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Need Answers... Me + 3 Due September 21 (boy); 2 kids; McComb, Mississippi 36 posts
17th Mar '12

I'm 21 , got two little girls.. I'm currently pregnant 13 weeks.. my bf is an alcoholic, don't have a job, can't drive, just all the wrong things, I just got a job do you think I should abort??

Vodka Knockers 1 child; North Carolina 8063 posts
17th Mar '12

Do you want to abort?

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
17th Mar '12

That is a very personnal decision. I am sorry you are having to contemplate terminating your pregnancy. Have you discussed this w/SO to c if he may be willing to get some help for his addiction.

John Mayer. 2 kids; Modesto, California 21992 posts
17th Mar '12

In your situation, I would, personally.



However, this isn't something I (or anyone else) can really tell you what to do. Look at the big picture, the future for all of you, the pros and cons.. and make your decision from there. Best of luck.

Me + 3 Due September 21 (boy); 2 kids; McComb, Mississippi 36 posts
17th Mar '12

I tried talking to him he say he would get help but still does it.. I'm not financial able.. and I think a baby would hold me back at this point, he don't even want to marry me... and I always said if I have my 3rd child it would be my last and I would be married.. he behind in child support with his first child

Vodka Knockers 1 child; North Carolina 8063 posts
17th Mar '12
Quoting Me + 3:" I tried talking to him he say he would get help but still does it.. I'm not financial able.. and I think ... [snip!] ... said if I have my 3rd child it would be my last and I would be married.. he behind in child support with his first child"

Personally I'd abort, but it's a decision you have to make and be comfortable with.
Good luck. If you need to talk, PM me.

MiriRose923 Colorado 30 posts
20th Mar '12

Hi Me + 3,
I can understand the uncertainty you're feeling right now, and I'm really sorry things are not happening in your life the way you planned.

While reading your post, this Q & A came to mind: http://bit.ly/wwpgHy I've worked with Focus on the Family, and they have a lot of help and resources to offer women in situations like yours. Also, have you heard of OptionLine? http://www.optionline.org/ You might want to consider contacting them.... I hope this helps. God bless you!

Ronisha Foggs Due June 8 (boy); Japan 2 posts
24th Mar '12
Quoting Me + 3:" I'm 21 , got two little girls.. I'm currently pregnant 13 weeks.. my bf is an alcoholic, don't have a job, can't drive, just all the wrong things, I just got a job do you think I should abort??"

no

2BlessedJess Due April 22 (girl); 1 child; Michigan 7 posts
28th Mar '12

Please dont.....speaking from experience ...your life will be be worse afterwards...worse then dealing with an alcholic boyfriend.....you will drown in regret and might even become emotionally numb....I know everyone is different but if you have a heart and beleive in Jesus Christ....i cant see you feeling any other way! he will forgive you ...but you will condemn your self!! Im not tryna to sound like a crazy religious person....but ive recently gone through this and have even been to a abortion retreat to help me cope......never in a million years did i think it would feel like this! No reason is a good enough reason......again please dont !

Ronisha Foggs Due June 8 (boy); Japan 2 posts
30th Mar '12

I DONT BELIEVE IN THAT KINDA STUFF. YOU GOT A JOB YOU KAN TAKE KARE OF YA BABY.



Quoting Me + 3:" I'm 21 , got two little girls.. I'm currently pregnant 13 weeks.. my bf is an alcoholic, don't have a job, can't drive, just all the wrong things, I just got a job do you think I should abort??"