Cast Your Vote:

    • No you're a slutbucket because you want to be. -- Votes: 27
    • Yes it can play a part. -- Votes: 48
    • Idk I know girls with fathers that was promiscuious. -- Votes: 15
Jazelle 1 child; North Carolina 2003 posts
28th Jun '11
Quoting Leisurely Duchess:" :shock: I never quite understood the whole calling DH/BF "daddy" thing, frankly it sounds a tad perverse to me."

to me, that shit is NOT cute. but it's an ego booster for a lot of men, especially during sex apparently.

B) 1 child; San Diego, California 12049 posts
28th Jun '11

Gosh I noticed I didn't even give my opinion..

But yes I agree that it does play apart. I have seen friends do it For a example a friend. She dates only other men because they have money.. she's 18 (she just tunred 18) and the men she date are 35 and up.. But her father was in and out of jail and emotionally and physically absusive. My dad wasn't around much and I'm not promiscuious... but I think it depends on the person and the situation...

And most of the time I don't the these ladies even like the sex they just like the attention..

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
28th Jun '11
Quoting Maya(+)Aiden:" Gosh I noticed I didn't even give my opinion.. But yes I agree that it does play apart. I have seen ... [snip!] ... person and the situation... And most of the time I don't the these ladies even like the sex they just like the attention.."

You're correct. It's a form of acceptance.

empire state of mind New York, New York 12203 posts
28th Jun '11

I had a father and I was promiscuous. If was a personality flaw in and of myself and had nothing to do with how my parents did or didn't raise me.

Clk 2 kids; Dexter, Michigan 11558 posts
28th Jun '11

I think every person is different and will react differently to an absent father. Some can grow up without any issues, others grow up feeling unloved and needing the extra attention. They generally seek the attention in all the wrong places and/or people.

john casey (mtka) 3 kids; Bradley, Illinois 21994 posts
28th Jun '11

i wouldnt say i was overly promiscuious... (only 5 sexual partners) but i do think i would have not slept with 2 of them had i not been feeling rejected by my dad.

hoowever the men i dated were never bad guys. there is one thing i can say about the women in my family... we all manage to snag good men.

Samy Moore Due October 20; 1 child; Accrington, United Kingdom 8 posts
7th May '13

I was never promiscuous and my father wasn't around , i think girls use it as an excuse

michaela (: Louisiana 191 posts
7th May '13

Well, my therapist tells me that I had sex with so many older guys because my father was pretty much absent (he moved to Texas when I was five, got married, ditched me and my sister for his new wife, tells us he loves her more than us, etc.).

I was just a wh**e, lol. I don't think it had anything to do with my "daddy issues".

Rice+Beans 1 child; Hollywood, Florida 6675 posts
7th May '13
Quoting B):" For girls does not having a father around when young cause promiscuity? I was just wanting something ... [snip!] ... just wanting something a girl said that she slept around and chose bad guys because her father wasn't around. Do you agree?"

It can play a part. I don

Interrobang!? 6 kids; Ontario 1176 posts
8th May '13

I have mommy issues, so I guess that's why I'm not a slutbucket and have only been with one man.

You and me + 4 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4113 posts
8th May '13

My father was never really around and my mother didnt show much love so i mistook sex for love quite often. I never really enjoyed sex, i still dont. I would give it up and expect a happily ever after when most guys only used and abused me. I sought love from older men, much older men. It played a major role in my life with my father not really being there and my mom having a favorite child. I know i made my own choices but it definitely played role and caused psychological issues where i have a hard time opening up to anyone anymore.

Kaleighshaleigh 3 kids; USA 5487 posts
8th May '13

All the promiscuous girls that I know and have known had daddy issues. Either the father wasn't there or the father that was there didn't give them the attention they needed and didn't make them feel as special as men did that wanted sex from them.

Proginoskes II 3 kids; North Carolina 1295 posts
8th May '13

I had a great dad that was around as much as he could be- he worked his ass off. I wasn't really "promiscuous", but I was a major flirt/tease. It's just my personality, I think I've been a nympho since I discovered masturbation at 11/12 and sex at 14. I did seek attention, but I think that was just my depression- that really had nothing to do with how I was raised, it runs in my family.

Lumen.Ash Due November 23; 1 child; Denver, Colorado 1272 posts
8th May '13

My dad is a wonderful guy and was with me my whole childhood and still one of my best friends...

But after my divorce from my first husband.... I turned into a major slutbucket...