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How would you feel? SMBC**TTC#3 TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; California 17897 posts
6th Jan '12

If you got pregnant and the guy wanted you to get rid of it, would you feel obligated to get an abortion? What if it was your friend in the situation? What are your views?

Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
6th Jan '12

Your choice, not his.

vagina. 3 kids; Titz, No, Germany 30924 posts
6th Jan '12

Nope.



My body, my choice.

user banned 2 kids; Grand Rapids, Michigan 21095 posts
6th Jan '12

I wouldn't feel obligated to do so. I would make my decision despite what anyone else thought. If I thought abortion would be best I would have an abortion but if I didn't feel that way then tough shit I wouldn't do it.

buddhabutts. 2 kids; Texas 43730 posts
6th Jan '12

It's your choice.



i would feel obligated to get rid of that guy :lol: :lol:




I'm here if you need support love!

SMBC**TTC#3 TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; California 17897 posts
6th Jan '12

I always thought the guy should have a say, but in the two situations where they wanted an abortion, both said "do what you think is best" and then LEFT me. And NOW shit head thinks I should have filed him in on the fact I didn't have an abortion. Now he is harassing me over it. I won't even talk to him about this pregnancy because he's just an idiot and rude... and well... he walked out on his family... so that says it all....

But I still feel guilty. Like I am to blame for whatever bad things may come because I didn't do what he wanted.... and of coruse he's gonna through child support in my face... it's funny because he tells me what a mean person I am but I feel guilty over EVERYTHING. I always give give give give give.....

I was curious to see if I should feel guilty.

SMBC**TTC#3 TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; California 17897 posts
6th Jan '12
Quoting buddhabutts.:" It's your choice. i would feel obligated to get rid of that guy :lol: :lol: I'm here if you need support love!"


Ha ha ha!!! right!!! Everytime he texts me he makes me explode with anger because he is sooooo fing stupid and lame and selfish and an IDIOT.... I look forward to the day I can take zoloft so I won't be so over the edge so easily.

user banned 2 kids; Grand Rapids, Michigan 21095 posts
6th Jan '12
Quoting ....Santa Baby...:" I always thought the guy should have a say, but in the two situations where they wanted an abortion, ... [snip!] ... am but I feel guilty over EVERYTHING. I always give give give give give..... I was curious to see if I should feel guilty."

Nope. He made a child, what follows is his responsibility just as much as it is yours.

buddhabutts. 2 kids; Texas 43730 posts
6th Jan '12
Quoting ....Santa Baby...:" I always thought the guy should have a say, but in the two situations where they wanted an abortion, ... [snip!] ... am but I feel guilty over EVERYTHING. I always give give give give give..... I was curious to see if I should feel guilty."


don't feel guilty!
you're doing for YOU, not for him.
he's obviously a waste of space

SMBC**TTC#3 TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; California 17897 posts
6th Jan '12
Quoting buddhabutts.:" don't feel guilty! you're doing for YOU, not for him. he's obviously a waste of space"


Yeah. As soon as I took him out of the equation I realized I 100% wanted this baby. I'm just gonna have to totally ignore him. He was saying he CANT leave me alone because I have "his" daughter.... he doesn't give a shit about her.... seriously.... I mean, I'm sure he loves her.... but that's as far as it goes. Just like with me. When it comes between him and someone else, he ALWAYS comes first, even if it's like takin gout the trash or $5 on wipes or $5 on cigs.

buddhabutts. 2 kids; Texas 43730 posts
6th Jan '12
Quoting ....Santa Baby...:" Yeah. As soon as I took him out of the equation I realized I 100% wanted this baby. I'm just gonna have ... [snip!] ... comes between him and someone else, he ALWAYS comes first, even if it's like takin gout the trash or $5 on wipes or $5 on cigs."

i know what you mean :(



I'm sorry he's acting like this.
Keep his negativity away and try to stay busy to not think about it :)

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
6th Jan '12
Quoting ....Santa Baby...:" Yeah. As soon as I took him out of the equation I realized I 100% wanted this baby. I'm just gonna have ... [snip!] ... comes between him and someone else, he ALWAYS comes first, even if it's like takin gout the trash or $5 on wipes or $5 on cigs."


he could have said no to putting his p***s in u. he needs to live with the consequences and man up

Alicia Frias 1 child; Seattle, Washington 1317 posts
6th Jan '12

My sister was just in this situation... She was 17 at the time and her bf is 28 with a 12 year old daughter he abandoned... When he found out she was pregnant he started beating her and forced her to get an abortion, even though she didn't want it. She got it, and now calls me almost everyday crying about it... I feel so bad especially when she asks about my pregnancy, she was due in June so our babies would have been very close in age...

SMBC**TTC#3 TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; California 17897 posts
6th Jan '12
Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:" he could have said no to putting his p***s in u. he needs to live with the consequences and man up"


That' what I keep telling him. Next time you plan on LEAVING someone, STOP f**king THEM!!!

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
6th Jan '12
Quoting Alicia Frias:" My sister was just in this situation... She was 17 at the time and her bf is 28 with a 12 year old daughter ... [snip!] ... feel so bad especially when she asks about my pregnancy, she was due in June so our babies would have been very close in age..."


1. why the eff was she dating a man that much older than her at 17. 2how the eff can anyone force u to. 3. why the eff hasnt someone beat the piss out of him yet