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F...M...L Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
19th Mar '12

After a tubal in September and my SO got a vesectomy I still managed to get pregnant. I DO NOT want to be pregnant. I'm so upset I'm having a rank break down...this is not supposed to happen... My life is so fucked.
I never planned on children, but here I am with 2. I had an abortion already back in June, and I'm stuck in.the same position. I still have not mentally/ emotionally healed from the first one.
I live in a small city, and can't.afford to travel.. I'm so embarassed having to go back to the ONLY Dr who does the abortions here... I'm going to feel so judged...
My SO acts like its no big deal and.that I cam get another abortion, and its.a " whatever" situation.....
I don't even like sex.. I have sex because he likes sex. I went through a painful procedure and healing, because he likes sex.



I'm f**king scuzz.. I wish i could stand up for myself or respected myself more because then this shit.wouldn't happen.
I hate myself, and my life. This is the worst.time ever for this to happen... I have.exams coming up in 2 weeks and I won't be able.to concentrate.




End vent.... Time for a nap.



Bad grammar because I'm on my phone.

user banned 2 kids; United Kingdom 3029 posts
19th Mar '12

I'm sorry hun :(

G and Goob's momma 34 kids; Green Cove Springs, Florida 10267 posts
19th Mar '12

I am so sorry. Please don't feel judged by the doctor, you have went to great measures to prevent a baby from happening and it still happened. Nothing you can do about it. I am also sorry your DH is acting that way, it is a big deal and he may be acting that way because he is not the one having to go through it. Maybe explain to him how your feeling. I hope things get better for you soon

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
19th Mar '12

Wow even after a vasectomy? I'm soo sorry...

SemiCharmed 2 kids; Oklahoma 12047 posts
19th Mar '12
Quoting Goobs Mom [15]:" I am so sorry. Please don't feel judged by the doctor, you have went to great measures to prevent a baby ... [snip!] ... because he is not the one having to go through it. Maybe explain to him how your feeling. I hope things get better for you soon"


THIS! This is NOT your fault. Good luck!

user banned 2 kids; North Carolina 7623 posts
19th Mar '12

I'm so sorry your going through this. Keep your head up. How far along are you or do you know?

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
19th Mar '12

((Hugs))



I'm so sorry you're having to make this decision mama.

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
19th Mar '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kim Kardashian:</b>" I'm so sorry your going through this. Keep your head up. How far along are you or do you know?"</blockquote>



I'm not even sure. My period went crazy in January. It came two weeks early, then a week early in february. They were both normal flows but i have no idea why it moved around so much...
And since my tubal I can feel when I ovulate because i end up in bed for two days because of the pain, and in February it never happened, I thought maybe my tubal figured itself out and it was done scarring.... Guess not.

Monkey Nuts Australia 4572 posts
19th Mar '12

I'm so sorry.
I feel so bad for you hun, its really not fair that you have to go through that.

castaway 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 18802 posts
19th Mar '12

This is in no way your fault.



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Unbelievably crazy and sad. Hang in there mamma, and don't be hard on yourself.