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How are abortions past 20 weeks? rosesmistakes Due June 22 (girl); 18 kids; Henderson, Nevada 37 posts
24th Feb '12

I'm 34 and never thought that this was right. But I'm pro-life except in rape incest or health issues. Well my bf and I have been together and he beats me badly. I left him but don't have anywhere to go... I use and to live with him that's what I need to do. I'm also a sex worker which he's pretty much forced me in. They're going to take the baby away in fostercare. He's excited. But I have realized I want a secret abortion. I can't have his baby. I know in California it's not illegal. But I mean how much are they how can I try to afford it? I'm almost 20 weeks that's why I asked...

kr.r 1 child; Dallas, TX, United States 8736 posts
24th Feb '12

How can he force you to be a prostitute, especially after you left him? Who is "they" and how can "they" take your baby away and put it in foster-care?

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
24th Feb '12
Quoting kr.r:" How can he force you to be a prostitute, especially after you left him? Who is "they" and how can "they" take your baby away and put it in foster-care?"


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I was thinking exactly the same thing but wouldn't have been able to word it quite so nicely.

rosesmistakes Due June 22 (girl); 18 kids; Henderson, Nevada 37 posts
24th Feb '12
Quoting kr.r:" How can he force you to be a prostitute, especially after you left him? Who is "they" and how can "they" take your baby away and put it in foster-care?"


hospital when they test would call cps...



I have no place to go besides him no money no family and therefore I'm stuck with him plus if he ever found I left I think he'd want to kill me...

M&F VBAC Graduate 19 kids; Texas 10997 posts
24th Feb '12
Quoting The Master:" :!: I was thinking exactly the same thing but wouldn't have been able to word it quite so nicely."

i know, right??? lol

✖Mandalorian 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Georgia 5386 posts
24th Feb '12
Quoting rosesmistakes:" hospital when they test would call cps... I have no place to go besides him no money no family and therefore I'm stuck with him plus if he ever found I left I think he'd want to kill me..."


Sounds like you need to contact the police if that's the case. :? They can help you out in some way I'm sure.

M&F VBAC Graduate 19 kids; Texas 10997 posts
24th Feb '12
Quoting rosesmistakes:" hospital when they test would call cps... I have no place to go besides him no money no family and therefore I'm stuck with him plus if he ever found I left I think he'd want to kill me..."


so u left him and then went back???
and I dont understand what you mean by "hospital when they test would call cps."

Gold 2 kids; Somewhere under Wonderland, VA, United States 36294 posts
status 24th Feb '12

The further along you are, the higher the cost is unfortunately and the procedure is more difficult than a first trimester one.



I would give your local planned parenthood a call and see if they can give you more information on it.

Nicole Cazarez Washington 10 posts
24th Feb '12
Quoting rosesmistakes:" hospital when they test would call cps... I have no place to go besides him no money no family and therefore I'm stuck with him plus if he ever found I left I think he'd want to kill me..."



test for WHAT?

kr.r 1 child; Dallas, TX, United States 8736 posts
24th Feb '12
Quoting rosesmistakes:" hospital when they test would call cps... I have no place to go besides him no money no family and therefore I'm stuck with him plus if he ever found I left I think he'd want to kill me..."


The hospital would call CPS and take your child? For what reason?



If you're worried he might kill you, the last thing you need to do is remain in contact with him. Let the police know your worries and try to protect yourself from him.

rosesmistakes Due June 22 (girl); 18 kids; Henderson, Nevada 37 posts
24th Feb '12
Quoting Jessventura:" Sounds like you need to contact the police if that's the case. :? They can help you out in some way I'm sure."



They'd just arrest me too. I would call but I am not the most law abiding I know it would turn bad.

rosesmistakes Due June 22 (girl); 18 kids; Henderson, Nevada 37 posts
24th Feb '12
Quoting Nicole Cazarez:" test for WHAT?"


drugs of course

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
24th Feb '12
Quoting rosesmistakes:" They'd just arrest me too. I would call but I am not the most law abiding I know it would turn bad."


they can't arrest you unless they catch you in the act of doing something illegal or have overwhelming evidence of the fact.

kr.r 1 child; Dallas, TX, United States 8736 posts
24th Feb '12
Quoting rosesmistakes:" drugs of course"


Then stop taking them?

✖Mandalorian 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Georgia 5386 posts
24th Feb '12
Quoting The Master:" they can't arrest you unless they catch you in the act of doing something illegal or have overwhelming evidence of the fact."


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