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Jasify Due September 2; 2 kids; South Carolina 31243 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting (♥ my littles]
ma ♥ 1 child; California 63053 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting Boobylicious:" I see you're from California. It's 24 weeks there too, if I'm not mistaken."


Yikes! I really did not know that!

K[♥ E&C] 2 kids; Nevada 25704 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting inevitabledisaster18:" that's not the only reason it's because if it were the other guy's baby I wouldn't have any support ... [snip!] ... my friend and would feel better off. Plus the other guys deceased so I can't get help from him. That;s why it's a big deal."


There are programs to help single mothers. And even if the one night stand that's deceased is the father, i'm sure his family would still want to know their sons child.
I don't know, it's not an easy decision.

Meℓony ♥ 1 child; Huntsville, AL, United States 3798 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting K[♥ E]+1:" There are programs to help single mothers. And even if the one night stand that's deceased is the father, ... [snip!] ... is the father, i'm sure his family would still want to know their sons child. I don't know, it's not an easy decision."


:!:

Cayden'sMommy :) Due July 8 (boy); Georgia 143 posts
5th Jul '11

hate to say this but how far along are you? because I felt my baby move at 14 weeks so if you choose the abortion option you may want to decide before you feel him/her because that changed everything to me. But then again I felt my baby relatively 'early'

HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20681 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting Cayden'sMommy :):" hate to say this but how far along are you? because I felt my baby move at 14 weeks so if you choose ... [snip!] ... want to decide before you feel him/her because that changed everything to me. But then again I felt my baby relatively 'early'"

she's 14 weeks......

Cayden'sMommy :) Due July 8 (boy); Georgia 143 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" she's 14 weeks......"


:/ sorry

(Pregulator♡] Due November 27 (girl); 2 kids; 4 angel babies; I'll Never Tell..., WI, United States 3987 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting inevitabledisaster18:" that's not the only reason it's because if it were the other guy's baby I wouldn't have any support ... [snip!] ... my friend and would feel better off. Plus the other guys deceased so I can't get help from him. That;s why it's a big deal."


well if its proven that he's the dad i believe you would get some kind of survivor benefits..

(Pregulator♡] Due November 27 (girl); 2 kids; 4 angel babies; I'll Never Tell..., WI, United States 3987 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting K[♥ E]+1:" I think she meant wouldn't get one based off of guilt."


oh i was gonna say ... thats terrible. but if she was saying that she WOULDNT get one based on not knowing who the dad was, thats different then.

inevitabledisaster18 Due January 1; Nevada 27 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting | Mama Dee *:" What about co-parenting with your friend regardless of who the father is!? :)"


yea but my parents would not support me if it was with the other guy

inevitabledisaster18 Due January 1; Nevada 27 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting (♥ my littles]
HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20681 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting inevitabledisaster18:" yea but my parents would not support me if it was with the other guy"

sooo....dont tell them?

Vindictive 50 kids; Switzerland 30558 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting inevitabledisaster18:" yea but my parents would not support me if it was with the other guy"


Why do you need their support? You live on your own, have your own job.. if they don't like who fathered your child, they can suck it IMO.

inevitabledisaster18 Due January 1; Nevada 27 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting Liam's Mommy + 1:" you CAN find out pretty early with amnio. i'm not sure how early though...and there is always a risk of losing the baby, but it's extremely small. good luck!"


how could that be made possible?

inevitabledisaster18 Due January 1; Nevada 27 posts
5th Jul '11
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" sooo....dont tell them?"


wouldn't matter if I told or not. They'd know. They could tell when the baby is born. They are racist xenophobic and just hate anyone with a different religion race from a different country gays of course. Just anybody who's slightly different. My friend is italian. He's also going to be in the baby's life if it's his and he's bisexual so I know they wouldn't think nicely of him but our child would be acceptable even though it's an immigrant's child. I feel maybe they could get past that if they didn't find that out for like a while... But that might not appear if I was having his baby. The other guy is african american. There's no hiding that.