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Jasify Due September 2; 2 kids; South Carolina 31243 posts
19th Jan '12
Quoting yo gabby gabby:" I wouldn't dislike the child or blame the child. you can't hold something like biology over a kids head ... [snip!] ... like biology over a kids head but financially I wouldn't be able to afford another kiddo and I could never ever adopt a kid out"


I think I would, honestly. I think I'd hate the kid.

yo gabby gabby 4 kids; Arizona 42570 posts
19th Jan '12
Quoting Jasify:" I think I would, honestly. I think I'd hate the kid. "



oh that is completely understandable
not everyone thinks like I do



I tend to disassociate myself from personal things like that



crazy result of shitty life

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
19th Jan '12

I ended up pregnant after being raped... I did MC at 4 months.

I had no choice but to keep it since abortions are illegal, and adoption is stupid here.

I feel releived - though not happy - that I MCed though.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26141 posts
19th Jan '12
Quoting XavierJosiahMoney♥:" If you were raped and got pregnant, what would you do?"


Have an abortion. No questions about it.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26141 posts
19th Jan '12
Quoting CEO Mommy :):" Just a question, so pleassee dont shoot me but why would u guys abort? I didnt expect so many people ... [snip!] ... people to say that... So I feel like Im missing something lol. Is it because the child will be a reminder of what happened... ?"


I'd abort because I'm not financially nor physically ready for a child... and if I was raped it is not my fault and therefore should not be made to go through something and risk my health and sanity just for a child.

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
19th Jan '12

You know, I've always said that if I was ever raped and got pregnant I'd want an abortion... (even when I was pro-life I thought that) but when it actually happened I didn't want an abortion. I wasn't happy to be pregnant but I didn't want to abort.

I have a family member who is very prolife, and she swears she wouldn't even give a rape baby up for adoption let alone abort... but, a big family secret she has had two abortions, one because her BF pressured her and the second due to rape.

Bottom line is, you rarely know what you would do really. If you've never been in that position you cannot answer completely sure.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26141 posts
19th Jan '12
Quoting MommyRu:" You know, I've always said that if I was ever raped and got pregnant I'd want an abortion... (even when ... [snip!] ... line is, you rarely know what you would do really. If you've never been in that position you cannot answer completely sure. "


I have not been in the situation, but my sister has. With her situation, and with my health right now... I can say 100% I'd abort. Hands down. No questions asked. It would be for certain..... get it down, and move on. I am NOT risking another case of bells palsy, a drug addicted baby (due to my meds), stopping my migraine meds, or slowing down my career (for possible bedrest, I was on bedrest with my 1st) for a child conceived from rape. Would not do it.



Coupled in with what my sister went through, sorry.... nope, not doing it.

La~La 4 kids; Houston, Texas 22034 posts
19th Jan '12
Quoting MommyRu:" You know, I've always said that if I was ever raped and got pregnant I'd want an abortion... (even when ... [snip!] ... line is, you rarely know what you would do really. If you've never been in that position you cannot answer completely sure. "


shes probably so pro-life now because of the abortions.

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
19th Jan '12
Quoting La~La:" shes probably so pro-life now because of the abortions."


She was pro-life before the abortions... it's something she never speaks about. And I do not judge the abortions at all, the hipocricy of her standing out side the abortion clinic protesting however annoys the hell out of me.

La~La 4 kids; Houston, Texas 22034 posts
19th Jan '12
Quoting MommyRu:" She was pro-life before the abortions... it's something she never speaks about. And I do not judge the ... [snip!] ... the abortions at all, the hipocricy of her standing out side the abortion clinic protesting however annoys the hell out of me."


oh thatd annoy the bejeebus outta me too

BG IS A WASTE OF TIME Beverly Hills, California 4598 posts
19th Jan '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brandie Marie.:</b>" If I was in a good place to raise another child, I would keep it. This pregnancy is a product of rape. I strongly considered abortion but in the end decided to keep her."</blockquote>




Wow. Awesome.

BG IS A WASTE OF TIME Beverly Hills, California 4598 posts
19th Jan '12

Having never been in that situation I really don't know what I would do. The raw emotion from a rape...much less a pregnancy....I couldn't even speculate.

......... nowhere, NW, United States 25972 posts
31st Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting XavierJosiahMoney♥:</b>" If you were raped and got pregnant, what would you do?"</blockquote>




I would keep it...



This happened to me when I was 14 and I had an abortion. I would never snort for that reason again.

......... nowhere, NW, United States 25972 posts
31st Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Ice Princess~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting XavierJosiahMoney♥:</b>" If you were raped and got pregnant, ... [snip!] ... I would keep it... This happened to me when I was 14 and I had an abortion. I would never snort for that reason again."</blockquote>




Snort...lol damn autocorrect.
Anywho, I didn't realize this was so old.

* Rob's Living Dead Girl Due February 15; Royersford, Pennsylvania 2959 posts
31st Dec '12
Quoting XavierJosiahMoney♥:" If you were raped and got pregnant, what would you do?"

Probably keep the pregnancy.