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Saleem Shaikh Japan 1 posts
23rd Apr '12
Quoting Paddy Cake:" oops. I didn't read the "no cursing" policy..my apologies for the few words that slipped."
B&R + J 1 child; 2 angel babies; Germantown, Ohio 3745 posts
23rd Apr '12
Quoting Amber1993:" i have joked around about the subject, and all it does is make him get pissed and say all im saying is ... [snip!] ... assumed i would get over it. idk, its complicated. if i got a toy, he would just get mad and say "oh, so i dont satisfy you""


Well if he says that, then you need to say you never intended for him to feel about it that way. And tell him you wish he wouldn't go so fast and that you want to take more time to enjoy it with him. Don't joke around with him, sit him down and talk to him. Men will be super horny until they are all the way out of puberty which is in their 20's. and even after that some are still very sexual.



Sex is not everything in a relationship, but it can cause problems trust me. So talking now will do good for the future. PM me if you'd like

*Perfectly Imperfect* Due September 18; Winton, California 152 posts
25th Apr '12
Quoting Jamie's Momma :):" Well if he says that, then you need to say you never intended for him to feel about it that way. And ... [snip!] ... in a relationship, but it can cause problems trust me. So talking now will do good for the future. PM me if you'd like"


he is already 28. he still acts like a 16 year old boy. he wont listen to anything i have to say about it. he just makes me feel awkward whenever i try to talk to him about it

Lj_Sky_Nity's_mommy Due August 19; 18 kids; Denver, Colorado 84 posts
28th Apr '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amber1993:</b>" he is already 28. he still acts like a 16 year old boy. he wont listen to anything i have to say about it. he just makes me feel awkward whenever i try to talk to him about it"</blockquote>



I can kinda relate to your situation. Where my husband and i first gottogether i wanted it all the time and it was amazing, but after i got pregnant with our first child i never wanted it. So now he'll do me in my sleep, makes me give him oral of i want him to buy me something, and when i do give in i never get off. Once he's done shows over. I don't like touching myself and I'm not allowed to have a toy either. I tried talking to him about it and he'd just say I'm complaining and is not his fault i don't go faster. So i started leaving him hanging. Getting him all hot and bothered then go away. We'd fight and he'd be really mean but he finally saw where i was coming from. Now he asks every time before we stop if i had my O. It took forever but i finally got what i want. If talking don't work try leaving him hanging on the edge

Jess&Carlos Due October 25; Fort Pierce, Florida 4 posts
29th Apr '12

Hey everyone, so this is my first time useing this thing, & My question is if sex is uncomfortable & uv had no desire for it sence you got pregnant is that bad? im 14 weeks & i would rather not have sex ever again. well atleast thats what iv been feeling like for weeks now.

B&R + J 1 child; 2 angel babies; Germantown, Ohio 3745 posts
30th Apr '12
Quoting Jess&Carlos:" Hey everyone, so this is my first time useing this thing, & My question is if sex is uncomfortable ... [snip!] ... that bad? im 14 weeks & i would rather not have sex ever again. well atleast thats what iv been feeling like for weeks now."

no its normal

MamaOfThreeLittleLadies Due October 20; 2 kids; Missouri 791 posts
1st May '12
Quoting Jess&Carlos:" Hey everyone, so this is my first time useing this thing, & My question is if sex is uncomfortable ... [snip!] ... that bad? im 14 weeks & i would rather not have sex ever again. well atleast thats what iv been feeling like for weeks now."


No it has to be normal lol, I don't want sex right now either. It's been like that with both my other pregnancies too. This makes 3 for me and I STILL don't want any lol. It drives my SO nuts, but I think he might feel differently if he were in my shoes!

Jess&Carlos Due October 25; Fort Pierce, Florida 4 posts
2nd May '12
Quoting MamaJes100712:" No it has to be normal lol, I don't want sex right now either. It's been like that with both my other ... [snip!] ... 3 for me and I STILL don't want any lol. It drives my SO nuts, but I think he might feel differently if he were in my shoes! "


Exactly! lol i feel bad for him, and he deff lets me know it bothers him but im not even thinking about sex ever! & hes 21 so hes at his peek i believe lol. this is my first pregnancy & i didnt know if it was normal or not. thank you:)

MamaOfThreeLittleLadies Due October 20; 2 kids; Missouri 791 posts
2nd May '12
Quoting Jess&Carlos:" Exactly! lol i feel bad for him, and he deff lets me know it bothers him but im not even thinking about ... [snip!] ... hes 21 so hes at his peek i believe lol. this is my first pregnancy & i didnt know if it was normal or not. thank you:)"


You're welcome, it's been a huge problem for us, but he doesn't push too hard most of the time and for that much I'm grateful. Should he push though, watch out cause here come the hormones lol!

Jessie Elder Due October 20; Pennsylvania 4 posts
19th May '12
Quoting Mrs. Valerie Roberts:" ummm is it just me or are there others out there? i am horny and ready to go at all times. but i feel ... [snip!] ... weeks along, is there something that we dont know that could help? Any advise is very much appreciated... THANKS A BUNCH :D"


ON TOP is best i think if he loves you he loves you tummy too! but that way you can control how deep and how fast ! hes more along for the ride 6 months i here is when your the hornyest. I am all the time already!

Jen Smith84 Due November 1; 3 kids; Woodville, Wisconsin 9 posts
26th May '12

As far as sex goes...your good to go until your water breaks...unless your doc says otherwise! As long as it's comfortable for you that is!:wink:

Nela Sky Japan 1 posts
2nd Jun '12
hi how are you?
Jasminann Purvis 2 kids; Albuquerque, New Mexico 11 posts
5th Jun '12

I had a question, my doctor has told both I and my husband that sex is ok and great for helping with my labor but my husband has a fear of poking or hurting the baby is there anything i can do to help him understand the baby is fine?

KaaraH Due December 22; 2 kids; Mackay, Australia 27 posts
7th Jun '12
Quoting Jasminana Purvis:" I had a question, my doctor has told both I and my husband that sex is ok and great for helping with ... [snip!] ... but my husband has a fear of poking or hurting the baby is there anything i can do to help him understand the baby is fine?"


http://www.babycenter.com.au/pregnancy/antenatalhealth/sexduringpregnancy/



this might link might help you convince him and if not I suggest get his "motor" running in high gear and take advantage of him before he comes to his senses.

erica s ford Due January 29; 2 kids; Missouri 23 posts
14th Jun '12

my doc told me that i had to be on pelvic rest and i ok with that because i havent really been feeling like sex anyway but i hubby is not being very understanding of it. he is always asking to do oral on me but i know my hubby thats another way of saying im gonna get you all hott and you wont turn me down when i try to have sex with you. what should i do?