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Cast Your Vote:

    • No you're a slutbucket because you want to be. -- Votes: 27
    • Yes it can play a part. -- Votes: 48
    • Idk I know girls with fathers that was promiscuious. -- Votes: 15
Daddy issues and being Promiscuious? B) 1 child; San Diego, California 12049 posts
28th Jun '11

For girls does not having a father around when young cause promiscuity? I was just wanting something a girl said that she slept around and chose bad guys because her father wasn't around.

Do you agree?

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16900 posts
28th Jun '11

i think girls use it as an excuse.

wombie 4 kids; Zimbabwe 73281 posts
28th Jun '11

nah, not for me at least.....my dad wasn't around much when I was a kid and while I did lose my virginity at a young age, I didn't slut around really. I've had 3 sexual partners in my lifetime....I don't think that's bad.



oh, and I'm in love with the term slutbucket :lol:

I do think that some girls look for male attention when their fathers aren't around though. It's something that young girls need and if they don't receive it from their own fathers, many will look elsewhere.

homes cool 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 60938 posts
28th Jun '11

I think fathers play a very important role, however, I think that we make our own choices and need to take responsibility for them. So, could women have "daddy issues"? Sure. Does that mean they aren't responsible for their actions? Nope.

Runαwαy Slave 1 child; New Orleans, Louisiana 65504 posts
28th Jun '11

I agree that not having a father can play a part in a young woman reaching out for attention from other people and possibly getting the wrong kind of attention.

The Biscuit Farmer. 2 kids; Vagina, Russian Federation 9128 posts
28th Jun '11

No.. I dated some really shitty guys. The players, the druggies, the sluts, the partiers, etc. And my father was in my life. He worked a lot to support us, but he was there for me.

Regina♥ Due March 14; 3 kids; Storybrooke, ME, United States 3466 posts
28th Jun '11
Quoting meggg+two.♥[20]:" i think girls use it as an excuse. "

:!::!:

Leisurely Duchess 1 child; Monterey, California 25884 posts
28th Jun '11

It says more about that girl's mother than her father.

The Biscuit Farmer. 2 kids; Vagina, Russian Federation 9128 posts
28th Jun '11
Quoting The Biscuit Farmer [WP]:" No.. I dated some really shitty guys. The players, the druggies, the sluts, the partiers, etc. And my father was in my life. He worked a lot to support us, but he was there for me. "

Oh, let me add that I didn't SLEEP AROUND. I was just involved with bad guys. I've only slept with two guys, one being my BD. lol

Tavi 1 child; Washington 24396 posts
28th Jun '11

I never called it "daddy issues" with me...



When my mom and dad divorced, I was free to do whatever...



so yea...I slutted around for a bit.
Not because my dad was gone though....well...I don't know..



If he was around, I know I wouldn't have got away with that crap. Still though, It's not like I was being a skank and thinking oh my gosh, I wish my dad loves me,lol....



No way...



I'm no sucka.

Crackeddy Ann 1 child; Maryland 7835 posts
28th Jun '11

I can see how not having a father around might create the need for additional male affection and approval. Same goes for those with fathers who could never be pleased. Then again, my Dad was around but not like he should have been. I consider myself to be fully raised by my Mother. My Dad played such a small part in that. I've never been promiscuous.

B) 1 child; San Diego, California 12049 posts
28th Jun '11
Quoting Leisurely Duchess:" It says more about that girl's mother than her father."

How so?

Mama to a Little Dinosaur 1 child; North Richland Hills, Texas 2261 posts
28th Jun '11

eh, i think it's just an excuse. two sisters from my mom & step-dad are, and he basically was never around. one sister from my dad & step-mom is a total slut...and he was around...so yeah..
anyhow, slutbucket-- great word lol

ρiηkie ρie 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Kentucky 21902 posts
28th Jun '11

I think it can play a part sometimes. In some situations girls will subconsciously look for a father figure in a mate and will sometimes do just about anything for that person's affection because they didn't get it growing up, including being promiscuous. Like they're trying to fill a void. And it can lead to trouble. But it really depends on the girl, some girls are "slutbuckets" because they want to be.

Kyrie ♥'s Monkeys 2 kids; why, az, United States 52117 posts
28th Jun '11

I think it can play a part but I also think it's over used as an excuse. If you want to f**k everything in sight because you want to at least have the balls to admit it.



To add my own experience my dad was murdered when I was a child so I have plenty of daddy issues and I'm not a slut.