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Feeling so ugly during this pregnancy d;E;L;E;T;E;D Due December 11; 1 child; Texas 48 posts
28th Jul '11

Why is it when I was pg with my son I felt so sexy n would put on my make up my hair was glamerous n me n the hubby had sex all the time but now that im pg wit my daughter I feel freakin ugly n look ugly im not in the mood for sex.my husband doesnt want to have sex with me anymore wich im not complaining I dont want to eaither its gross to me now am I the only one feeling like this n my hair hormones is growing in faster ughhh driving me crazy I just want to have her n get it over with already HELP LADIES!!!!

user banned Fresno, 2717 posts
28th Jul '11

Girl I feel the same way, except we still have lots of sex if not more! But with my son omg my hair was perfect so was my skin, I did gain A LOT of weight but I felt pretty!



This pregnancy I am only 14 weeks in and my skin is broke out bad, my hair is shit, and I just feel like shit and know I don't look great, I hate it!

Chicago Mayflower Mommy Due March 16; 20 kids; Arizona 1986 posts
28th Jul '11
Quoting }.:KRISTIAN:.{:" Why is it when I was pg with my son I felt so sexy n would put on my make up my hair was glamerous n ... [snip!] ... my hair hormones is growing in faster ughhh driving me crazy I just want to have her n get it over with already HELP LADIES!!!!"


Well I look like a freagin' whale and I'm only 18 weeks along and feel so gross and fat, especially since people actually argue with me insisting I"m having twins, then tell me I"m too huge to be having one...no joke..and guess what, they're ALL women who say that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I felt sexy with my 1st too and I was much bigger - and I still had rude women making "twins/triplet" commemts..........every pregnancy is different.......maybe because your 1st pregnancy was so new and it's not something you've ever experienced and didn't know what to expect and you were wholeheartedly loving every second of it, but now that you're pregnant with your 2nd, the joy of being pregnant isn't there are much because you're realizing thigns you didn't the first time around. That's what I'm going through right now.

DescendedDelight TTC since Nov 2012; 1 child; Addison, Texas 18697 posts
28th Jul '11

Awe, lol. You're not ugly! You're a beautiful woman who's carrying another life, that makes you all that much more pretty.
You'll get past this. Soon you'll back on pregnancy pictures, while you hold your little miracle and realize just how beautiful you actually looked the entire time.
We pretty much all feel this way in our pregnancies at one point or another.
You'll be okay. <3

Chicago Mayflower Mommy Due March 16; 20 kids; Arizona 1986 posts
28th Jul '11
Quoting MommaTara:" Girl I feel the same way, except we still have lots of sex if not more! But with my son omg my hair was ... [snip!] ... 14 weeks in and my skin is broke out bad, my hair is shit, and I just feel like shit and know I don't look great, I hate it!"

Oh I know....my face looks like a pepperoni pizza and I look like a freagin' whale. LOL!

user banned Fresno, 2717 posts
28th Jul '11
Quoting CubsBearsTattooGalofOneBo:" Oh I know....my face looks like a pepperoni pizza and I look like a freagin' whale. LOL! "


Makes NO sense I have ALWAYS had a perfect complexion, NEVER had acne, even in my first pregnancy. Now its like oh hey chin looks like you were shit all over by the acne gods. and sometimes even on my chest ill get one or two!

Impatiently waiting 3 kids; Michigan 1225 posts
28th Jul '11

I heard that being pregnant with girls takes your beauty away and being pregnant with a boy makes you more attractive. I personally see a huge difference with this pregnancy. I'm having a boy now and my SO says I'm one sexy pregnant chick lol
But I still have my days where I don't feel sexy at all. We are half way there mama!

d;E;L;E;T;E;D Due December 11; 1 child; Texas 48 posts
28th Jul '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommaTara:</b>" Girl I feel the same way, except we still have lots of sex if not more! But with my son omg my hair was ... [snip!] ... 14 weeks in and my skin is broke out bad, my hair is shit, and I just feel like shit and know I don't look great, I hate it!"</blockquote>



Omg I forgot yes my chin looks like shit I have acne scars n keep breaking out all over my face n my face is oily eww well its a relief im not the only one I wish I can feel pretty again well let me say this I uste to want to do it all the time but its dirty now omg but yes I hate it too:(

Chicago Mayflower Mommy Due March 16; 20 kids; Arizona 1986 posts
28th Jul '11
Quoting MommaTara:" Makes NO sense I have ALWAYS had a perfect complexion, NEVER had acne, even in my first pregnancy. ... [snip!] ... Now its like oh hey chin looks like you were shit all over by the acne gods. and sometimes even on my chest ill get one or two!"

During my 1st trimester, I gained more but my skin was always radient and I never broke out and my hair was beautiful....this time around, my hair is dry and frizzy and it doesn't matter what I put in it (anti-frizz stuff), it doesn't help. I'm just a walking disaster! LOL!

user banned Fresno, 2717 posts
28th Jul '11
Quoting CubsBearsTattooGalofOneBo:" During my 1st trimester, I gained more but my skin was always radient and I never broke out and my hair ... [snip!] ... dry and frizzy and it doesn't matter what I put in it (anti-frizz stuff), it doesn't help. I'm just a walking disaster! LOL! "


ahhh! Im exactly the same, i am constantly smuthering on lotion its so gross still, my hair litterally is the worst its ever been, i can't do much with it cause its so frizzy and a big mess. wahh

Chicago Mayflower Mommy Due March 16; 20 kids; Arizona 1986 posts
28th Jul '11
Quoting Impatiently waiting:" I heard that being pregnant with girls takes your beauty away and being pregnant with a boy makes you ... [snip!] ... my SO says I'm one sexy pregnant chick lol But I still have my days where I don't feel sexy at all. We are half way there mama!"

Nope - I looked so much better with my 1st son and look terriblet his time around and am having another boy. Old wives' tale maybe?

d;E;L;E;T;E;D Due December 11; 1 child; Texas 48 posts
28th Jul '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting DescendedDelight:</b>" Awe, lol. You're not ugly! You're a beautiful woman who's carrying another life, that makes you all that ... [snip!] ... looked the entire time. We pretty much all feel this way in our pregnancies at one point or another. You'll be okay. <3"</blockquote>




Aww thnks that makes me feel better=)

Chicago Mayflower Mommy Due March 16; 20 kids; Arizona 1986 posts
28th Jul '11
Quoting MommaTara:" ahhh! Im exactly the same, i am constantly smuthering on lotion its so gross still, my hair litterally is the worst its ever been, i can't do much with it cause its so frizzy and a big mess. wahh"

Yeah I've never had to use this much make-up and I know that clogs pours, but I have to keep covering up...it's gotten so bad around my forehead that if I don't cover it up for a day, I'm going to break out like crazy anyway and it will look terrible. UGGGH!

d;E;L;E;T;E;D Due December 11; 1 child; Texas 48 posts
28th Jul '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommaTara:</b>" ahhh! Im exactly the same, i am constantly smuthering on lotion its so gross still, my hair litterally is the worst its ever been, i can't do much with it cause its so frizzy and a big mess. wahh"</blockquote>




Me too ugh I just want to chop it off so darn frizzy

Impatiently waiting 3 kids; Michigan 1225 posts
28th Jul '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting CubsBearsTattooGalofOneBo:</b>" Nope - I looked so much better with my 1st son and look terriblet his time around and am having another boy. Old wives' tale maybe? "</blockquote>




Yes definitely think it's an old wives tale