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second trimester abortion Rae's mama *USMC* 17 kids; Fort Walton Beach, Florida 5538 posts
22nd Mar '12

I am scheduled for an abortion Saturday. I will be 15 weeks. I do not want to explain why me and my husband have come to this decision, I am just looking for support. Even though I did not want this baby when I got a bfp, I am very upset about this. I haven't told any friends or family what has happened and my husband is 4 hours away at work. I am at home alone with my toddler and I just feel very lost. In a way I am relieved I will not have to carry the worry I've had on my shoulders and I know I can always try to conceive again. But I don't know I feel bad for this baby, I love this baby.

WeenieMachine 3 kids; Japan 27915 posts
22nd Mar '12

It's not an easy decision but a necessary one sometimes. If it's what's best for you and your family, you'll get through it. Best in your recovery.

user banned 2 kids; Indiana 7057 posts
22nd Mar '12

I'm sorry you're having to go through this... I know it will take a toll on you emotionally. Maybe look into some counceling for afterwards if you need it.

*Momma2Boys* 2 kids; Kansas 3014 posts
22nd Mar '12

I just PMed you, but i'm sorry its came to this :( I hope everything goes good and you will feel at ease afterwards!! *hugs*

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30556 posts
22nd Mar '12

I am sorry you are in a tough spot, hope it all works out for the best for you and your family :)

Puff the Magic Dragon! 15 kids; Ontario 14235 posts
22nd Mar '12
Quoting WeenieMachine:" It's not an easy decision but a necessary one sometimes. If it's what's best for you and your family, you'll get through it. Best in your recovery."

:!:



I had one at 12 weeks. I tore me up to think about..so i didn't. I got through it, and have moved on with such ease.



I wish the best for you guys, sorry hun :( .

Stu Padasso 2 kids; Henderson, Nevada 14638 posts
22nd Mar '12

I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. I know it's an extremely hard decision to make. I hope everything goes smoothly <3

Mommy to 2 Silly Monsters 2 kids; Austin, Texas 4429 posts
22nd Mar '12

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IMHO 2 kids; Ontario 7746 posts
22nd Mar '12

So sorry you're going through this honey! Sometimes life just hits us with the rottenest shit.

BrianaGregory Due May 30 (boy); Kentucky 122 posts
22nd Mar '12

If you feel bad about abortion did you think about adoption? jw because theyre are a lot of good people out there maybe you would feel better doing it that way? plus some couple even let you see the baby afterwards.

~RJ~DG~AS~ 4 kids; Conroe, Texas 16669 posts
22nd Mar '12

I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Just know that what you're doing is for the right reason for you and your family right now. Of course it is going to be hard, but ultimately in the end if this is what you have decided is best then you will get through it. Good luck in your recovery.

user banned Beverly Hills, California 36921 posts
22nd Mar '12

Im really, really sorry. I know that place.

Its Eh-Lei Ocala, Florida 4303 posts
22nd Mar '12

=/ Im sorry that your going threw that & I wish you the best



but Im against abtn.



although I hope you make it threw.

uəəๅๅoƆ fuknutz, NM, Togo 105361 posts
status 22nd Mar '12

I'm sorry you are faced with this decision.

Best wishes

ღ.ღ.ღ 3 kids; South Carolina 7316 posts
22nd Mar '12

I'm sorry you're having to go through this, but you made the best decision for your family and that's all that matters. Have you thought about talking to someone afterwards just incase, to help you get through it?