My Little Bessie 4 kids; 2 angel babies; United Kingdom 27582 posts
Mar 20th '12
Quoting bombbfantasy:" When we were looking for places for him to be throughout the day, we went there and the place looks ... [snip!] ... chewed gum like goats, were constantly on the phone. we quickly passed that place up. But my husband signed him up there!"


I call bullshit, day care over here is very strict, yes some are better than others but the inspection they have to pass would not allow a place you are describing to be running as a day care.

The Icebox {MBRD} 17 kids; New Mexico 18574 posts
Mar 20th '12
gQuoting Bovine Burlesque:" I call bullshit, day care over here is very strict, yes some are better than others but the inspection they have to pass would not allow a place you are describing to be running as a day care."


This is what I was thinking.

Besides OP, you've already made your ex into a single dad, why inconvenience him even more by making him commute longer? Do you have any idea how exhausting it is to do what he's doing? That extra time in the car might seem like nothing, but it can make the day a whole lot worse.

Mrs. Brandie ♡ 3 kids; Buffalo, New York 300 posts
Mar 20th '12

You say your children deserve the best yet where the hell are you??? Full arm tattoos are trashy but leaving your kids to go party it up and sleep with other people isnt? You're something.

Mrs.C+4.5 5 kids; 1 angel baby; Duncan, OK, United States 17603 posts
status Mar 20th '12
Quoting Kat Griffith:" OP you're just a dumb hoe who abandoned her kids for some piece of ass in the U.S. Your ex-husband is the only parent who is caring for them so he gets to decide where his kids go."


They are still married and he has no idea that she left to be with someone else. He thinks she just went to go "find herself"

K&A 17 kids; California 884 posts
Mar 20th '12

I'm pretty sure THIS TROLL is the same person as NFL babymomma, that kim k wannabe and "i hate burgerking" b***h. Wish i had proof, but my intuition tells me that. Just sayin'....

[♥Permanent♥] 50 kids; Georgia 2956 posts
Mar 20th '12

imo you dont have a say because you're not around to help. Maybe he can find anothrr daycare closer. But its no longer your decision

My Little Bessie 4 kids; 2 angel babies; United Kingdom 27582 posts
Mar 20th '12
Quoting Kat Griffith:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Bovine Burlesque:</b>" I call bullshit, day care over here ... [snip!] ... Yes! Someone who knows how it is over there! I was thinking how the hell could a daycare be like that!"


even to be an at home daycare over here you must have a degree or equivalent qualification in childcare, you must be government registered and meet the minimum requirements for learning aids and safety features. Minimum staff requirements and CRB (criminal records) checks on anyone working there.

[[Breezy]] Due August 15; 1 child; Savannah, Georgia 16186 posts
Mar 20th '12
Quoting K&A:" I'm pretty sure THIS TROLL is the same person as NFL babymomma, that kim k wannabe and "i hate burgerking" b***h. Wish i had proof, but my intuition tells me that. Just sayin'...."


Agreed. They all speak pretty much the same.
Lol @ "I hate Burger King b***h." :lol:

A.K.'s Mommy❤ TTC since Jul 2013; 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 1803 posts
Mar 20th '12

LOL I love how she's new & just re-did her profile not that long ago, BUT her profile says she lives in the UK with her husband, has pictures up of her AND her husband.... buuuuutttttttt they're getting divorced because she cheated on him with a woman, correct? & she left them all & moved to the US, correct?
......................................
STFU_and_GTFO-picard-star-trek-demotivat

animaLibera_ 1 child; Ohio 7959 posts
Mar 20th '12

I was all for being sympathetic with you about having to "find yourself" and be happy again.. but you are so full of shit.
When you made the decision to move to another continent to be with that woman, you left all responsibility for those children on him. If he needs to move daycare to lessen his load then it's none of your f**king business imo.
If you want to have a say in your children's lives again in matters like this then you can move your happy ass back to where they are and sit your ass at home with them so that he won't have to send him to that daycare anymore.



Get a f**king hold of yourself and realize the severity of the situation that YOU put yourself in. If you wanna move away then so be it, but don't think that you will continue to have a say in the way that your children are raised or anything that has to do with it, because right now you are not in the picture as much as you like to think that you are.

Ellie. 2 kids; Arizona 25439 posts
Mar 20th '12
Quoting bombbfantasy:" When we were looking for places for him to be throughout the day, we went there and the place looks ... [snip!] ... chewed gum like goats, were constantly on the phone. we quickly passed that place up. But my husband signed him up there!"


Yeah.... sleeve tattoos mean nothing. It's a form of art expression. Way to be judgmental.

cfxfdfdfdsfdafdsf Vacaville, California 71166 posts
Mar 20th '12

Your poor husband. : ( he deserves so much better, and so do your babies. Hopefully he'll find a woman that'll stand by his side and actually care for children they birth rather than running off to be with their girlfriend.



and yeah, tats are super trashy, especially trampstamps of a mans name. yuck.

ChelseaLee2006 17 kids; Ohio 46 posts
Mar 20th '12

IMO, I think OP is a troll. It just seems that she/he/it has a different story from post to post. First, it's talking about jumping countries to find "herself", then you look at her profile and it says she's still over there with her husband. Then she posts some "troll like" threads about getting turned on by looking at breastfeeding boobies? or something along those lines. And also has posted MODELING PHOTOS? Who can honestly post modeling photos for moms who already know the backstory on this OP to comment on after everything that's been said and done? And still feel calm and collect about it? THEN, she has vigorously tried to change the story on THIS THREAD multiple times by literally confirming that her and DH were looking for a "daycare" and when someone called her out, she didn't notice for a FEW MORE POSTS, then said "It doesn't matter where I'm at.. my kids still deserve the best.." Sorry but I don't believe this chick. I think she is using this site thinking she is going to gain attention or get some sort of revenue. I think she has an "I want to be famous" aspect and where better to start than a forum where she can gain the attention of many by posting stories that could potentially be false. I don't know. Something seems up with it!