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TM3308 Ohio 24 posts
21st Feb '08

me and my baby dad talked about it, both thought it was agood idea... we planned to try in september.. i ended up pre in june only about a month after talking about it. we stayed together til october but he never asked about dr apts or anything when i would go... were not togther anymore but we talk every day and i cry every day about it that this baby was planned and i end up alone in the end planning to raise my baby without his parents together... and on top of that my BD told me when i was about 7 months that he had thoughts that i was trying to manipulate him and convince him to have a baby with me cuz i always said hes such a good dad to his other daughter and that 1 day i would wanna have a baby wit him cuz i kno he would always be there [FOR THE BABY] .. so crazy =( but in the end your gonna have you baby so once the baby is here hopefully the baby dad issues will go away, there will be a new focus and priority in life

Double L's Due March 18 (girl); 2 kids; NOYB, NY, United States 322 posts
22nd Feb '08
Quoting 4 more weeks!!!:
Melissa*Landons~Momma* {h 1 child; St Louis, Missouri 944 posts
22nd Feb '08
Quoting anxiouslywaiting9months:
Sleep_Deprived 1 child; United Kingdom 628 posts
22nd Feb '08
Quoting 4 more weeks!!!:
Melissa*Landons~Momma* {h 1 child; St Louis, Missouri 944 posts
22nd Feb '08
Quoting Seleen:
Double L's Due March 18 (girl); 2 kids; NOYB, NY, United States 322 posts
22nd Feb '08
Quoting 4 more weeks!!!:
Sleep_Deprived 1 child; United Kingdom 628 posts
22nd Feb '08
Quoting anxiouslywaiting9months:
Double L's Due March 18 (girl); 2 kids; NOYB, NY, United States 322 posts
22nd Feb '08

No not at all! Pregnancy takes a big toll on your body. Are you on bedrest? If I was I could see why you feel that way.

Sleep_Deprived 1 child; United Kingdom 628 posts
22nd Feb '08

Not bed rest no, but aching all over and can't really get much done ...
I am also a bit of a control freak and really really miss working! :)
so the sitting at home doesn't really do much for me!
And as we've moved .. I don't really know anyone around!

lord-mere' Missouri 1 posts
22nd Feb '08

(sigh) i cant say that i am sorry for you.my prince charming took off during an ultrasound apptand i havent heard from him since. we'd been best friends and lovers for 7 yrs. as a newly single mother-to-be, i am glad he got out of the way. i dont have time to re-raise grown people. i'm scared out of my mind because if i die, i have no clue who would love my child enough to sacrifice and be everything that i am and will be to my child. it hurts like the dickens that he left like that, but i'd rather he be out of the way than to make the life of me and my baby miserable. a lonely bed is better than trash on the next pillow anyday. Family or no, you are the matriarch now. to hell with all negativity. it is neither desired nor required. hold your head up (if morning sickness will allow), grip your belly, and face the world as the brave adult you want and hope your little love to be in the future. i am and strive to be everything i want my baby to be: God-fearing, intelligent, quick-witted, strong, independent, funny, and brave, And cute as can be. I wish you well, I wish you all well.

Double L's Due March 18 (girl); 2 kids; NOYB, NY, United States 322 posts
22nd Feb '08
Quoting lord-mere':
Melissa*Landons~Momma* {h 1 child; St Louis, Missouri 944 posts
22nd Feb '08
Quoting Seleen:
Milkshake Maker 50 kids; Ohio 3698 posts
23rd Feb '08

I was 17 when I found out I was pregnant. It wasn't one of those stories that you normally hear of I thought I had found the right guy. I thought that I had found the right guy 2 years before that, we had been together for 3 years and broke up & I was miserable. I spent the next year with my ex before him who ended up being abusive & I had decided I wasn't going to get myself attatched to any other guys...I kept my heart locked up instead of on my sleeve. 2 months went by without a period and I started to get scared but I didnt say a word to anyone..my mom finally made me take a test. It was positive so I called Zack and he told me Everything would be alright, he would be here no matter what 100%, not even a month later I never heard from him again. Im now 6 months and that guy that I had originally thought was Mister Right, stepped up just to tear me apart some more...left me heartbroken, confused, lonely and used..to take care of my own. The night we broke, I got a call from Zack. Not a call of worry, well maybe worry that now that this guy was out of my life I was coming after him for chid support. Nothing more. But that doesnt matter, because I have all I need and I will make damn sure I am all she needs. You just gotta do what you gotta do. Everything happens for a reason.

staar80 Arizona 2 posts
26th Feb '08

Right here sister. I was doing great before I met him...strong and independent, didn't need no one. Then he comes along and fills my head with dreams of a family only to leave last night. After calling me a bitch three times, he left me. I'm 6 months pregnant.
Quoting Missyd79:
Milkshake Maker 50 kids; Ohio 3698 posts
26th Feb '08
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