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Autumn's mommy2011 Due May 12 (girl); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Minnesota 797 posts
Aug 14th '11
Quoting baby mama bunny:" <blockquote><b>Quoting cute-baby-maker:</b>" At first we were both in shocked but ... [snip!] ... safe from him and that all i care about"</blockquote> Omg....I don't understand how people can just change like that!"


I don't either...but they do and sometime you just have to do what best your you even if it hurts

user banned 1 child; Illinois 3734 posts
Aug 14th '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting cute-baby-maker:</b>" I don't either...but they do and sometime you just have to do what best your you even if it hurts"</blockquote>



I know but this scares me too

*Glitter*[V^VIP] 1 child; Ohio 21546 posts
Aug 14th '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting baby mama bunny:</b>" I'm now scared of him. I'm scared of this situation. I'm scared of this case. I still haven't told my ... [snip!] ... honest with me but I don't know if he'll be to them. BD will probably lie about a lot and I don't want to loose my daughter."</blockquote>




You need to talk to someone in your family.. no matter your past with them (good or bad) I couldn't seee any person with a soul to say no to someone in there own family. (Ya..I have some.. not on good terms with a few family members, but if they ever came to me.. and asked for help. I would help them as much as I could. Same with my friends.)
Talk to someone.. you need a support system while going through this!
Ok.. if he lies to them... then that's on him. You know the truth, and that's all that should matter right now. Of course your scared of everything that is going on, I'm sure there are mixed emotions running throw ur mind right now (and for the past few days) THIS is why u need someone to talk too,ask dcfs if they have anyone..or they can at least point you in the right direction.
To help you pick aside the emotions that are keeping you scared, and get rid of them. Someone to give you that little "push" to make the right choices and not be scared of the choices u do make.




Do you have ANY close family? If so, I personally would of been on their door step the day/night this happen.
Call dcfs again, and please get some sort of support system. (I know you said earlier u think u might have PPD.. I personally know those feelings suck..on top of this? You should really talk to someone!!)

*Glitter*[V^VIP] 1 child; Ohio 21546 posts
Aug 14th '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting baby mama bunny:</b>" He's got way to much stuff for me to pack up on my own and furniture. I'm sure that will all be figured ... [snip!] ... I know in still in denial and I'm scared for when it fully hits me. I want my family back but I know that that could never be."</blockquote>




Well at least put his clothes in trash bags. (And other small things)



"People change so you can learn to let go". (Part of a quote I have on my profile)



Well.. it has to do with your actions, like I said earlier... you "tell" people how to treat you! Let someone know if they hurt your feelings, or you are pissed. Don't let anyone treat you bad, if they do.. f**k em' they shouldn't be in ur life.
BUT the subject isn't on bad luck with guys... having a SO should be the least of your worries right now. Take this time to find yourself, get your shit together for your daughter, and maybe..then...worry about why u have bad luck with guys.

Neens TTC since Dec 2008; Georgia 5578 posts
Aug 14th '11

OP, THANK YOU for taking your LO to get checked out. Don't you feel better now that its been done? I know that we all do. I hope she's ok.

☆stumbleine ☆ 4 kids; d***o, 12138 posts
Aug 14th '11
Quoting baby mama bunny:" <blockquote><b>Quoting cute-baby-maker:</b>" I don't either...but they do and sometime ... [snip!] ... do and sometime you just have to do what best your you even if it hurts"</blockquote> I know but this scares me too"


OP. THANK YOU for listening to all of us and getting your daughter away and checked as hard as it was for you. I'm so happy I could cry. Feel free to message me anytime, I'm always a good listener and to vent to but terrible with advice.

MILK ON TAP Due March 3; 8 kids; Ethiopia 12034 posts
Aug 14th '11
Quoting ☆stumbleine ☆:" OP. THANK YOU for listening to all of us and getting your daughter away and checked as hard as it was ... [snip!] ... I'm so happy I could cry. Feel free to message me anytime, I'm always a good listener and to vent to but terrible with advice."


:!:
you sound like me haha

Squid Kid Unavailable, NA, United States 32450 posts
Aug 14th '11

For legal reasons, you can not throw his stuff out. (Save yourself getting sued later) What you have to do is rent a storage locker and give him the key. Quit paying rent on it, when they claim his locker from him not paying, then that's his problem and you have nothing on your head legally.

*Glitter*[V^VIP] 1 child; Ohio 21546 posts
Aug 14th '11
Quoting Mommy to Paige:" For legal reasons, you can not throw his stuff out. (Save yourself getting sued later) What you have ... [snip!] ... rent on it, when they claim his locker from him not paying, then that's his problem and you have nothing on your head legally."


Not if you give them notice that you are going to do it.
Cover your tracks.. make sure you send it in a text, and call him. So you are letting him know... and give it 3 days. Which is long enough for someone to come and pick their shit up.
i've thrown shit away before, he never came and got it. I called him that day and told him.. he said he didn't give a f**k.. so i threw it away.

miss.Amandalyn Due July 28 (boy); 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1333 posts
Aug 14th '11

what happneed

Millie&Avi's mama EBF 2 kids; Illinois 7086 posts
Aug 14th '11

I will be sleeping a whole let better tonight.
OP thank you for doing the right thing.

user banned 1 child; Illinois 3734 posts
Aug 15th '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting Neens:</b>" OP, THANK YOU for taking your LO to get checked out. Don't you feel better now that its been done? I know that we all do. I hope she's ok."</blockquote>




I told y'all I did. And yeah I did feel better