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LaRelle Due May 4 (boy); Havre de Grace, Maryland 250 posts
15th Sep '12
Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" yer it was good! axel cant go all night without a feed, well im sure he could as hes gone 7 hours before ... [snip!] ... :/ axel was ok last weekend this week hes been terrible, i think his teething is getting to him. today he was good though :) "

Man I'm sorry Axel is giving you such a rough time. Is he too hot or cold? Jax slept from 830-545 which is pretty good I'm just not ready to wake up at 545 lol. What I do is feed him cereal at 6pm then give him a bath at 730 in nighttime wash and then put nighttime lotion on then I give him a bottle at 8 then he's usually in bed at 830-9. So Jax sat up on his own yesterday, I can't believe it he's not even 5mo yet lol. 15.2lb is 6.8946 in kilo. It's crazy how we do pounds here and you guys do kilos. I saw the pics of the beach and I'm so jealous I really need to come there and get away from my stressful life lol. Find myself a nice handsome guy with an accent!!!! Hope you have a great weekend!

♥ The Prodigy Due March 3 (boy); 33 kids; Perth, Australia 5616 posts
19th Sep '12
Quoting LaRelle:" Man I'm sorry Axel is giving you such a rough time. Is he too hot or cold? Jax slept from 830-545 which ... [snip!] ... and get away from my stressful life lol. Find myself a nice handsome guy with an accent!!!! Hope you have a great weekend!"

thats ok :) he wasnt as bad last night, woke at 11 then 4.30 then 9 so was ok, i think his medicene is helping. he got prescribed losec for silent reflux(not sure if i told u). how has jax been recently? is his sleeping gone back to normal? is he teething? awww yay jax! axels nowhere near sitting by himself yet. he is walking in his walker now though :) clever little boys! he had another photo shoot with 3 of my friends kids today, he was being so grouchy though so most of them he is crying in lol! but it was extremely hot and we were outside for hours im burnt to a crisp he isnt yet so hopefully hes ok, his head is slightly redder than usual but i put baby sunscreen on him so hopefully that worked. haha yer it is weird. you so should! it really is beautiful! hows it going? are you settling in ok? have you spoke to christopher?

LaRelle Due May 4 (boy); Havre de Grace, Maryland 250 posts
19th Sep '12
Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" thats ok :) he wasnt as bad last night, woke at 11 then 4.30 then 9 so was ok, i think his medicene is ... [snip!] ... yer it is weird. you so should! it really is beautiful! hows it going? are you settling in ok? have you spoke to christopher?"

Oh that's a lot better! I'm glad that the medicine is helping! No Jax is not sleeping thru the night still :( Last night he woke up at 1, 4, 545, then 745. I really don't know what's going on. No he's not teething yet. Yay I saw the video of him walking in the walker! Jax can too and goes all over the place! Awe bummer that he wasn't having the photo shoot. I'm gonna get professional pics done when Jax is 6mo. I really wanted to get them when he was 3mo but it didn't happen so I'll get his 6mo. Plus the 6mo will be awesome now that he smiles, laughs so much. His personality has really came out and he's such a happy boy! He's so much fun to watch and be around. His daddy is an idiot that he wants to miss all that but it is what it is. Maybe when I will the lottery I'll come and meet you and Axel lol. Well since I will probably never win the lottery I will just have to keep in touch with you over the internet lol. We are settled in pretty good, just trying to find a job so I can support ourselves and pay my bills. Yea we talk everyday, he asks how he is. Some day it's ok and some days he's an a*****e and I just wish I never had to talk to him. The more time goes by the more I realize what a person he really is and I hate myself for falling for his lies. But it is what it is, plus if I didn't I wouldn't have Jax and he's one amazing boy who brightens every second of every day!!! How are things with you?

♥ The Prodigy Due March 3 (boy); 33 kids; Perth, Australia 5616 posts
20th Sep '12
Quoting LaRelle:" Oh that's a lot better! I'm glad that the medicine is helping! No Jax is not sleeping thru the night ... [snip!] ... if I didn't I wouldn't have Jax and he's one amazing boy who brightens every second of every day!!! How are things with you?"

oh no that sucks :( axels doing slightly better but not great still, last night he slept 7-9 then at 9 sean decided to put axels paci back in his mouth, he was in a deep sleep and hadnt moved for that 2 hours so i said no leave him, but he said he was going to anyway, and what happens?! axel woke up and i had to nurse him back to sleep he then slept 9.30-2.30 then woke again at 6.30. hes been a lot happier in the day so i do think his medicene is working. aw your lucky he isnt teething yet, it sucks! axels been teething since 9 weeks and still no teeth have popped :( yer axel walks round and round the room now he loves it lol, he was walking around whinging earlier it was making me laugh! yer that would be awesome! or when i win the lottery i can come see u! im playing the $22 million this weekend, how high does your lotto get? haha yer sounds good :) that sucks he has to be an a*****e! your the mother of his child he should be nicer. yer if you hadnt met there would be no jax, and hes awesome so im glad you did meet, just a shame hes being a prick. im good. my friends who have a 8 month old have just split up, theyre the ones who live around the corner. him and his mom are threatening custody which is pretty harsh but im sure they will come to some sort of agreement which is in brax's best interest. what have you been up to?

LaRelle Due May 4 (boy); Havre de Grace, Maryland 250 posts
21st Sep '12
Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" oh no that sucks :( axels doing slightly better but not great still, last night he slept 7-9 then at ... [snip!] ... pretty harsh but im sure they will come to some sort of agreement which is in brax's best interest. what have you been up to?"

Ugh why didn't he listen to you, why they do that and then they don't have to deal with the crying baby. I'm so glad he's so much happier now!! The biggest the lottery has been is over 300 million dollars. Oh well I'm used to Chris being an a*****e. I barely talk to him now if he asks about Jax then I'll answer but other than that I don't. That's a bummer it's really hard to go thru a break up with an infant. I hope they agree on something too for the baby. Moving to different state has made it somewhat easier but harder too. Easier for me cuz I don't have to see him or run into him but harder for Jax to see his dad, but Chris shows me he really doesn't care anyways. Jax needs more than someone who ask how he is everyday and has sent $150 since we've left. That's not a dad in my eyes :(:(:(

♥ The Prodigy Due March 3 (boy); 33 kids; Perth, Australia 5616 posts
23rd Sep '12
Quoting LaRelle:" Ugh why didn't he listen to you, why they do that and then they don't have to deal with the crying baby. ... [snip!] ... Jax needs more than someone who ask how he is everyday and has sent $150 since we've left. That's not a dad in my eyes :(:(:("

because he is a guy lol yer i know i had to deal with the screaming urghhh!! last night he only woke twice so that was better but still not the best :( he was exhausted from going to seans parents house all day. but seans step dad had axel on his lap at dinner and dipped his finger in sour cream and put it in axels mouth i dont know if i should have said anything or what but i dont want him eating sour cream at 5 months old :( wow 300 mill thats heaps! its never very much here but in england it gets pretty high, not that high though!
theyre back together now :roll: theyre always breaking up then getting back together its ridiculous! yer thats right, well im sure youll meet a guy soon who will love you and jax and want to be in both your lives. sounds more like a sperm donor to me :( im sorry he is being such a crappy daddy, poor jax! i never thought things would turn out like this for u :( im sure youll find someone lovely soon.

LaRelle Due May 4 (boy); Havre de Grace, Maryland 250 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" because he is a guy lol yer i know i had to deal with the screaming urghhh!! last night he only woke ... [snip!] ... such a crappy daddy, poor jax! i never thought things would turn out like this for u :( im sure youll find someone lovely soon."

Well least they are back together and trying to back it work. Hopefully they don't keep doing the breaking up back together too often cuz that will be hard on the child when it gets older. Well least he's getting better, I hope he starts sleeping thru the night!!! Jax is still not sleeping thru the night either and I'm not sure what his deal is I am very confused on why he is waking up in the middle of the night. He doesn't want a bottle so it's not cuz he's hungry. I hope he breaks this phase very soon and go back to sleeping thru the night!! I'm not rushing into anything right now but I'm not gonna lie I do miss being in a relationship and every good thing that comes with a relationship. Now I have to find someone who is not just good enough for me, but is good enough for my son. Someone who's ok with me having a son, they have to take both of us!!!

♥ The Prodigy Due March 3 (boy); 33 kids; Perth, Australia 5616 posts
26th Sep '12
Quoting LaRelle:" Well least they are back together and trying to back it work. Hopefully they don't keep doing the breaking ... [snip!] ... just good enough for me, but is good enough for my son. Someone who's ok with me having a son, they have to take both of us!!!"

yer i hope they dont too, axel has been doing the same sleeping pattern bed by 7-8pm waking at 10-11 or 12 then again at 2-2.30 then again at 7 i hope he can drop the 2 feed soon. i wonder why jax is waking again, thats weird the only thing i can think is teething but you said hes not so IDK :( does he have a paci? i forget, if so hve you tried putting it back in his mouth when he wakes up? it usually works for axel if he isnt hungry. yer i understand, when i split up with a partner im always the same (miss it) but when im in one i miss being single (sometimes) i cant win haha! oh believe me its easier than you think, i have been chatted up by a few men and tried mentioning i have a son but doesnt put them off then i say im still with the BD then they move away quickly haha! but i do hope you will find someone who loves you and jax both! are you going to go back to where christopher lives for a visit anytime?

LaRelle Due May 4 (boy); Havre de Grace, Maryland 250 posts
26th Sep '12
Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" yer i hope they dont too, axel has been doing the same sleeping pattern bed by 7-8pm waking at 10-11 ... [snip!] ... hope you will find someone who loves you and jax both! are you going to go back to where christopher lives for a visit anytime?"

I have no idea what is going on with Jax!!!! Monday night he woke up at 1130, 130, then again at 3 but I couldn't get him back to sleep, I even gave him a bottle to see if it would and NOPE. It was finally 615 when we went back to bed. So yesterday I was very sleepy. Last night was even worse. He woke up SEVERAL times last night a few times every hr. Yes he does have a paci and that's what I do I just give him his paci and he goes back to sleep, but I'm still having to wake up and I'm not getting a night of no interruptions. I don't understand why he slept thru the night and now he doesn't. No I'm not going to TN, I really have no reason to go there. I'm not going to TN so Chris can see his son, he can come up here. Actually he's suppose to come up here to see Jax next month. Last night he asked if he could take Jax to Virgina for a couple of days to see his sister. I am not comfortable with that at all. By the time Chris comes up here it will be almost 2 months since he's seen him (I don't know how Jax with react to Chris) and I told trust his sister. I feel like they are up to something and he won't bring Jax back. So he's not happy with me that I told him no. If his sister wants to see her nephew she can come up here it's only 3 and half hr drive. Do you think I'm not being fair to him not letting him take him to VA?

♥ The Prodigy Due March 3 (boy); 33 kids; Perth, Australia 5616 posts
1st Oct '12
Quoting LaRelle:" I have no idea what is going on with Jax!!!! Monday night he woke up at 1130, 130, then again at 3 but ... [snip!] ... she can come up here it's only 3 and half hr drive. Do you think I'm not being fair to him not letting him take him to VA?"

oh no :( thats strange that he doesnt sleep through anymore i dont know what it could be :( axel still isnt which makes me think hes probably going to be one of those babies that doesnt sleep through till atleast 12 months :( i finally managed to get him to take a bottle of formula, i was looking for a goats milk formula because id heard its closest to breast milk and its in a specific pharmacy that i never go to so went to have a look, they only had the goats milk in 6 months + so i brought a newborn + regular formula in the same brand to try (its organic) it was pretty expensive and its in quite a small box. anyway we gave him a bottle on sat and he drank pretty much the whole thing! i was so shocked he had it again sunday and 2 bottles today :) cant believe i found something he likes! i will still bf mainly when he wakes during the night, but im so happy :)
so sat when he had the bottle he then had solids then a bf then bed i was sure he would sleep longer because he had eaten soooo much, but nope 3 hrs later he woke for a feed again, im starting to think he does it out of habit now rather than hunger. no i would do exactly the same i would not let sean or anyone take my son, if she wants to see him so bad she should come to you! i dont think you should let chris take him.

LaRelle Due May 4 (boy); Havre de Grace, Maryland 250 posts
1st Oct '12
Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" oh no :( thats strange that he doesnt sleep through anymore i dont know what it could be :( axel still ... [snip!] ... sean or anyone take my son, if she wants to see him so bad she should come to you! i dont think you should let chris take him."

I'm glad that Axel finally took a bottle!!! Maybe Sean can help with the night feeding so you can get some rest! I've had a very hard time this week, very emotional :( I miss Chris, but I know that he can't be the man I need or deserve. I just don't understand why he can't. I miss our family and that Jax can have both of his parents. I love Jax more than life it's self but I really don't want to be a single mom. If I knew that this was gonna be the outcome I would have never gave Chris a second chance or want to have a family with him so much. FML!!!!!! How is everything there?

♥ The Prodigy Due March 3 (boy); 33 kids; Perth, Australia 5616 posts
1st Oct '12
Quoting LaRelle:" I'm glad that Axel finally took a bottle!!! Maybe Sean can help with the night feeding so you can get ... [snip!] ... I would have never gave Chris a second chance or want to have a family with him so much. FML!!!!!! How is everything there?"

no he refuses to but he will probably have to do his first bedtime feed because thats when i want him to have a bottle and he wont take it from me :( oh no im sorry your feeling so down! yer i understand it must be hard being a single parent. that really does suck! but you have to think about jax now and clearly chris isnt acting like a father, he needs to man up! everythings good here, it was super hot yesterday and my hayfever flared up bad and i felt sooo ill and axel was waking every 2 hours and by 3 had done his first night poop since newborn and cleaning up the mess fully woke him up, hows jaxs sleeping been?

LaRelle Due May 4 (boy); Havre de Grace, Maryland 250 posts
2nd Oct '12
Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" no he refuses to but he will probably have to do his first bedtime feed because thats when i want him ... [snip!] ... hours and by 3 had done his first night poop since newborn and cleaning up the mess fully woke him up, hows jaxs sleeping been?"

He is sleeping thru the night but starts to cry several times a night. He doesn't wake up or anything he just starts crying. Sometimes he will just cry once and go back to sleep or sometimes I have to give him his paci to get him to stop crying. I have no idea what's going on. I just wish I could get a night sleep without getting woken up. I have tried so many things to see if it helps getting him to sleep all night without crying, and NOTHING is working. It's been going on since we moved up here. ugh! I'm glad things are going well for you!

♥ The Prodigy Due March 3 (boy); 33 kids; Perth, Australia 5616 posts
10th Oct '12
Quoting LaRelle:" He is sleeping thru the night but starts to cry several times a night. He doesn't wake up or anything ... [snip!] ... without crying, and NOTHING is working. It's been going on since we moved up here. ugh! I'm glad things are going well for you!"

haha atleast hes not waking every 3hrs i wish i could get a few extra hrs more than that its bloody ridiculous! my eyes are burning these days because im sooooo tired. so whatve you been up to recently? i have just had rent inspc so have been cleaning and getting the house ready. axels been a pain today, has slept maybe 10 mins altogether :( going to england in 2 1/2 weeks :)

LaRelle Due May 4 (boy); Havre de Grace, Maryland 250 posts
10th Oct '12
Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" haha atleast hes not waking every 3hrs i wish i could get a few extra hrs more than that its bloody ridiculous! ... [snip!] ... and getting the house ready. axels been a pain today, has slept maybe 10 mins altogether :( going to england in 2 1/2 weeks :)"

I don't know if I do get more than a 3hr sleep at a time either. He was up A LOT during the night. I'm sorry Axel isn't sleeping good for you either :( I don't understand what's going on with our boys! That is one thing Jax does do he does take naps, he can't go thru a day without sleeping. He might take short cat naps especially if we are running around a lot. He normally takes a few couple hr naps a day. I haven't been up to much just hanging out trying to find a job so I can support myself and Jax (not looking forward to it cuz I enjoying being home with Jax, but have to) Oh I bet you're excited!!! I'm going to Colorado to see my family the beginning of next month for my cousin's wedding. Everyone is very excited to see/meet Jax!!! There is gonna be a fight who gets to hold him between the aunts and my grandma lol They will have to learn to share hehe.