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Don't touch my stomach!!! Iggy 1 child; Texas 21 posts
18th Oct '11

So a few weeks ago a new neighbor moved in. I've been a really nice person my entire life and really don't like to tell people no. So everytime she sees me she has to touch and rub on my stomach. And when I don't feel good, she thinks that if she gets her two children, 3 and 5, to touch my stomach, then I'll feel better. I haven't had my flu shot yet and her kids spend all day downstairs playing in the dirt. Their germs might not be harmful to them but I'm not used to them and got sick after she just came on into my apartment the other day and touched me about 6 fucking times. I don't know if that's why I got sick, but Damn!!! Have some respect. The next day she textd me and I told her that I wasn't very comfortable with people touching my stomach and if she would stop then I would really appreciate it. She freaked out and said "Ummm wow I wont even look at u or nothin dang...ouch u killed me off ok peace good day!!!" WTF!!! I asked you nicely and you're asking like a 4 year old who just got their toy taken away!!! This is not a community baby lady, sorry!!!

Alaina's Mommy ♡ 1 child; Ellsworth, Maine 1752 posts
18th Oct '11

Umm, wow. I'd be pissed. I hated when people would touch my stomach, and if she was my neighbor I would have said something too. once, okay. twice, its a little weird. but all the time? that's a little obsessive. You said it as nice as you could. she has no right to be mad.

NeeNee-hott mama! 2 kids; Tampa, Florida 10212 posts
18th Oct '11

I bought a shirt specifically for that...
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I'm on my 2nd baby right now and people already know not to touch me. My daughter's godmother had to warn her girlfriend once my belly got bigger that I hate when people touch my belly.



I'd be just as pissed as you. Think it's time to speak up and say "Please keep your hands and your germs to yourselves."

CrazyMomma0812 2 kids; Texas 5920 posts
18th Oct '11

Ugh. I would be PISSED. Just wait til the baby gets here. Random people will try to touch your kid while your out and about. That used to really piss me off.

Alaina's Mommy ♡ 1 child; Ellsworth, Maine 1752 posts
18th Oct '11
Quoting CrazyMomma0812:" Ugh. I would be PISSED. Just wait til the baby gets here. Random people will try to touch your kid while your out and about. That used to really piss me off."


omg yeah that is annoying. My baby girl was a preemie, so she was really little, but sometimes I had no choice to take her out in public. People thought she was so "cute and tiny" and ALWAYS tried to touch her. It really ticked me off because HELLO she's a preemie, her immune system sucks. don't touch her.

CrazyMomma0812 2 kids; Texas 5920 posts
18th Oct '11
Quoting Rosannnna:" omg yeah that is annoying. My baby girl was a preemie, so she was really little, but sometimes I had ... [snip!] ... and ALWAYS tried to touch her. It really ticked me off because HELLO she's a preemie, her immune system sucks. don't touch her."


I know babies are cute but that doesn't make them free game. I don't know why people think they have to touch every baby they see. I feel like saying we look with our eyes not our hands to them.

Ashley Johnson Woods Due March 13 (girl); 33 kids; Oswego, Illinois 9 posts
18th Oct '11

What goes on in peoples heads to make them think that they can just randomly touch a pregnant womans belly? Especially if they are strangers....I am a bartender and I get atleast 3 guests a night that touch or try to touch my stomach and I dont even know them... Ick just leave me alone! lol

NeeNee-hott mama! 2 kids; Tampa, Florida 10212 posts
18th Oct '11
Quoting Ashley Johnson Woods:" What goes on in peoples heads to make them think that they can just randomly touch a pregnant womans ... [snip!] ... I get atleast 3 guests a night that touch or try to touch my stomach and I dont even know them... Ick just leave me alone! lol"

Sometimes I wanna be like, "I'm not pregnant, FREAK!" lmao!! That'll scare the crap outta them and they won't know how to react then hahah!

Beckers 34 kids; Illinois 2488 posts
18th Oct '11

I hate having my belly touched!!! The only person I let touch it is my 3 yr old!

CrazyMomma0812 2 kids; Texas 5920 posts
18th Oct '11
Quoting Ashley Johnson Woods:" What goes on in peoples heads to make them think that they can just randomly touch a pregnant womans ... [snip!] ... I get atleast 3 guests a night that touch or try to touch my stomach and I dont even know them... Ick just leave me alone! lol"


Just try to rub their belly and tell them they shouldn't be drinking in their condition :)

Ashley Johnson Woods Due March 13 (girl); 33 kids; Oswego, Illinois 9 posts
18th Oct '11

Ha ha I like that Idea

Alaina's Mommy ♡ 1 child; Ellsworth, Maine 1752 posts
18th Oct '11
Quoting NeeNee-hott mama!:" Sometimes I wanna be like, "I'm not pregnant, FREAK!" lmao!! That'll scare the crap outta them and they won't know how to react then hahah!"


hahah, I always wanted to tell someone that. Whenever I got the question, "are you pregnant?" from a stranger, I always wanted to say ummm, no. thanks for calling me fat, asshole. But that would be mean. xD

babymomma12 Due March 25; Thebes, Illinois 2 posts
18th Oct '11
Quoting NeeNee-hott mama!:" I bought a shirt specifically for that... I'm on my 2nd baby right now and people already know not ... [snip!] ... I'd be just as pissed as you. Think it's time to speak up and say "Please keep your hands and your germs to yourselves.""

Where did you get that t-shirt, I want one!! I would be pissed too! People keep asking me if I feel the baby move and stuff like that. It is already getting annoying.

Faiths Mommy123 18 kids; Stilwell, Oklahoma 474 posts
18th Oct '11
Quoting Rosannnna:" hahah, I always wanted to tell someone that. Whenever I got the question, "are you pregnant?" from a ... [snip!] ... you pregnant?" from a stranger, I always wanted to say ummm, no. thanks for calling me fat, asshole. But that would be mean. xD"

I do that.

BTJ&A 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Phoenix, Arizona 9597 posts
18th Oct '11
Quoting babymomma12:" Where did you get that t-shirt, I want one!! I would be pissed too! People keep asking me if I feel the baby move and stuff like that. It is already getting annoying."

I could design you one for $5 and you just print it up on whatever shirt you want :) I also have pre-made designs for pregnancy lol