i see stuff like that i am having such a hard time right now handling seeing that stuff and some times and i know this is going to sound mean i just do want to see it any more i am a stay at home mom i am alone with my 3 kids all of the time my husband works i get stressed out and angry but dam me to hell if i would ever let me or anyone hurt my children
I agree this is a terrible, terrible thing. I agree that no one knows what the mother was going thru. IF she was partying at least she thought enough of her child to take her somewhere where she thought she would be taken care of. There are mothers everyday that leave them in a dumpster, parking lots, stores, bathrooms. You name it, they get left there. Just because she left her with her father doesn't mean she didn't love her chld. Atleast she didn't have the child out partying with her. Maybe she realized she wasn't capable of taking care of her daughter so she took her to the father thinking that he could. Who would have thought a home with 3 adults living in it would let something like this happen? Everyone is so quick to place just as much blame on the mother as the father, well, what about the chlds grandfather and hs girlfriend? They were in the home. The girlfriend is the one who placed the 911 call. Why didn't they step in before it got to that point?
Also, I want to make another point. The issue of "help is a phone call away" has been brought up. There is help out there but just to let you know from my expierence it's not as easily found as some make it sound. I am a mother of 3 wonderful children. I love my children more than life itself and would NEVER harm my children BUT I have a very very angry and aggresive autistic child and I have been begging for help for many months on dealing with the anger and aggression before he hurts hmself or my other children. It's easy to get frustrated and I haven't gotten any help to yet. I've been told over and over again that they can't offer me help because he is so young. Now if I wanted to give him up for adoption or place in him foster care they could help me. That's not an option for me, I love my son but he needs help. So sometimes it makes me wonder did these young parents cry out for help? Anyone on here with a child with a disability I'm sure you know what I am talking about and if not consider yourself fortunate to get help the first time you asked for it.
Let's keep this family in out prayers and not be so quick to judge the ones that weren't there and hold the ones that were there responsible.
Just my two cents worth!! RIP London. . . you are home now! There is no pain there, sweet angel!!
Everyone is entitled to they're own opinion.
OH POOR LONDON! SHE IS SUCH A PRETTY BABY!
BOTH THE PARENTS SHOULD BE CHARGED!
MOM FOR CHILD ABONDANMENT, ENDANGERMENT.
FATHER FOR MURDER!
SBS JUST SCARES THE HELL OUT OF ME! I HAD TO WATCH VIDEOS B4 WE BROUGHT AVERIE HOME FROM THE NICU AND SBS WAS ONE OF THEM, I CRIED THROUGH THE WHOLE 28MIN. VIDEO WHILE SNUGGLEING AVERIE!
AVERIE ONLY STAYS WITH MY MOM, OR MY 2 SISTERS B/C OF SBS!
RIP LITTLE LONDON! IM SORRY YOUR LIFE ENDED SO ABRUBTLY, AND SHORT! IM THINKING OF YOUR G-PARENTS AND LOVED ONES!
Some of you people make me sick, This is not just a matter of whom is at fault. The fact still remains: a baby died. and there are people out there feeling that pain, I mean really feeling it. so don't go trying to make yourself feel better by justifying who is to blame. there is real Pain in life that some of you have never known, and I pray you don't.. May God bless all who are involved, and all who feel this PAIN!!!!!!
Number 1. Who are you to JUDGE any of us? EVERYONE living on this earth is entitled to feel whatever they want to feel. No one is trying to justify ANYTHING. A CHILD IS DEAD, THAT IS EXACTLY WHY I MADE THIS THREAD. IF YOU TOOK THE TIME OUT TO READ ANY OF IT, YOU WOULD KNOW THAT ALL OF THE PEOPLE WHO RESPONDED TO THIS ARE TRYING TO CREATE AWARENESS IN THIS WORLD. I know exactly how it feels to lose a child. I LOST TWO. I lost twins this year. Can you say that you know that pain? Do you know the pain of thinking that you might not be able to get pregnant, and than when you finally do. . . your worst nightmare happens and your child/children don't make it? If you know that pain, than you should UNDERSTAND exactly where I'm coming from.
If not,you are the one whomakes me sick. I have never been so outraged in my life. THERE ISfault in this case, the fault is BOTH of the parents. Yes, that's right, I SAID BOTH. A child lost it's life due to carelessness! I cannot express how sorry I feel for the people who knew this child, and are mourning right now. Your right, that pain IS real and a lot of the women who have responded and who are ON THIS SITE know how it feels to lose a child.
You cannot ignore the fact that the reason this child died is because a woman left her baby in the care of somebody who is emotionally unstable. I don't give two f**ks about the situation she was in at the time. Responsibility is responsibility. YOU ARE IN CHARGE OF PROTECTING AND CARING FOR THE CHILD YOU BROUGHT INTO THIS WORLD. People who are not ready for that should keep they're stuff in they're pants, and they're legs closed because I'm getting tired of ignorant f**ks who breed and KNOW the severe consequences that come with being a parent. GO TO A CLINIC AND GET FREE CONTRACEPTIVES!!!! There are several other ways, if it's too late. . . there is always adoption, or abortion.
I do not condone abortion in any way but I do feel that the choice is they'res. I also feel that it shouldn't be used as a continous form of birth control.
This is how I feel, if you don't like it than fine. But don't step into this thread and shit on everyone who has an opinion. Just like you're entitled to your's, we are entitled to ours.
Quoting And G: