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Text buddies?? Abby and Angel Tylers Mom 17 kids; Fairfield, Maine 60 posts
24th Aug '11

So I just found out that my husband had joined something called Live Journal and found group called "Texting Buddies" whom he has had contact with several females from all over the US. They only text during the day while he was at work and this just came to surface recently during a fight we had. He said that he has since stopped talking with these females but I have noticed that he is also trying to re-establish friendships with past friends (mostly female ((and most are old ex's or f**k buddies)) that he had never talked about previously). He said that he is home sick and most of his friends growing up were females and that is the only reason behind any of it. I am an emotional wreck and feel that if he is re-establishing all of these past relationships he is trying to dig up or uncover past feelings. I have been cheated on before (not by him that I know of) and I am confused on whether I am just blowing this out of proportion or if I am justified in being completley jealous and pissed off. Please help.

Le Poof Virginia 12615 posts
24th Aug '11

if mine started texting random girls i would be a little put out.

Shanda [KSLB] Due April 22 (girl); 1 child; McDonough, Georgia 2354 posts
24th Aug '11

Excuse my wording, but its sounds like
hes trying to get some strange.. =/

Le Poof Virginia 12615 posts
24th Aug '11
Quoting Preg*a*saurus!!:" Excuse my wording, but its sounds like hes trying to get some strange.. =/"


i didnt want to say that :oops:

Shanda [KSLB] Due April 22 (girl); 1 child; McDonough, Georgia 2354 posts
24th Aug '11
Quoting [♥]Tater Snot{BMM}:" i didnt want to say that :oops:"


I didnt either, but I felt it should be mentioned..
:(

2 Boys + 1 3 kids; New York 2063 posts
24th Aug '11

Im not saying anything weird is or isnt happening. But I do know that when i was growing up all of my friends were guys. When I got married we moved away, and I pretty much lost contact with them. When my hubby and I moved back, I really felt like I had no friends because if I was to get ahold of them it would cause a big problem. So I kinda know what hes saying there. However the whole texting random girls thing, would kinda be a red flag for me!!

OH Brother! 17 kids; Pennsylvania 2257 posts
24th Aug '11

Hell I have childhood friends I'd like to get in contact with, Facebook has let me do that. Guys especially. SO doesn't care. SO is in contact with alot of his female friends exes and such he sees it as exes are exes for a reason. You can date someone and later be friends again. The only redflag I see is contacting random women. That would worry me a bit.