Cast Your Vote:
- No you're a slutbucket because you want to be. -- Votes: 27
- Yes it can play a part. -- Votes: 48
- Idk I know girls with fathers that was promiscuious. -- Votes: 15
Quoting Leisurely Duchess:" :shock: I never quite understood the whole calling DH/BF "daddy" thing, frankly it sounds a tad perverse to me."
to me, that shit is NOT cute. but it's an ego booster for a lot of men, especially during sex apparently.
Gosh I noticed I didn't even give my opinion..
But yes I agree that it does play apart. I have seen friends do it For a example a friend. She dates only other men because they have money.. she's 18 (she just tunred 18) and the men she date are 35 and up.. But her father was in and out of jail and emotionally and physically absusive. My dad wasn't around much and I'm not promiscuious... but I think it depends on the person and the situation...
And most of the time I don't the these ladies even like the sex they just like the attention..
Quoting Maya(+)Aiden:" Gosh I noticed I didn't even give my opinion.. But yes I agree that it does play apart. I have seen ... [snip!] ... person and the situation... And most of the time I don't the these ladies even like the sex they just like the attention.."
You're correct. It's a form of acceptance.
I had a father and I was promiscuous. If was a personality flaw in and of myself and had nothing to do with how my parents did or didn't raise me.
I think every person is different and will react differently to an absent father. Some can grow up without any issues, others grow up feeling unloved and needing the extra attention. They generally seek the attention in all the wrong places and/or people.
i wouldnt say i was overly promiscuious... (only 5 sexual partners) but i do think i would have not slept with 2 of them had i not been feeling rejected by my dad.
hoowever the men i dated were never bad guys. there is one thing i can say about the women in my family... we all manage to snag good men.
I was never promiscuous and my father wasn't around , i think girls use it as an excuse
Well, my therapist tells me that I had sex with so many older guys because my father was pretty much absent (he moved to Texas when I was five, got married, ditched me and my sister for his new wife, tells us he loves her more than us, etc.).
I was just a wh**e, lol. I don't think it had anything to do with my "daddy issues".
Quoting B):" For girls does not having a father around when young cause promiscuity? I was just wanting something ... [snip!] ... just wanting something a girl said that she slept around and chose bad guys because her father wasn't around. Do you agree?"
It can play a part. I don
I have mommy issues, so I guess that's why I'm not a slutbucket and have only been with one man.
My father was never really around and my mother didnt show much love so i mistook sex for love quite often. I never really enjoyed sex, i still dont. I would give it up and expect a happily ever after when most guys only used and abused me. I sought love from older men, much older men. It played a major role in my life with my father not really being there and my mom having a favorite child. I know i made my own choices but it definitely played role and caused psychological issues where i have a hard time opening up to anyone anymore.
All the promiscuous girls that I know and have known had daddy issues. Either the father wasn't there or the father that was there didn't give them the attention they needed and didn't make them feel as special as men did that wanted sex from them.
I had a great dad that was around as much as he could be- he worked his ass off. I wasn't really "promiscuous", but I was a major flirt/tease. It's just my personality, I think I've been a nympho since I discovered masturbation at 11/12 and sex at 14. I did seek attention, but I think that was just my depression- that really had nothing to do with how I was raised, it runs in my family.