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13-14 year olds and naked pictures DownWithMorons 1 child; Tauranga, New Zealand 5516 posts
25th Jan '11

Here is a question I have that has spurred from an incident I heard about recently in my town.



What would you do (punishment wise or whatever) if you found out your 13 or 14 year old daughter was sending naked pictures (im talking full on naked, with close up shots of their vagina and stuff) to guys from her school that were asking for them (not just one guy btw, im talking 5-6 guys or more). Or what would you do if you found out your son was one of the boys asking for those pictures.

Jelly BOOBS! Seattle, Washington 872 posts
25th Jan '11

Take his cell phone away and give him a box of condoms. Even kids can be charged with child porn now. It's a bit ridiculous, but I can understand why.

Ohgee 2 kids; Campbelltown, Australia 785 posts
25th Jan '11

what i'd like to know is WHAT possessed this little girl to even think it was OK to do something like that????? as for the boys....boys will be boys...i'd do as Mr.Hoar said and confiscate the mobile....maybe give him a nice double handed slap too....

DownWithMorons 1 child; Tauranga, New Zealand 5516 posts
25th Jan '11
Quoting Ohgee:" what i'd like to know is WHAT possessed this little girl to even think it was OK to do something like ... [snip!] ... will be boys...i'd do as Mr.Hoar said and confiscate the mobile....maybe give him a nice double handed slap too...."


I think if my son EVER asked for pictures of a naked girl at 13 or 14, it would be the only time I would hit him. Then I would confiscate his phones (actually smash them up) and restrict all internet access. I would be disgusted at my son if he treated a girl like that. I could NEVER use the "boys will be boys" excuse for something like that, especially at 13 years old. And as for the girl. She needs some serious help I think. Btw these boys are like 13 year olds aswell. Not older guys.

justanothamotha Due January 20; 130 kids; Climax, Michigan 5120 posts
25th Jan '11

My kids will NOT have cells at that age that give access to such things. IF I ever give them cells *HUGE if) it will not be able to send or receive photos & will have specific numbers it can call preprogrammed by me. My sis has this with her kids & I think it is a FANTASTIC idea. Kids do NOT need to talk to their friends via cell phone & they certainly don't need to be sending pics.

Moses. Due October 27; 3 kids; Texas 16003 posts
25th Jan '11
Quoting Mr. HOAR:" Take his cell phone away and give him a box of condoms. Even kids can be charged with child porn now. It's a bit ridiculous, but I can understand why."


:!:

Jelly BOOBS! Seattle, Washington 872 posts
25th Jan '11
Quoting ForbiddenFruitt:" I think if my son EVER asked for pictures of a naked girl at 13 or 14, it would be the only time I would ... [snip!] ... old. And as for the girl. She needs some serious help I think. Btw these boys are like 13 year olds aswell. Not older guys."


Wow that seems a bit excessive.

DownWithMorons 1 child; Tauranga, New Zealand 5516 posts
25th Jan '11
Quoting Mr. HOAR:" Wow that seems a bit excessive."


Excessive, and a true story. Someone I know closely was involved in this incident.

xilwolx 3 kids; Tulsa, OK, United States 20879 posts
25th Jan '11

I'd definitely take away all electronics that have the ability to send and receive images.

Jelly BOOBS! Seattle, Washington 872 posts
25th Jan '11
Quoting justanothamotha:" My kids will NOT have cells at that age that give access to such things. IF I ever give them cells *HUGE ... [snip!] ... a FANTASTIC idea. Kids do NOT need to talk to their friends via cell phone & they certainly don't need to be sending pics."


At 13-14? It seems like it would be about time to cut the cord a little. My 11 year old even has one.
A cell phone is just a phone, and an even better way than a house phone to keep tabs on your kids.
Like today, I learned that he forgot his math book and his friend sent him all of the answers. :roll:
Not saying it's a great thing, but mostly it's harmless. Kids a bigger access of trash by just logging onto a computer.

Jelly BOOBS! Seattle, Washington 872 posts
25th Jan '11
Quoting ForbiddenFruitt:" Excessive, and a true story. Someone I know closely was involved in this incident."


But taking a phone and smashing it?
And then hit?

DownWithMorons 1 child; Tauranga, New Zealand 5516 posts
25th Jan '11
Quoting Mr. HOAR:" But taking a phone and smashing it? And then hit?"


Id smash his phone for sure. Its not excessive. I would do it with my daughter too. I would take her phone and literally smash it (actually, this is what the father of the girl in this situation did to her phones, he ran over them with the car). I think its disgusting what children are up to these days and parents are just sooo naive and think "my kid would NEVER do that" when clearly its happening.



Im against smacking but I think this would be one time I would smack him. Its so disrespectful. I find it sad in these situations that we let the boy off with "boys will be boys" and the girls are the only ones punished. I would be EQUALLY disapointed in both a son and a daughter if they were participating in this kinda crap. I would be very seriously looking at my parenting if my child did this.

Ms. Swan 2 kids; St Paul, Minnesota 11328 posts
25th Jan '11

Uhm... what were you ladies up to at the age of 14? I hope not sending nude pictures to several boys...but like we were all angels at that age. Some kids that age are already having kids. Wow, I guess that is crazy

xilwolx 3 kids; Tulsa, OK, United States 20879 posts
25th Jan '11
Quoting ~incubator~:" Uhm... what were you ladies up to at the age of 14? I hope not sending nude pictures to several boys...but ... [snip!] ... several boys...but like we were all angels at that age. Some kids that age are already having kids. Wow, I guess that is crazy"


I flashed my boobs to one of those instant photo booth things for a guy once when I was 13. I was just horribly misguided and if my parents were more involved with me then I probably wouldnt have ended up with a baby by 17

DownWithMorons 1 child; Tauranga, New Zealand 5516 posts
25th Jan '11
Quoting ~incubator~:" Uhm... what were you ladies up to at the age of 14? I hope not sending nude pictures to several boys...but ... [snip!] ... several boys...but like we were all angels at that age. Some kids that age are already having kids. Wow, I guess that is crazy"


I was having sleepovers with my friends, having fun and interested in my music and things like that. I wasnt thinking of fucking guys, at all.