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lmitchell0012 Illinois 1759 posts
Apr 2nd '11

I don't know what sort of punishment the kids should receive, but the principal should keep his mouth shut about all of this. It's really none of his business. If anything, they should charge him for possession of child p**n. I mean, why does he even have that crap in the first place??

cfxfdfdfdsfdafdsf Vacaville, California 71166 posts
Apr 2nd '11
Quoting Satan:" Yeah. But......where do you draw the line? I mean...you're not just going to say "Here. Suck that guys d**k I would have if i were still your age"?"




the way i see it is... If YOU did it as a teen and saw nothing wrong with it and your child is already doin' it... what's the point in punishing them for it? They're already doin' it and they're goin' to continue to do it whether you punish them or not. I'd much, much rather just make sure my child were takin' all the precautions they needed to be to keep from gettin' std's or pregnant than to punish them and have them sneak around.

I'm not sayin' openly tell your child "oh i did it when i was your age so have fun". but i still wouldn't punish them for it. I'd have a talk, make sure they had everything they needed, and let them know if they needed or wanted to talk, i was there. I guess i just don't see sexual activities as being that big of a deal, as long as the child isn't like 14 or 15 or something. but we're talkin' about kids that are 16 and 17. in that case, i think its pointless to punish.

Idlehands 2 kids; Perth, Australia 6121 posts
Apr 2nd '11

I could be wrong but I'm pretty sure it falls under the laws surrounding the distribution of child pornography.



My own feelings are, if you're going to punish the girl then you should punish the boy also...



I'm not saying she deserved to be punished in the first place but it seems a little bit harsh to punish her and then let the boy go on his merry way.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
Apr 3rd '11
Quoting Lils momma+1*[[HGSM]]:" lol ya i am im so ready for it to be over with this has been a horrible pregnancy"


So has this one, ugh!

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
Apr 3rd '11
Quoting Satan:" Ok..so my previous shit stands. If YOU did a line of coke...would you punish your teen for it? If ... [snip!] ... street...would you punish your toddler for it? etc etc. Why ever punish your kid for ANYTHING that you probably did as a kid?"


:!:



I will punish my child for anything I feel is wrong, whether I did it as a child or not. The point is that that doesnt make it okay, and that I am old enough now to know that what I was doing wasnt always okay, so why make it acceptable for my children?

Rice+Beans 1 child; Hollywood, Florida 6675 posts
Apr 3rd '11
Quoting White Trash Sluttt*:" two minors 16, and 17 are messing around. The girl is giving the guy a blowjob and the guy video's it ... [snip!] ... have called the parent like he did... Or should he have stayed out of it? c.) Should the girl have been punished in any way?"


That happened in Chile.

The boy should be punished for distributing child p**n, invasion of privacy, etc.
The girl didnt do anything.
I guess if the video was causing problems at school, they should have gotten involved, but otherwise, no.

cfxfdfdfdsfdafdsf Vacaville, California 71166 posts
Apr 3rd '11
Quoting Satan:" Ok..so my previous shit stands. If YOU did a line of coke...would you punish your teen for it? If ... [snip!] ... street...would you punish your toddler for it? etc etc. Why ever punish your kid for ANYTHING that you probably did as a kid?"



Mehh.

I think those instances are different than a 17 year old having sex with her boyfriend. I did it at 17, my mother knew about it, she knew i'd do it regardless of being punished or not... She made sure i was on birth control and knew how to otherwise protect myself. She didnt make it something that was okay in her home but otherwise left it alone.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
Apr 4th '11
Quoting Satan:" My mistakes mean that hopefully my children can learn from those rather than need to make their own."


Exactly

B) 1 child; San Diego, California 12049 posts
Apr 4th '11

Yes the boy should be punished. And I do think the principal was right in contacting the parents. I wouldn't have kicked my daughter out though. If anything I would have talked to her and hoped she learned her lesson. That's sad though.