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..Faith.Hope.Love.. Due July 1; 34 kids; Medford, Oregon 8 posts
27th May '11
Quoting Kyrie ♥'s Monkeys:" Are you f**king stupid? How can you say "I'm not trying to start labor and make him come out but can ... [snip!] ... exactly what you just said you weren't doing. Why would you EVER want to encourage premature birth? Shame on you, that poor kid"


Especially since she claims she already had one NICU baby.



Are you really that selfish? You are not even close to full term, what in God's name makes you so dead set on risking a premature baby?

..Faith.Hope.Love.. Due July 1; 34 kids; Medford, Oregon 8 posts
27th May '11
Quoting Carpenter 4 JeSuS:" not to be on the other persons side - but I had my daughter at 34w5d and her lungs were perfect BUT every baby is dramatically differnt!"


But I bet you weren't trying to get her out that early?

DumpstEr DiveR TTC since Oct 2010; 34 kids; Illinois 7193 posts
27th May '11
Quoting ♥Faith♥:" But I bet you weren't trying to get her out that early?"


no I had HELLP - it was an ER c-section

Mrs. Mendez 2 kids; North Carolina 31 posts
27th May '11
Quoting *~ garden mommy~*:" Wow guys give her a brake ! She is going to go into labor and if her doctor gave her the ok then the ... [snip!] ... fine! My son was 35 weeks and for the most part healthy . She just wanted advise not a lecture ! Geez mommas dont be so harsh ."


How does the doctor know the baby must be fine? Did he jump in her uterus and ask the baby? No, the doctor has no idea until it's born.

..Faith.Hope.Love.. Due July 1; 34 kids; Medford, Oregon 8 posts
27th May '11
Quoting Carpenter 4 JeSuS:" no I had HELLP - it was an ER c-section"


That is a totally different situation. I am very happy that your baby was ok. I am sure if you had a choice and it was medically advised you would have let the baby bake until she was ready

Kyrie ♥'s Monkeys 2 kids; Arizona 52117 posts
27th May '11
Quoting *~ garden mommy~*:" Wow guys give her a brake ! She is going to go into labor and if her doctor gave her the ok then the ... [snip!] ... fine! My son was 35 weeks and for the most part healthy . She just wanted advise not a lecture ! Geez mommas dont be so harsh ."


Doctors taking someone off bedrest is not the ok to try extra hard to have a premature baby and no it doesn't mean the baby is healthy. I had my son at 36 weeks and no he wasn't perfectly healthy just because I wasn't on bedrest anymore. It's horrible advice to tell someone their baby will be fine, it's however not harsh to tell them to wait to avoid a preemie. That's common sense and all parents should have it.

~Proud Mommy to 2 boys~ TTC since Jun 2011; 66 kids; Palm Coast, Florida 5861 posts
27th May '11
Quoting *~ garden mommy~*:" Wow guys give her a brake ! She is going to go into labor and if her doctor gave her the ok then the ... [snip!] ... fine! My son was 35 weeks and for the most part healthy . She just wanted advise not a lecture ! Geez mommas dont be so harsh ."


What does "for the most part" mean?

~Proud Mommy to 2 boys~ TTC since Jun 2011; 66 kids; Palm Coast, Florida 5861 posts
27th May '11
Quoting Kyrie ♥'s Monkeys:" Doctors taking someone off bedrest is not the ok to try extra hard to have a premature baby and no it ... [snip!] ... be fine, it's however not harsh to tell them to wait to avoid a preemie. That's common sense and all parents should have it. "


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*pRoUd MoMmA oF 2!* 2 kids; Indianapolis, Indiana 406 posts
27th May '11
Quoting Carpenter 4 JeSuS:" not to be on the other persons side - but I had my daughter at 34w5d and her lungs were perfect BUT every baby is dramatically differnt!"


your right...every baby is different. But why take the chance? IMO i sure wouldnt want to!

*pRoUd MoMmA oF 2!* 2 kids; Indianapolis, Indiana 406 posts
27th May '11
oops sorry...double post
Hot Mamma In Training 2 kids; Colorado 5078 posts
27th May '11

Yeah guys lets all give her a break NONE of us had pre-term babies, had babies in the NICU and had the heartbreak of watching our babies struggle on the outside. Pre term babies "for the most part" are ok, and gambling with your kids life should be ok right???

I mean doctors and moms can predict how healthy a baby will be at 36 weeks right?

AD3 Due June 23 (boy); Korea 14 posts
27th May '11

Well since every one is tripping my duaghter was born becuase I had High BP and they had to get her out for one and two her lung was completely developed and she spend 10 tens becuase she did not want to eat out of a bottle the only that was he eatting and Army protocall is a baby has to spend atleast 5 days in Nicu before they even think of letting them go. OK no I didnt force her out and no I am not forcing this one out I AM ALREADY GOING.. my doctor would no tell me to go have sex or walk or whatever and let me out of the hosptial were i have been so I was wondering not trying to piss everyone off. but thanks for no help at all and being rude when you HAVE NO IDEA about my story and my labor.. SMH at all you judgemental people who flip out

..Faith.Hope.Love.. Due July 1; 34 kids; Medford, Oregon 8 posts
27th May '11
Quoting *~ garden mommy~*:" Wow guys give her a brake ! She is going to go into labor and if her doctor gave her the ok then the ... [snip!] ... fine! My son was 35 weeks and for the most part healthy . She just wanted advise not a lecture ! Geez mommas dont be so harsh ."


Don't be so harsh?



She is trying to give birth to a premature baby..on purpose. She isn't even close to full term, and being dilated and effaced with contrax doesn't always mean you are going to give birth, some women stay that way for a week or more. And to say "well my baby was born at 35 weeks and was fine" is ridiculas. Yes, maybe he was fine, but not all 35 weekers are fine. Why in the hell would anyone want to risk a premature baby?



It totally selfish and disgusting.

*mommy to a 3rd* 3 kids; Utah 3761 posts
27th May '11

Well he was healthy just loosing oxygen from his cord being deformed :( but he is almost 2 now and a happy camper :)

DumpstEr DiveR TTC since Oct 2010; 34 kids; Illinois 7193 posts
27th May '11
Quoting ♥Faith♥:" That is a totally different situation. I am very happy that your baby was ok. I am sure if you had a choice and it was medically advised you would have let the baby bake until she was ready"



I most definatley would! I would give ANYTHING to beable to have a baby and go to my due date - I wasnt saying it was ok to have the baby early on purpose I was just trying to comfort the other mama about her situation