my ex of 5 yrs and i are trying to work things out between us . We split up about a yr ago - we have a 2 yr old daughter together. well i told him i wanted to take things really slow and date bc i want it to work- i dont wanna rush
well we have been seeing eachother for 4 months now-- he started sleeping over a couple nights a week. and he keeps having sex w/me in my sleep. he doesnt try when we are awake (just when im sleeping) i asked him not to do that and i push him off at night --he will stop but when i go back to sleep he keeps going... and i mean hes literally having sex with me. licking me to get me wet so he can put it in. my bra is undone and my pants/panties are off when i wake up. i dont know what to do. and honestly -- i am scared to live a life w/out him-- im scared to leave... help.
I am pretty sure that's rape.
Quoting Green Testicle:
he is raping you at night. I would recommend NOT letting him stay over if it is not something you want done to yourself
Hummm.....I dunno....do you sleep through it?? Or are you half awake and just to tired to bother telling him to stop? Because if you do tell him no and he still does it without your knowledge, then that falls into the category of rape. He needs to respect your wishes.
Yeah.. what they said.
that's the defination of rape.
Are you sure he is awake? There is a condition called "Sleep sex" where he has no idea what he is doing, like sleep walking.
Obviously he is not respecting your feelings to take it slow by raping you in your sleep.
I would honestly tell him he can no longer sleep over your house if he refuses to honor your wishes. What he is doing is technically rape.
I don't know why you'd want to make things work with someone who rapes you and obviously you can trust. It's honestly pretty sick that he's doing that to you. He has no respect for you.
How do you know he licks you to get you wet if you are sleeping?