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Loretta West TTC#2 TTC since May 2013; 1 child; Auckland, New Zealand 4612 posts
30th Nov '12
Quoting Madisyn Ryleigh's Mommy:" if you dont talk on the fb group they remove you after a day or whatever..."


A day? thats a bit extreme lol not everyone comments on every group they're in every day

Love Wedge +2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Waterloo, Ontario 44310 posts
1st Dec '12
Quoting Mrs. Guzman:" I loved the FB group. I thought everyone was great until it came out that some of the ladies had formed a seperate group where they would talk about the other moms and make fun of them"

Wow :? That's mature.

Loretta West TTC#2 TTC since May 2013; 1 child; Auckland, New Zealand 4612 posts
1st Dec '12
Quoting Mrs. Guzman:" I loved the FB group. I thought everyone was great until it came out that some of the ladies had formed a seperate group where they would talk about the other moms and make fun of them"


:shock:
That's effing ridiculous. So much for the "getting together to help each other out" part.. Sounds like they just wanted an excuse to act like they're in high school again.

MamaToThree081012 3 kids; Idaho Falls, Idaho 8713 posts
2nd Dec '12

i started my first period yesterday since having the baby. :(

Mrs. Guzman Due October 24; 1 child; Houston, Texas 4375 posts
2nd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Love Wedge +2:</b>" Wow :? That's mature."</blockquote>



Yea, that's why pretty much everyone left the group. You go on there to ask questions, vent and just be friends with other women going through the same thing you are. Whether or not they spoke about me, it still felt crappy to know that was going on. I felt betrayed, like I couldn't trust anyone anymore. It also came out they they would steal pix to post on their page to make fun of.

Nicolai and Caelyn's mom 2 kids; Twin Lakes, Wisconsin 211 posts
2nd Dec '12
Quoting MamaToThree081012:" i started my first period yesterday since having the baby. :( "

I've had two in a month already :( she just turned 2 months and I'm ebf. My dr was like you can start your birth control anytime because you won't get a period well a day after my 6 week check I got one and then I'm on a mini pill and I was 3 hours late taking it and got my damn period again for a couple days. I was looking forward to no periods since I was breastfeeding but I guess I'm not going to be lucky like that. I feel your pain.

Tyler and AJ's Mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Indianapolis, Indiana 15362 posts
2nd Dec '12

Hey everyone...I know it's been pretty quiet here. I read on my phone these days so I don't post too much. How are all our pretty babies? And how are our mommies?



I'm doing okay. AJ is 7 weeks old now. He's pretty colicy and a sleep-fighter, but I think we are starting to turn the corner with him. He has a touch of a cold at the moment, but thankfully he didn't get it as bad as his big brother! It's been hard these past few weeks, a lot of long days, but I big part of me is sad that I am going back to work on Wednesday. On one hand I'm used to working, I like working and interacting with people. but I will miss my boys! I've been home for 10 weeks and it feels so normal now!



I'm all healed up from my c-section, though I'm still have a few weird issues. I'm still hoping they'll clear up on their own with time. I'm hoping to get back to working out once things settle down a bit, but I'm happily about 5 lbs less than before I got pregnant and I'm happy with that, even though my tummy is a bit more flabby than it was.



hope everyone is doing well! Here is a pic of my little man--gotta love those first smiles!



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Loretta West TTC#2 TTC since May 2013; 1 child; Auckland, New Zealand 4612 posts
2nd Dec '12
Quoting Mrs. Guzman:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Love Wedge +2:</b>" Wow :? That's mature."</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... like I couldn't trust anyone anymore. It also came out they they would steal pix to post on their page to make fun of."


Seriously?? What b***hes :?

MamaToThree081012 3 kids; Idaho Falls, Idaho 8713 posts
2nd Dec '12
Quoting Mrs. Guzman:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Love Wedge +2:</b>" Wow :? That's mature."</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... like I couldn't trust anyone anymore. It also came out they they would steal pix to post on their page to make fun of."

i'm glad i deleted all my pics. some of them just seemed to be there to make fun of everyone else thinking they were better than others or something. i'm a lot happier not being apart of that. in the beginning everyone seemed nice. closer to the end is when the crap became more prevalent. i bet they did talk about me, but who knows for sure. by the end i didn't feel comfortable to say anything at all. so i just watched and read for a while and then decided to leave completely.

Mrs. Guzman Due October 24; 1 child; Houston, Texas 4375 posts
2nd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MamaToThree081012:</b>" i'm glad i deleted all my pics. some of them just seemed to be there to make fun of everyone else thinking ... [snip!] ... i didn't feel comfortable to say anything at all. so i just watched and read for a while and then decided to leave completely. "</blockquote>




I think what happened is one girl added her friends, who were all pregnant and had gone to high school together. They are the ones who were doing it. The stupid part is, since this all came out, they left the group too. One or two of them tried to defend themselves and then they were gone.

Loretta West TTC#2 TTC since May 2013; 1 child; Auckland, New Zealand 4612 posts
2nd Dec '12
Quoting Mrs. Guzman:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MamaToThree081012:</b>" i'm glad i deleted all my pics. some ... [snip!] ... is, since this all came out, they left the group too. One or two of them tried to defend themselves and then they were gone."


So no one made a new one without thm? how come? Thats a shame :(

MamaToThree081012 3 kids; Idaho Falls, Idaho 8713 posts
3rd Dec '12
Quoting Mrs. Guzman:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MamaToThree081012:</b>" i'm glad i deleted all my pics. some ... [snip!] ... is, since this all came out, they left the group too. One or two of them tried to defend themselves and then they were gone."


yeah, i had noticed it was after people's real life friends came in that it started going down hill. is there anyone still in that group?

MamaToThree081012 3 kids; Idaho Falls, Idaho 8713 posts
3rd Dec '12
Quoting Nicolai and Caelyn's mom:" I've had two in a month already :( she just turned 2 months and I'm ebf. My dr was like you can start ... [snip!] ... was looking forward to no periods since I was breastfeeding but I guess I'm not going to be lucky like that. I feel your pain."


2 in one month, that sucks! i stopped my postpartum bleeding after 3 weeks or so and hadn't had any bleeding since. day three of AF for me now. gah it's so messy. lol

Mrs. Guzman Due October 24; 1 child; Houston, Texas 4375 posts
3rd Dec '12
Quoting MamaToThree081012:" yeah, i had noticed it was after people's real life friends came in that it started going down hill. is there anyone still in that group? "


Yes, but not very many. It's nothing like it used to be. A lot of the moms who left (not the ones making fun of others) made a new group, but it's a private and closed group. I can't find the link for it

Ƥinkƴ 34 kids; 2 angel babies; Madagascar 23603 posts
3rd Dec '12