i wish i was having sex.... i was with my ex 2 and a half years... wen i got pregnant (planned) he just vanished, changed his number told me not to text him... i cud go rnd his house but it looks like his made his choice so i'd rather not go through that stress...
so now all i can think is i cannot sleep with anyone while i am pregnant (due 28th may!!) and im going to be too busy, tired etc to even start dating once my lil ones here!
i'm prob not gonna have sex for about 4 years!!!!!!!!!!!! :'(
so me and my hubby were getting intimate and he was messing with my chest... and he swears milk came out. I'm only 15w.. is this normal??
Quoting elyssa foley:" so me and my hubby were getting intimate and he was messing with my chest... and he swears milk came out. I'm only 15w.. is this normal??"
It's not milk, it's colostrum and yes it is normal. There is no set time for a woman to start 'leaking'
i think idea is great, so carry on.
Okay I know it's really random but has anyone else found it just plain ugh! to have sex lately? I love my husband but I just cant even think about making love with him lately.
To make it worse I keep catching him jerking off when Im in the other room or even when hes driving to and from work and it hurts my feelings but I feel sooooo bad because I just cant do it =[ He recently admitted that he thinks he's addicted to jerking off and porn because (in his words) he cant even think about sex anymore either. He wants hand jobs and blow jobs every time hes stressed or has a stomach ache or when he wakes up. It makes me feel like poo and I know I shouldnt but I do. I feel disrespected...
Am I the only one with this problem?
Being pregnant is an opportunity to try out the "new positions" so to speak. It's definitely not always gonna be comfortable, especially with your growing belly...but do your research and try out new positions. And as long as you aren't on "pelvic rest" or a "no sex" rule from your doctor, go for it! You can have sex up until delivery. Some doctors actually say that sex close to a due date can induce your labor.
No cursing got it! :D
Quoting sem84:" hey everyone. well my problem is not our sex life by any means i just don't feel like i am attractive ... [snip!] ... says i look fine to him, but do ya'll have any advice that would help me feel a little more attractive rather than a big cow?"
i had this problem the whole first year my son was born....go for a walk everyday it always makes me feel better and "lighter". since i started that i dropped some weight and have more energy and just feel sexier! btw you are beautiful if that is you in your pic.....but seriously i know it sounds simple and silly, but it worked for me maybe it will help you.
My husband and I have been married barely two years and this is our second child. I am currently 8 weeks pregnant. With my first pregnancy I was always ready for sex, I just couldn't get enough. This time around I am moody, sick, and completely dis-interested in sex. No matter what, my husband can not turn me on and the times that we have recently had sex was like i had to force myself. This is so unlike me, and I feel so bad. in every other way our relationship is wonderful but I feel awful about not being able to respond to any of my husbands sexual advances.....to be honest I find myself turned all the way off...Has anyone else experienced this....if so...any advice?????
i am 19 and married, and my husband wants sex nonstop, and even if i say no, he still makes me do it anyways. he gets mad because i barely ever want to have sex, and he always tries to get me to give him oral, but i think the hormones from the pregnancy made me reolize that he has never given me an orgasm, its all about him every time we have sex. he goes at it as fast as he can, then when he's done... its done too... i think thats why i have no interest in sex.. what should i do?
what i cant post porn!!! my day is ruined....
what i cant post porn!!! my day is ruined....
Quoting Amber1993:" i am 19 and married, and my husband wants sex nonstop, and even if i say no, he still makes me do it ... [snip!] ... at it as fast as he can, then when he's done... its done too... i think thats why i have no interest in sex.. what should i do?"
never let anybody force you to have sex. I'm 20 and my husband is 21. He always wants it too. But i don't always do it. If he wants it and you don't and he will not give up, tell him to do it himself. Luckily my husband doesn't bother me too much and will wait. The hormones suck, i was horny one week and not another. Now with breastfeeding i hardly am. But if he hasn't hardly given you an orgasm, buy a toy. And like i said don't let him force you. Maybe if he see's you won't always when he wants to and you are using a toy instead of him, he might consider you.
Also, talk to him about it
Quoting Jamie's Momma :):" never let anybody force you to have sex. I'm 20 and my husband is 21. He always wants it too. But i ... [snip!] ... you won't always when he wants to and you are using a toy instead of him, he might consider you. Also, talk to him about it"
i have joked around about the subject, and all it does is make him get pissed and say all im saying is he is bad in bed. then he pretty much says its my fault, because he likes going down on girls, and before we started dating, i told him i dont let guys do that, because it makes me uncomfortable, but i guess he just assumed i would get over it. idk, its complicated. if i got a toy, he would just get mad and say "oh, so i dont satisfy you"
Quoting Mara:" Hi everyone! So I've been thinking about how much sex (and relationships) are a part of pregnancy, and ... [snip!] ... jumping into the nitty gritty issues and questions about sexuality and I'll do my best to answer those questions that I can."
one night stand is enough for doing pregnancy baby .for my side it take only 1 hour