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Turt McGurt™ Due November 4 (girl); 33 kids; Maryland 5476 posts
29th Dec '11
Quoting *Bradley&NataliesMommy*:" i know i CAN leave, but what do i do when i dont WANT to leave. i love him. i dont want to be without him. "


the only thing I can say is learn to defend yourself then.
feel free to PM me at any time i've had the same issue

user banned TTC since Jan 2001; Japan 107255 posts
30th Dec '11
Quoting *Bradley&NataliesMommy*:" i just dont understand one thing, if this is the real him, how did he hide it for 5 years?"


Are you kidding right now? Guys with control issues and who are abusive do NOT think like NORMAL men.

user banned TTC since Jan 2001; Japan 107255 posts
30th Dec '11
Quoting *Bradley&NataliesMommy*:" i know i CAN leave, but what do i do when i dont WANT to leave. i love him. i dont want to be without him. "


Then you wont leave. Plain and simple. But you can't expect people to help you if you don't want the help.

mommy to 3 little monster Due June 20 (girl); 3 kids; Nevada 574 posts
31st Dec '11

Are the post in here privte?

Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
31st Dec '11
Quoting mommy to 3 little monster:" Are the post in here privte?"


No, but you can always PM one of the ladies who have posted that they are willing to help out in this thread or myself.

mommy to 3 little monster Due June 20 (girl); 3 kids; Nevada 574 posts
31st Dec '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting Devil's Advocate:</b>" No, but you can always PM one of the ladies who have posted that they are willing to help out in this thread or myself."</blockquote>




Oh thanks! I was just looking around

The One You've Missed 16 kids; Texas 32426 posts
31st Dec '11

Mmmm.. yeah unsubscribing I knew the thread was going to turn out like this...


Sorry.

user banned TTC since Jan 2001; Japan 107255 posts
31st Dec '11

Turn out like what?

mommy to 3 little monster Due June 20 (girl); 3 kids; Nevada 574 posts
31st Dec '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ur Local Frnt Desk Clrk:</b>" Mmmm.. yeah unsubscribing I knew the thread was going to turn out like this... Sorry."</blockquote>




It was very good ideal but its not that easy for people to come out and share those types of things

Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
31st Dec '11
Quoting mommy to 3 little monster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ur Local Frnt Desk Clrk:</b>" Mmmm.. yeah unsubscribing I knew ... [snip!] ... It was very good ideal but its not that easy for people to come out and share those types of things"


There are forums for drug and alcohol abuse support, sexual abuse, depression and suicide, I figured this was a great idea. People are embarrassed to speak out and seek help about being involved in abusive relationships but they aren't embarrassed to talk about their drug and alcohol abuse? They are free to PM any of the women who are lending their help because this is an issue that needs to be addressed and some people need someone to talk to.

mommy to 3 little monster Due June 20 (girl); 3 kids; Nevada 574 posts
31st Dec '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting Devil's Advocate:</b>" There are forums for drug and alcohol abuse support, sexual abuse, depression and suicide, I figured ... [snip!] ... women who are lending their help because this is an issue that needs to be addressed and some people need someone to talk to."</blockquote>



I would find ot more easier to talk about drugs in alcohol because its a whole diffrent situation, and some people aren't even ready to face the fact they are in a abusive realtionship, it a difficult thing to talk about.

Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
31st Dec '11
Quoting mommy to 3 little monster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Devil's Advocate:</b>" There are forums for drug and alcohol ... [snip!] ... and some people aren't even ready to face the fact they are in a abusive realtionship, it a difficult thing to talk about."

The reason for this entire topic is because of 2 different threads I have seen this week with multiple women speaking about being in abusive relationships, verbal and physical. This is a protected forum so I think it's rather appropriate and necessary.

mommy to 3 little monster Due June 20 (girl); 3 kids; Nevada 574 posts
31st Dec '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting Devil's Advocate:</b>" The reason for this entire topic is because of 2 different threads I have seen this week with multiple ... [snip!] ... in abusive relationships, verbal and physical. This is a protected forum so I think it's rather appropriate and necessary."</blockquote>




Like I said before its a very good Idea. Peole should have a safe place to come talk about these type of things. I do think it would be alot easier if the post could be anounmous, so then people wouldn't feel like they would be judged.

Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
31st Dec '11
Quoting mommy to 3 little monster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Devil's Advocate:</b>" The reason for this entire topic is because ... [snip!] ... I do think it would be alot easier if the post could be anounmous, so then people wouldn't feel like they would be judged."


Unfortunately that would have to be something Mara would have to approve, people would have to be allowed to have a separate account without worrying that they will be removed.

mommy to 3 little monster Due June 20 (girl); 3 kids; Nevada 574 posts
31st Dec '11

<blockquote><b>Quoting Devil's Advocate:</b>" Unfortunately that would have to be something Mara would have to approve, people would have to be allowed to have a separate account without worrying that they will be removed."</blockquote>




who is mara? To bad their isn't a anonymous account for all the users to use.