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BJ vs sex?? snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
29th Jan '12

Just curious... for those who are very sexually active...



Are you willing to give a blowjob if unwilling to have sex? Or have sex and unwilling to give a blowjob?



lol, I jsut remember in high school people would give blow jobs because they didn't consider it sex.



For me... I dont' care about the number... giving a blowjob doens't do anything for ME unless I really like the guy... so I'm much more likely to have sex with someone. I've slept with like.... uh.. 5 times as many people as I've sucked dick?



anyway.... your thoughts on it?

♥Mj&Daryl♥ (boy); 2 kids; Spokane, Washington 2392 posts
29th Jan '12

Haha I've had sex with a lot of people, but I can count on one hand how many people I've given a blow job lol

Evelyn & Owens Mama Due April 7 (boy); 129 kids; Bettendorf, Iowa 4132 posts
29th Jan '12

the only way he'd get one with nothing in return is if i was feeling shitty about being on my period. otherwise, gtfo of here. :lol:

**Samie** 2 kids; Inverness, Florida 359 posts
29th Jan '12

i hate to give BJs so i try not to...same reason as u it dont do anything for me

kthx. Due January 13 (girl); Cleves, Ohio 66665 posts
29th Jan '12

Yeah I give blow jobs with no expectation of getting anything in return. I love giving SO blow jobs. He's the only guy I enjoy blowing, though.



I almost always suck a little before sex, though lol.

Vindictive 50 kids; Switzerland 30558 posts
29th Jan '12

Yep. Right now BJs are all I'm up for. I don't have the energy to worry about sex. Hah..

WV Momma+2 girls :) Due February 8 (boy); 2 kids; Reigelwood, NC, United States 2169 posts
29th Jan '12

If I don't want to have sex, I will usually give SO a bj. It doesn't bother me to do it, and it usually ends up getting me in the mood anyway :D

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
29th Jan '12
Quoting ButterflyKisses:):" Haha I've had sex with a lot of people, but I can count on one hand how many people I've given a blow job lol"


same



but... ok, sound like a slut here...



I'm seeing a guy... he's going away for over a month.. and I'm on my freaking period. we've only slept together like twice.



but- I really am not ready for BJ yet.. but know that sounds odd to some people..

[wtf] i'm heather. 3 kids; Cincinnati, Ohio 8315 posts
status 29th Jan '12
Quoting snglemama:" Just curious... for those who are very sexually active... Are you willing to give a blowjob if unwilling ... [snip!] ... sex with someone. I've slept with like.... uh.. 5 times as many people as I've sucked dick? anyway.... your thoughts on it?"


I'm more likely to have sex then give a BJ.
I know its not any better but I'd rather it in my vagina then in my mouth lol

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
29th Jan '12
Quoting Evelyn Lilianas Mama:" the only way he'd get one with nothing in return is if i was feeling shitty about being on my period. otherwise, gtfo of here. :lol:"


lol!



with my ex boyfriend.. (in love with him) I fantasized about sucking his dick. Seriously... loved it.




but- tha'ts not the normal for me.

mal[]function♥jj 1 child; 1 angel baby; Albuquerque, NM, United States 1675 posts
29th Jan '12

I hate giving blow jay's. Lol. SO is the only guy's p***s that has been in my mouth. And I'd be totally okay if I had never had a p***s in my mouth.

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11904 posts
29th Jan '12

I'd rather have sex. Btw our sign outside is going to say Corinda $1 B&J $4.00 Bootlegger $1.99 lol B&J is for the wine coolers we have how many people do you think are going to read that as blow jobs.

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
29th Jan '12
Quoting kthx.:" Yeah I give blow jobs with no expectation of getting anything in return. I love giving SO blow jobs. He's the only guy I enjoy blowing, though. I almost always suck a little before sex, though lol."


even in a new relationship?



or.... not even a relationship. idk... we havne't really talked abotu what we're doing. but- obviously sleeping together... but I just have no desire to.



plus-- haha.. he's kinda big. I'm on my period.. so if my mouth gets tired I'm not jumping on top.



normally, fine withperiod sex..but again.. not yet with him.

La~La 4 kids; Houston, Texas 22036 posts
29th Jan '12
Quoting snglemama:" Just curious... for those who are very sexually active... Are you willing to give a blowjob if unwilling ... [snip!] ... sex with someone. I've slept with like.... uh.. 5 times as many people as I've sucked dick? anyway.... your thoughts on it?"


giving BJs is something I dont do often and it really depends on the person. BD i do not live giving head at all. my Ex i would give head every single day ...

Mama of *3* TTC since Feb 2013; 3 kids; Wisconsin 15841 posts
29th Jan '12

BJs arent supposed to do anything for YOU. Just like him eating you out doesnt do anything for HIM. But Ive never gotten with a guy and just gave him a blow job--theres always been sex involved and I definitely havent given a BJ to every guy Ive had sex with.



Before I got pregnant I gave him a blow job daily--Id always suck him before sex. Ive done it to other guys because I know they like it, but it always felt like a job to me. I love sucking SO. Now though my gag reflex is so bad I cant and I feel horrible. Just sticking a toothbrush in my mouth makes me puke.