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Jasify Due September 2; 2 kids; South Carolina 31243 posts
19th Jan '12
Quoting yo gabby gabby:" I wouldn't dislike the child or blame the child. you can't hold something like biology over a kids head ... [snip!] ... like biology over a kids head but financially I wouldn't be able to afford another kiddo and I could never ever adopt a kid out"


I think I would, honestly. I think I'd hate the kid.

yo gabby gabby 4 kids; Arizona 42570 posts
19th Jan '12
Quoting Jasify:" I think I would, honestly. I think I'd hate the kid. "



oh that is completely understandable
not everyone thinks like I do



I tend to disassociate myself from personal things like that



crazy result of shitty life

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26767 posts
19th Jan '12
Quoting XavierJosiahMoney♥:" If you were raped and got pregnant, what would you do?"


Have an abortion. No questions about it.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26767 posts
19th Jan '12
Quoting CEO Mommy :):" Just a question, so pleassee dont shoot me but why would u guys abort? I didnt expect so many people ... [snip!] ... people to say that... So I feel like Im missing something lol. Is it because the child will be a reminder of what happened... ?"


I'd abort because I'm not financially nor physically ready for a child... and if I was raped it is not my fault and therefore should not be made to go through something and risk my health and sanity just for a child.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26767 posts
19th Jan '12
Quoting MommyRu:" You know, I've always said that if I was ever raped and got pregnant I'd want an abortion... (even when ... [snip!] ... line is, you rarely know what you would do really. If you've never been in that position you cannot answer completely sure. "


I have not been in the situation, but my sister has. With her situation, and with my health right now... I can say 100% I'd abort. Hands down. No questions asked. It would be for certain..... get it down, and move on. I am NOT risking another case of bells palsy, a drug addicted baby (due to my meds), stopping my migraine meds, or slowing down my career (for possible bedrest, I was on bedrest with my 1st) for a child conceived from rape. Would not do it.



Coupled in with what my sister went through, sorry.... nope, not doing it.

La~La 4 kids; Houston, Texas 22034 posts
19th Jan '12
Quoting MommyRu:" You know, I've always said that if I was ever raped and got pregnant I'd want an abortion... (even when ... [snip!] ... line is, you rarely know what you would do really. If you've never been in that position you cannot answer completely sure. "


shes probably so pro-life now because of the abortions.

La~La 4 kids; Houston, Texas 22034 posts
19th Jan '12
Quoting MommyRu:" She was pro-life before the abortions... it's something she never speaks about. And I do not judge the ... [snip!] ... the abortions at all, the hipocricy of her standing out side the abortion clinic protesting however annoys the hell out of me."


oh thatd annoy the bejeebus outta me too

BG IS A WASTE OF TIME Beverly Hills, California 4598 posts
19th Jan '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brandie Marie.:</b>" If I was in a good place to raise another child, I would keep it. This pregnancy is a product of rape. I strongly considered abortion but in the end decided to keep her."</blockquote>




Wow. Awesome.

BG IS A WASTE OF TIME Beverly Hills, California 4598 posts
19th Jan '12

Having never been in that situation I really don't know what I would do. The raw emotion from a rape...much less a pregnancy....I couldn't even speculate.

......... nowhere, NW, United States 25972 posts
31st Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting XavierJosiahMoney♥:</b>" If you were raped and got pregnant, what would you do?"</blockquote>




I would keep it...



This happened to me when I was 14 and I had an abortion. I would never snort for that reason again.

......... nowhere, NW, United States 25972 posts
31st Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Ice Princess~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting XavierJosiahMoney♥:</b>" If you were raped and got pregnant, ... [snip!] ... I would keep it... This happened to me when I was 14 and I had an abortion. I would never snort for that reason again."</blockquote>




Snort...lol damn autocorrect.
Anywho, I didn't realize this was so old.

Rob's Living Dead Girl Royersford, Pennsylvania 3256 posts
31st Dec '12
Quoting XavierJosiahMoney♥:" If you were raped and got pregnant, what would you do?"

Probably keep the pregnancy.

Tarynosaurus Rex San Antonio, Texas 1271 posts
31st Dec '12

Abort immediately. I wouldn't want to have a reminder of my rape for the rest of my life.

Tarynosaurus Rex San Antonio, Texas 1271 posts
31st Dec '12
Quoting CEO Mommy :):" Just a question, so pleassee dont shoot me but why would u guys abort? I didnt expect so many people ... [snip!] ... people to say that... So I feel like Im missing something lol. Is it because the child will be a reminder of what happened... ?"


I would abort because I wouldn't want that reminder, I would have a very hard time loving the child when it brought me so much pain, I'm not even in a good place in my life to be having kids, I have a medical condition that makes pregnancy a little more difficult, I also have major depression and anxiety and a rape pregnancy would likely drive me to kill myself.