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Carter&Violet♥ She Gone! 2 kids; Virginia 14177 posts
11th Apr '13
Quoting Iron Man:" I sincerely reassure you, it does not. Trust me...you're really, really fertile after you give birth, so unless you want Irish twins...."


we've had sex four times, all with condoms. plus I took a test two weeks ago- I just cannot take birth control, so i'm trying to persuade my husband into getting a vasectomy. I would cry, that would be the worst.

lauren 3 kids; Virginia 32436 posts
status 11th Apr '13
Quoting Carter&Violet♥:" I just had a lotttttt of bleeding with the mirena, like it scares me that it's going to irritate my uterus."


Ah gotcha. Yeah, I have no idea what I wanna do for BC after this baby. Like you, I'm scared/nervous to get the IUD.

Alba's Mommy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Sacramento, California 4701 posts
11th Apr '13
Quoting Carter&Violet♥:" she wakes up at like 3 and 7am. I don't know when I ovulate even when I do have periods so I'm not sure. ... [snip!] ... bill or it be worse. I suck at remembering BC & i've seen too many friends with health issues from the patch and shot."


Lol, that's when you tell him that you're worried over the health issues from all the BC methods you can medically take/have done, so your new form of BC is abstinence...unless he gets a vasectomy. Lol.



My friend/SIL has blood platelet issues every pregnancy. They get pretty serious, so after her second, she decided she was completely done. She didn't get her tubes tied, but she had some procedure done where they create a bunch of scar tissue in your tubes, so she doesn't even have periods anymore. I'm pretty sure she said it can be reversed...but that chances of conceiving after reversal are much smaller than before.

Alba's Mommy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Sacramento, California 4701 posts
11th Apr '13
Quoting Iron Man:" I sincerely reassure you, it does not. Trust me...you're really, really fertile after you give birth, so unless you want Irish twins...."


I agree. One of my friends thought the EBF was enough. It wasn't. Her son is only 13 months older than his sister. My other friend wasn't quite EBF (her baby was preemie, so she was pumping, BF'ing, & using formula) and her kids are 15 months apart. It happens...more than I think people know.

αuτumnαl ~, FL, United States 67306 posts
11th Apr '13
Quoting Iron Man:" Damn, that is messed up. Not just the name, either... Anyone have a girl's name that starts with Ari ... [snip!] ... starts with Ari or Eri, or even just Ar or Er, (pronounced like air) that is NOT Arianna? That's the only one I can find..."


Ariadne
Ariadna
Aria
Arianrhod
Arielle
Ariella
Arista



Arabella
Araceli
Arwen
Arcadia
Arline
Arnaude
Artemis



Erika
Erin
Eris

αuτumnαl ~, FL, United States 67306 posts
11th Apr '13
Quoting Carter&Violet♥:" we've had sex four times, all with condoms. plus I took a test two weeks ago- I just cannot take birth ... [snip!] ... cannot take birth control, so i'm trying to persuade my husband into getting a vasectomy. I would cry, that would be the worst."


Why can't you get your tubes tied?

Carter&Violet♥ She Gone! 2 kids; Virginia 14177 posts
11th Apr '13
Quoting mαkαnαni:" Why can't you get your tubes tied?"


i'm only 23. I have to have 3 kids or be 25

αuτumnαl ~, FL, United States 67306 posts
11th Apr '13
Quoting Carter&Violet♥:" i'm only 23. I have to have 3 kids or be 25"



I've never understood that rule.

user banned Due September 18 (boy); 1 child; California 21617 posts
11th Apr '13

Going through the "how to choose a baby name" thread and seriously gonna throw up and i'm only on the 2nd page.



"OK, heres my names ... tell me what u think?
boy - Zion Izayha Lee Coleman
girl - Brookelen Kehyonna Maysin Coleman"





"So my daughter will be Shandrillayne Elizabeth."


"Destiney May girl ofcorse Kodey John simple name with a different spelling
and Kaspa Edwin....... im pregnant and if its a girl it will b
Khandii Elizabeth"



"If I have a girl, I want her name to be Cylie Mishell"







P & L's Momma 2 kids; Minneapolis, Minnesota 3812 posts
11th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mαkαnαni:</b>" I've never understood that rule."</blockquote>



Those are the requirements? Wow, that's dumb. I wouldn't even be able to have it done either. I know for a fact I don't want any more and that is not going to change.

Carter&Violet♥ She Gone! 2 kids; Virginia 14177 posts
11th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mαkαnαni:</b>" I've never understood that rule."</blockquote>




Stupid.

Carter&Violet♥ She Gone! 2 kids; Virginia 14177 posts
11th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Patton's Momma [22 weeks]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting mαkαnαni:</b>" I've never understood that ... [snip!] ... dumb. I wouldn't even be able to have it done either. I know for a fact I don't want any more and that is not going to change."</blockquote>




My doctor said its because of the amount of people with regret. Remarry & want more or a child passes. I'm absolutely fine with my two, and god forbid if something happened that would scare me from having any more anyway.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
11th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:</b>" Going through the "how to choose a baby name" thread and seriously gonna throw up and i'm only on the ... [snip!] ... im pregnant and if its a girl it will b Khandii Elizabeth" "If I have a girl, I want her name to be Cylie Mishell" "</blockquote>



Dear god

Hathor + A Due December 23 (girl); 16 kids; Spring, Texas 12834 posts
11th Apr '13

How would you say the name Hazday?

Carter&Violet♥ She Gone! 2 kids; Virginia 14177 posts
11th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Captain Lauren + ?:</b>" How would you say the name Hazday? "</blockquote>




Haz-day



Like hazard