Reply
Brittany Hartzell Due February 12 (girl); 3 kids; ARIZONA CITY, Arizona 625 posts
6th Jul '13
Quoting Katrina,Phia&Easton's Ma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Brittany Hartzell:</b>" Never been so hurt in my life. My husband's ... [snip!] ... as well. Your partnership should come above all else, you shouldn't be crying yourself to sleep over something like that."


Im not mad that he wants to go im mad because he didnt even bother to ask me before he said yes, and then he acted like a child. It was literally like look what i get to do and you cant go. My friends dont like you because you speak your mind. I got tired of them treating me like shit and excluding me from everything so yep i snapped and went off on them because he wasnt sticking up for me. Thats not my fault that they were trying to hook him up with other women and disrespecting me left and right. 2 years before i finally snapped and im to blame, @ years of constant nagging and bull shit from them.

Mama Kat ♥ 2 kids; NAPLES, ME, United States 9549 posts
6th Jul '13
Quoting Brittany Hartzell:" Im not mad that he wants to go im mad because he didnt even bother to ask me before he said yes, and ... [snip!] ... me left and right. 2 years before i finally snapped and im to blame, @ years of constant nagging and bull shit from them."


He still needs to be more respectful of you and of your marriage. Its like if you know you have friends that are causing dissension in your relationship, you either find a way to make it all work or start filtering out the negativity by letting go of some friends.
Like I said, you and your marriage should be above all else. You are right to speak your mind and they can get over it as now you are with him.
I hope you both can have a good chat and get it all out

Brittany Hartzell Due February 12 (girl); 3 kids; ARIZONA CITY, Arizona 625 posts
6th Jul '13
Quoting Katrina,Phia&Easton's Ma:" He still needs to be more respectful of you and of your marriage. Its like if you know you have friends ... [snip!] ... to speak your mind and they can get over it as now you are with him. I hope you both can have a good chat and get it all out"


I doubt anytime i try im just making it about myself and i start being a b***h cause i say no. I wish our marriage was above all else, but it seems like his mom is doing exactly as she wanted and getting her way.

Mama Kat ♥ 2 kids; NAPLES, ME, United States 9549 posts
6th Jul '13
Quoting Brittany Hartzell:" I doubt anytime i try im just making it about myself and i start being a b***h cause i say no. I wish ... [snip!] ... i say no. I wish our marriage was above all else, but it seems like his mom is doing exactly as she wanted and getting her way."


Are you living with his mom?

Brittany Hartzell Due February 12 (girl); 3 kids; ARIZONA CITY, Arizona 625 posts
6th Jul '13
Quoting Katrina,Phia&Easton's Ma:" Are you living with his mom?"


I was he allowed her to kick me out, so im now at my moms and hes at his until we get our apartment. if we even do that now....

Mama Kat ♥ 2 kids; NAPLES, ME, United States 9549 posts
6th Jul '13
Quoting Brittany Hartzell:" I was he allowed her to kick me out, so im now at my moms and hes at his until we get our apartment. if we even do that now...."


I'm sorry you have to go through all this with a baby and being pregnant:(
Are you ok to stay with your mom for a bit? I know it isnt an ideal situation but maybe it would be less stressful than getting a place with him right now.

Brittany Hartzell Due February 12 (girl); 3 kids; ARIZONA CITY, Arizona 625 posts
6th Jul '13
Quoting Katrina,Phia&Easton's Ma:" I'm sorry you have to go through all this with a baby and being pregnant:( Are you ok to stay with your ... [snip!] ... mom for a bit? I know it isnt an ideal situation but maybe it would be less stressful than getting a place with him right now."


yeah for now but my mom is getting pissed im still here

Mychildrenarecute 2 kids; Collingwood, Ontario 656 posts
6th Jul '13

well Adeline has a 103 fever cant catch a break this week. might be at emerg later :(

Thorian's Mommy 1 child; Westbrook, ME, United States 8381 posts
6th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Katrina,Phia&Easton's Ma:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Thorian's Mommy:</b>" My father just passed away a few hours ... [snip!] ... so sorry! If you need anything just ask! I know we haven't been on the best terms but I really am sorry for your family's loss"</blockquote>



Thank you Katrina, that means alot.

Mama Kat ♥ 2 kids; NAPLES, ME, United States 9549 posts
7th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Thorian's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Katrina,Phia&Easton's Ma:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... been on the best terms but I really am sorry for your family's loss"</blockquote> Thank you Katrina, that means alot."</blockquote>



I should never have been such a baby about the whole thing anyway. Looking back now, it wasn't really a big deal and I'm sorry.



I know the hurt of knowing that your children will miss out on memories with their grandfather, so my heart hurts for all of you. I hope your mom can find some peace as well- I couldn't even imagine :(

Mychildrenarecute 2 kids; Collingwood, Ontario 656 posts
7th Jul '13

Just got home from emerg with the peanut she has a fever still but it is down to 103 102 it was up to 104.9 when we go there they sent her home with no real answers. They did a Pee test for infection took a strep swab nothing I am worried if she is not down more by tomorrow morning I am taking her back and demanding blood work.

Thorian's Mommy 1 child; Westbrook, ME, United States 8381 posts
7th Jul '13
Quoting Katrina,Phia&Easton's Ma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Thorian's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Katrina,Phia&Easton's ... [snip!] ... their grandfather, so my heart hurts for all of you. I hope your mom can find some peace as well- I couldn't even imagine :("

Thank you but really its in the past. I had my faults too so don't even worry about it. It opened up new doors for me so i don't think anything of it. ive been watching your babies grow and there so beautiful. :)



Its hard loosing my father but I think it makes it worse knowing that Thorian wont have a relationship with him like he did with my niece. He grew giant pumpkins and this year he was growing one just for DS.
969508_10201418572414942_869905516_n.jpg944162_631538410197303_93699131_n.jpg
I know that my dad has been talking to Mary Harkins, that's Brandons mom right?

Mama Kat ♥ 2 kids; NAPLES, ME, United States 9549 posts
7th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mychildrenarecute:</b>" Just got home from emerg with the peanut she has a fever still but it is down to 103 102 it was up to ... [snip!] ... a strep swab nothing I am worried if she is not down more by tomorrow morning I am taking her back and demanding blood work."</blockquote>



You absolutely should!
She doesn't have a fever for no reason.
Poor girls :(

Mama Kat ♥ 2 kids; NAPLES, ME, United States 9549 posts
7th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Thorian's Mommy:</b>" Thank you but really its in the past. I had my faults too so don't even worry about it. It opened up ... [snip!] ... this year he was growing one just for DS. I know that my dad has been talking to Mary Harkins, that's Brandons mom right?"</blockquote>




I agree, I just wanted it out there haha



It is hard and it's not fair . We have pictures up of Steve( B's dad ) and Sophia knows who he is but she was only 6 months when he passed but he lives on through our stories.

Mary is actually Brandon's aunt. Donna is his mother.

Thorian's Mommy 1 child; Westbrook, ME, United States 8381 posts
7th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Katrina,Phia&Easton's Ma:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Thorian's Mommy:</b>" Thank you but really its in the past. ... [snip!] ... was only 6 months when he passed but he lives on through our stories. Mary is actually Brandon's aunt. Donna is his mother."</blockquote>haha I knew it was someone over there. :)
We told my niece yesterday. She is telling everyone that Papa is in heaven but I dont think she gets it yet. She will 5 in October.