Help! In-laws are stressing me out! user banned
26th Feb '12

Hello everbody!!!
So I'm super excited I'm on my third kid. However I've been having trouble with my boyfriend and his family. You see, they have a problem because I still smoke cigarrettes and weed. I know I know people say it's bad, but I did it through my pregnancies with my other two kids and they're totally fine. In fact, in my first pregnancy, I did two hits of E the night I found out with my first kid, because my boyfriend at the time wanted to have one last night of fun! and things have turned out fine. I just don't see what the big deal is, people used to do way worse things while pregnant and nothing bad ever happend.
It's really starting to stress me out, and stress is really bad for pregnant people so I wish my inlaws would just lay off. My boyfriend and I have been fighting because of it, and it got to the point where I had to have a couple drinks last night to calm down. I just need some advice!! and please, only helpful comments, preferably from those who are going through the same sitch as me!!

Captain Obvious 2 kids; Havana, Cuba 25634 posts
26th Feb '12

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DinaX4 2 kids; Ohio 675 posts
26th Feb '12

Stress is bad but cigarettes and weed isn't?
Right....

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
26th Feb '12

Lol.... I don't even have to say it to know what everyone is thinking.

Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50789 posts
26th Feb '12

Damn them for wanting you to not pollute your body with birth defect ridden chemicals while pregnant

Megan +2 2 kids; New Jersey 1384 posts
26th Feb '12

You are literally too stupid to insult.

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
26th Feb '12

Gotta hate them in laws.

Emmy's Mom 1 child; Indiana 1831 posts
26th Feb '12

My advice, duck and cover after this post.



Also, you should be catching hell. When you decide to have children you give up the option to do things that could potentially harm them.

~Milk*Jugs~ 4 kids; La Quinta, California 1978 posts
26th Feb '12

Wow, I am at a loss for words...

Moo-mmyஐ 52 kids; New York 27164 posts
26th Feb '12

So you are justifying it by saying you got lucky with your first 2 pregnancies? I actually laughed reading this post.

user banned Due July 17; California 39 posts
26th Feb '12

Well the thing is, weed helps me relax when I'm stressed. And my doctor said the worst thing for me to do to my baby is stress out. So I'm doing everything I can to keep from stressing!!

Hermaeus Mora Due March 3; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Taylorsville, North Carolina 14966 posts
26th Feb '12

Uhh, okay then! I hope the doctors test you for that crap (weed) and do something about it!!! call CPS or something for when baby is born. smh!

Moo-mmyஐ 52 kids; New York 27164 posts
26th Feb '12
Quoting Stephanie Zee:" Well the thing is, weed helps me relax when I'm stressed. And my doctor said the worst thing for me to do to my baby is stress out. So I'm doing everything I can to keep from stressing!! "


Music and a shower work too.

*J* 50 kids; 14412 posts
26th Feb '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Megan Elizabeth.:</b>" You are literally too stupid to insult."</blockquote>



!!!!!

user banned Due July 17; California 39 posts
26th Feb '12

What is CPS?