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Can I disown my brother? ♥CAvigu♥ 2 kids; New York 1118 posts
23rd May '11

thanks ladies

The4of_us Due April 2; 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Kansas 1858 posts
23rd May '11

Well, thought I hate my brother for other reasons my answer to your question is YES you can disown him. I disowned my older brother and my life has been better than ever without his mean, nasty, worthless, hateful ass in it.

*And baby makes 4!* Due May 4; 1 child; Ohio 3772 posts
23rd May '11

Wow, thats smurfed up of him to say...

Rette Mich 1 child; Texas 27604 posts
23rd May '11

Couldnt you invite him over get him drunk and kinda hit him with your car? :?

What an asshole.....

gjflkadjflakj North Carolina 791 posts
23rd May '11

My god...my brother is racist, but he would never be stupid enough to flaunt it like that...



:( The entire post makes me extremely sad that even people in the 21st century can be so closed minded...

Sookie Stackhouse Illinois 1621 posts
23rd May '11

:shock: What a fucking asshole.
I'd disown his ass too.

♥CAvigu♥ 2 kids; New York 1118 posts
23rd May '11
Quoting He's my Heart:" Well, thought I hate my brother for other reasons my answer to your question is YES you can disown him. ... [snip!] ... him. I disowned my older brother and my life has been better than ever without his mean, nasty, worthless, hateful ass in it."


He has said some hurtful things to me and well pretty much to all my siblings at some point to another. He is so fucked up I don't get it. He is racist too...my sister was reading a book with black characters and he kept harrassing her saying, "why are you reading a book about N*****s" What the hell he is crazy, my parent's didn't raise us like that, so what gives? ugh.

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
23rd May '11

Oh goodness. That is a LOT of fury. It amazed me that people can hate so much for no good reason. It makes me sad, and I don't know how I could deal with him after seeing that. My family is against gay marriage too, but they don't spew hatred in that way. We stay away from the topic mostly, but if they said those sorts of things I'm not sure how I could have any respect left for them.

♥CAvigu♥ 2 kids; New York 1118 posts
23rd May '11

I should add his wife and son "liked" his status post and the comment he wrote on it as well. His son is being raised with these BS views....he is 14 yrs old. :(

The4of_us Due April 2; 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Kansas 1858 posts
23rd May '11
Quoting ♥CAvigu♥:" He has said some hurtful things to me and well pretty much to all my siblings at some point to another. ... [snip!] ... are you reading a book about N*****s" What the hell he is crazy, my parent's didn't raise us like that, so what gives? ugh."

I look at it like this, will your life be better off without him? I know mine is better off without my older brother in it and people judge me for it but it's only the people who don't know him or I. Because the one's that do know him know exactly why he's out of my life. Do what's best and don't worry about what other's think about your decision!

♥CAvigu♥ 2 kids; New York 1118 posts
23rd May '11
Quoting Teagans_Mom:" Oh goodness. That is a LOT of fury. It amazed me that people can hate so much for no good reason. It ... [snip!] ... away from the topic mostly, but if they said those sorts of things I'm not sure how I could have any respect left for them."


Exactly, my parent's are Mormon and against gay marriage, but they would NEVER talk like that and it upsets them to hear him talk like that.

♥CAvigu♥ 2 kids; New York 1118 posts
23rd May '11
Quoting He's my Heart:" I look at it like this, will your life be better off without him? I know mine is better off without my ... [snip!] ... do know him know exactly why he's out of my life. Do what's best and don't worry about what other's think about your decision!"

Thank you for your advice. He is my older brother as well. He's a lot older than me- 12 years, so I've never felt really close to him, I think that will make it easier to cut him out of my life.

The4of_us Due April 2; 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Kansas 1858 posts
23rd May '11
Quoting ♥CAvigu♥:" Thank you for your advice. He is my older brother as well. He's a lot older than me- 12 years, so I've never felt really close to him, I think that will make it easier to cut him out of my life."


Well I used to be very close to my brother, until I started a family and then he turned on me. Said some horrible things about me and my son. He never met my son, still hasn't and he's 1 and a half and yet has said tons of things that are so hurtful and down right cruel about my little guy. I will never forget or forgive the things he's done or said. I don't need his hate in my life or my kids lives. Do you want your kids to see how he is and how full of hate he is? Good luck, things aren't always easy but in the long run they are for the best.