Lost one of quads.... now i only have triplets...hope they s user banned
27th Feb '12

Last week i found out that one of my babies had passed away in the womb. they are going to let me go through process naturally because theres 3 other babies in there and a d&c isnt exact. is there a possibility that i would miscarry more? is this a sign? how do i know if the others will stick? im kind of pissed. i was so excited having 4 babies. now im going to have only 3 if that.....agh.

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
27th Feb '12

How far along are you?

mom of three 3 kids; Missouri 6192 posts
27th Feb '12

I've heard of a lot of women losing a twin and keeping the other. I dont think its a sign at all. GL! I hope everything is good for you!:D

Ms.Mommy. 2 kids; Alaska 27 posts
27th Feb '12

I'm sorry. Miscarry in sucks. Are you going to be able
To have the others? I didn't know you could only loose one.

Vindictive 50 kids; Switzerland 30558 posts
27th Feb '12

Yes, there is a chance you will lose the others. But hopefully not!

smASHface 3 kids; 1 angel baby; French Lick, IN, United States 48506 posts
27th Feb '12

I wouldn't be pissed about that. Sad and upset but pissed? If anything, it's going to help the other 3 babies. It's never good to loose a baby, it hurts. I think that it depends on where you are at in pregnancy but higher # multiples are always very risky for all.

Vindictive 50 kids; Switzerland 30558 posts
27th Feb '12
Quoting 3LittleMonkeys:" I wouldn't be pissed about that. Sad and upset but pissed? If anything, it's going to help the other ... [snip!] ... baby, it hurts. I think that it depends on where you are at in pregnancy but higher # multiples are always very risky for all. "


I was pissed when I lost my last baby. It's a pretty normal emotion to feel.

smASHface 3 kids; 1 angel baby; French Lick, IN, United States 48506 posts
27th Feb '12
Quoting Vindictive:" I was pissed when I lost my last baby. It's a pretty normal emotion to feel."


I guess...I just didn't think pissed would be one of them. I'm sorry for both of your losses....:cry:

user banned Due August 17 (girl); Japan 46 posts
27th Feb '12
Quoting Ms.Mommy.:" I'm sorry. Miscarry in sucks. Are you going to be able To have the others? I didn't know you could only loose one."


yes.. because baby b's heartbeat just stopped, the others are still okay... they all have their own gestational sac.. iim kind of terrified because if its because of an infection or something maybe the rest might get it too

smASHface 3 kids; 1 angel baby; French Lick, IN, United States 48506 posts
27th Feb '12
Quoting ruthy2000:" yes.. because baby b's heartbeat just stopped, the others are still okay... they all have their own ... [snip!] ... own gestational sac.. iim kind of terrified because if its because of an infection or something maybe the rest might get it too"

how far along are you?

nursemaya mom to 3! 3 kids; 5 angel babies; Minnesota 16003 posts
27th Feb '12
Quoting Vindictive:" I was pissed when I lost my last baby. It's a pretty normal emotion to feel."


right! being angry is part of the grieving process - pretty normal

smASHface 3 kids; 1 angel baby; French Lick, IN, United States 48506 posts
27th Feb '12
Quoting nursemaya -mommy to 2:" right! being angry is part of the grieving process - pretty normal"


I'm sorry you had to feel that pain too :(

nursemaya mom to 3! 3 kids; 5 angel babies; Minnesota 16003 posts
27th Feb '12
Quoting 3LittleMonkeys:" I'm sorry you had to feel that pain too :("



thank you

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
27th Feb '12
Quoting ruthy2000:" Last week i found out that one of my babies had passed away in the womb. they are going to let me go ... [snip!] ... if the others will stick? im kind of pissed. i was so excited having 4 babies. now im going to have only 3 if that.....agh."


You are"pissed" you are ONLY having three? WTF? Hurt, sad, upset, dissapointed, devistated ect... not pissed. I have had 5m/c and I have never been PISSED that I lost a child. As a mother of multiples, I can see where you might be upset at a differet amount of children you are expecting. However, to lose one and not all 4 in your situation is a blessing!

user banned Due August 17 (girl); Japan 46 posts
27th Feb '12
Quoting 3LittleMonkeys:" how far along are you?"


15 weeks...