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The Time Police TTC since Apr 2014; 1 angel baby; Cold Lake, AB, Canada 33341 posts
status 5th Jul '11
Quoting ma ♥:" Oh gosh :( Idk where I got 12 weeks then... oops."


I see you're from California. It's 24 weeks there too, if I'm not mistaken.

Mom of 2 Monkeys 2 kids; St. Louis, Michigan 18161 posts
5th Jul '11

weigh pro's and cons.. if its something you aren't 100% about I wouldn't go through with it (abortion) , if you think you can't financially support a child there is always adoption.. but the choice is yours :)

inevitabledisaster18 Due January 1; Nevada 27 posts
5th Jul '11
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K[♥ E&C] 2 kids; Nevada 25704 posts
5th Jul '11
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Meℓony ♥ 1 child; Huntsville, AL, United States 3798 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting K[♥ E]+1:" I think she meant wouldn't get one based off of guilt."


:!::!::!:

Jasify Due September 2; 2 kids; South Carolina 31243 posts
5th Jul '11
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ma ♥ 1 child; California 63053 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting Boobylicious:" I see you're from California. It's 24 weeks there too, if I'm not mistaken."


Yikes! I really did not know that!

K[♥ E&C] 2 kids; Nevada 25704 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting inevitabledisaster18:" that's not the only reason it's because if it were the other guy's baby I wouldn't have any support ... [snip!] ... my friend and would feel better off. Plus the other guys deceased so I can't get help from him. That;s why it's a big deal."


There are programs to help single mothers. And even if the one night stand that's deceased is the father, i'm sure his family would still want to know their sons child.
I don't know, it's not an easy decision.

The Time Police TTC since Apr 2014; 1 angel baby; Cold Lake, AB, Canada 33341 posts
status 5th Jul '11
Quoting inevitabledisaster18:" that's not the only reason it's because if it were the other guy's baby I wouldn't have any support ... [snip!] ... my friend and would feel better off. Plus the other guys deceased so I can't get help from him. That;s why it's a big deal."


Oh no, I'm sorry about your friend... Would his family help you in any way?

Meℓony ♥ 1 child; Huntsville, AL, United States 3798 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting K[♥ E]+1:" There are programs to help single mothers. And even if the one night stand that's deceased is the father, ... [snip!] ... is the father, i'm sure his family would still want to know their sons child. I don't know, it's not an easy decision."


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Cayden'sMommy :) Due July 8; Georgia 143 posts
5th Jul '11

hate to say this but how far along are you? because I felt my baby move at 14 weeks so if you choose the abortion option you may want to decide before you feel him/her because that changed everything to me. But then again I felt my baby relatively 'early'

HotMom21ERF Due December 17; 1 child; Kentucky 19586 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting Cayden'sMommy :):" hate to say this but how far along are you? because I felt my baby move at 14 weeks so if you choose ... [snip!] ... want to decide before you feel him/her because that changed everything to me. But then again I felt my baby relatively 'early'"

she's 14 weeks......

Cayden'sMommy :) Due July 8; Georgia 143 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" she's 14 weeks......"


:/ sorry

(♥ my littles] Due November 27; 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Oakfield, WI, United States 3756 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting inevitabledisaster18:" that's not the only reason it's because if it were the other guy's baby I wouldn't have any support ... [snip!] ... my friend and would feel better off. Plus the other guys deceased so I can't get help from him. That;s why it's a big deal."


well if its proven that he's the dad i believe you would get some kind of survivor benefits..

(♥ my littles] Due November 27; 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Oakfield, WI, United States 3756 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting K[♥ E]+1:" I think she meant wouldn't get one based off of guilt."


oh i was gonna say ... thats terrible. but if she was saying that she WOULDNT get one based on not knowing who the dad was, thats different then.