Reply
he wont c*m in me! Mommy of 2 Princess + 1 3 kids; Washington, District of Columbia 3154 posts
2nd Mar '12

My fiance keeps pulling out and cuming on my ass instead of inside me. its such a turn off. usually when hes about to c*m so am i, but when he pulls out mine goes away.



hes pulling out "so i wont get pregnant" but we are engaged, whats wrong with me getting pregnant! i mean if i get pregnant i just do but if i dont i dont, whats the big deal... its also a turn off that hes trying so extra hard to NOT get me pregnant :( he wants to wait 5 yrs before we have our next baby. i dont want my kids spread-ed out that far, just because he has siblings 10 and 20 yrs younger than him doesnt mean everyone wants to do that!



im pissed... maybe i just have baby fever,i dono. Does your guy pull out every single time? even when i was taking birth control he still pulled out. SMH

Avian's Mommy!! 1 child; Levelland, Texas 3872 posts
2nd Mar '12

Mine, won't have sex without a condom and/or birthcontorl... he and for sure pulls out... i know what you mean... it sounds like you need to talk to him

Mama [kdv] 1 child; Arizona 32176 posts
2nd Mar '12

He has that choice to pull out if he doesn't want to get you knocked up.

Heather12398 1 child; New York 4174 posts
2nd Mar '12

If he isn't ready for another baby why not just wait? You will be able to enjoy your wedding without a baby bump! lol. If it were me I would just go on birth control so sex could be more enjoyable.

Megan +2 2 kids; New Jersey 1384 posts
2nd Mar '12
Quoting Heather12398:" If he isn't ready for another baby why not just wait? You will be able to enjoy your wedding without a baby bump! lol. If it were me I would just go on birth control so sex could be more enjoyable. "


:)

Odd-Girl-Out 82 kids; Florida 1308 posts
2nd Mar '12
Quoting Momma♥:" He has that choice to pull out if he doesn't want to get you knocked up."


This...and if you dislike the pull out, use BC

furrbabiesmommy 18 kids; California 16570 posts
2nd Mar '12

Use birth control. I wouldn't get pregnant with out my partner also wantign a baby. Or your just asking for problems.
NO my dh doesnt' pull out everytime. But we do want another baby. BOTH of us.

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
2nd Mar '12
Quoting Sweetheart ♥:" My fiance keeps pulling out and cuming on my ass instead of inside me. its such a turn off. usually when ... [snip!] ... have baby fever,i dono. Does your guy pull out every single time? even when i was taking birth control he still pulled out. SMH"


That sounds like he's being smart. . . He doesn't want a kid. You're not on BC. Why on earth WOULD he c*m in you???



Seriously?



Maybe I could see you complaining if you were on BC, but it sounds like you're not right now. IMO, he's 100% doing the right thing. Wel, better would be to use some for of protection, lol, but c*****g in you would be dumb if he doesn't want you pregnant.

Moxie Crimefighter 2 kids; Illinois 5387 posts
2nd Mar '12

Why would you want to have a baby with someone who doesnt want one?

You guys should talk and make sure you are on the same page....


meanwhile, get on BC if you cant agree that you both want babies right now... the pull and pray is not a form of BC, and its pretty frickin gross that he does that

WeenieMachine 3 kids; Japan 27915 posts
2nd Mar '12

You may be ready for another baby but he obviously isn't. If getting a j**z bath grosses you out so much, he needs to use condoms or have a cumcatcherat the ready.

Mommilette 2 kids; Ontario 8948 posts
2nd Mar '12

Tell him how you feel

TracyBee 2 kids; Centralia, Washington 301 posts
2nd Mar '12

You can still get pregnant with the pull out method. He should get condoms if he it's trying to get you pregnant right now.

Monique and Dominic's mom 2 kids; Wyoming 2768 posts
2nd Mar '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sweetheart ♥:</b>" My fiance keeps pulling out and cuming on my ass instead of inside me. its such a turn off. usually when ... [snip!] ... have baby fever,i dono. Does your guy pull out every single time? even when i was taking birth control he still pulled out. SMH"</blockquote>




We use condoms when I'm not pregnant, we don't like playing Russian Roulette with the pull out method.

Mama [kdv] 1 child; Arizona 32176 posts
2nd Mar '12
Quoting WeenieMachine:" You may be ready for another baby but he obviously isn't. If getting a j**z bath grosses you out so much, he needs to use condoms or have a cumcatcherat the ready."


:!:

Grniz 2 kids; Illinois 45669 posts
2nd Mar '12
Quoting WeenieMachine:" You may be ready for another baby but he obviously isn't. If getting a j**z bath grosses you out so much, he needs to use condoms or have a cumcatcherat the ready."


dead hahahahahah.