Lost one of quads.... now i only have triplets...hope they s user banned
Feb 27th '12

Last week i found out that one of my babies had passed away in the womb. they are going to let me go through process naturally because theres 3 other babies in there and a d&c isnt exact. is there a possibility that i would miscarry more? is this a sign? how do i know if the others will stick? im kind of pissed. i was so excited having 4 babies. now im going to have only 3 if that.....agh.

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
Feb 27th '12

How far along are you?

Ms.Mommy. 2 kids; Alaska 29 posts
Feb 27th '12

I'm sorry. Miscarry in sucks. Are you going to be able
To have the others? I didn't know you could only loose one.

Vindictive Due July 23; 50 kids; Switzerland 31001 posts
Feb 27th '12

Yes, there is a chance you will lose the others. But hopefully not!

smASHface 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Chicago, IL, United States 57887 posts
Feb 27th '12

I wouldn't be pissed about that. Sad and upset but pissed? If anything, it's going to help the other 3 babies. It's never good to loose a baby, it hurts. I think that it depends on where you are at in pregnancy but higher # multiples are always very risky for all.

Vindictive Due July 23; 50 kids; Switzerland 31001 posts
Feb 27th '12
Quoting 3LittleMonkeys:" I wouldn't be pissed about that. Sad and upset but pissed? If anything, it's going to help the other ... [snip!] ... baby, it hurts. I think that it depends on where you are at in pregnancy but higher # multiples are always very risky for all. "


I was pissed when I lost my last baby. It's a pretty normal emotion to feel.

smASHface 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Chicago, IL, United States 57887 posts
Feb 27th '12
Quoting Vindictive:" I was pissed when I lost my last baby. It's a pretty normal emotion to feel."


I guess...I just didn't think pissed would be one of them. I'm sorry for both of your losses....:cry:

user banned Due August 17 (girl); Japan 46 posts
Feb 27th '12
Quoting Ms.Mommy.:" I'm sorry. Miscarry in sucks. Are you going to be able To have the others? I didn't know you could only loose one."


yes.. because baby b's heartbeat just stopped, the others are still okay... they all have their own gestational sac.. iim kind of terrified because if its because of an infection or something maybe the rest might get it too

smASHface 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Chicago, IL, United States 57887 posts
Feb 27th '12
Quoting ruthy2000:" yes.. because baby b's heartbeat just stopped, the others are still okay... they all have their own ... [snip!] ... own gestational sac.. iim kind of terrified because if its because of an infection or something maybe the rest might get it too"

how far along are you?

nursemaya mom to 3! 3 kids; 5 angel babies; Minnesota 16015 posts
Feb 27th '12
Quoting Vindictive:" I was pissed when I lost my last baby. It's a pretty normal emotion to feel."


right! being angry is part of the grieving process - pretty normal

smASHface 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Chicago, IL, United States 57887 posts
Feb 27th '12
Quoting nursemaya -mommy to 2:" right! being angry is part of the grieving process - pretty normal"


I'm sorry you had to feel that pain too :(

nursemaya mom to 3! 3 kids; 5 angel babies; Minnesota 16015 posts
Feb 27th '12
Quoting 3LittleMonkeys:" I'm sorry you had to feel that pain too :("



thank you

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
Feb 27th '12
Quoting ruthy2000:" Last week i found out that one of my babies had passed away in the womb. they are going to let me go ... [snip!] ... if the others will stick? im kind of pissed. i was so excited having 4 babies. now im going to have only 3 if that.....agh."


You are"pissed" you are ONLY having three? WTF? Hurt, sad, upset, dissapointed, devistated ect... not pissed. I have had 5m/c and I have never been PISSED that I lost a child. As a mother of multiples, I can see where you might be upset at a differet amount of children you are expecting. However, to lose one and not all 4 in your situation is a blessing!

user banned Due August 17 (girl); Japan 46 posts
Feb 27th '12
Quoting 3LittleMonkeys:" how far along are you?"


15 weeks...

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
Feb 27th '12
Quoting ruthy2000:" Last week i found out that one of my babies had passed away in the womb. they are going to let me go ... [snip!] ... if the others will stick? im kind of pissed. i was so excited having 4 babies. now im going to have only 3 if that.....agh."


how far along are you exactly?