Fertile Mertile + D & C 2 kids; Sumter, SC, United States 37083 posts
22nd Mar '12
Quoting The Piper:" yay! the home stretch!"


Yep and at the moment I feel exhausted, and it's only 10. That's what I get for not napping.

*WishingUponAStar* 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Lawton, Oklahoma 18442 posts
22nd Mar '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting babygirl_2491:</b>" It all depends on what state your in and thats if your not living on base. So he gets 800 in bah and 300 for food. Thats just how missouri does it I guess"</blockquote>




Not all that is extra for being married to you. He just gets more BAH than soldiers without dependents. So only a little bit of that 800 for bah is extra for him being married, not all of it. The food money, aka bas, doesnt change no matter if he is married or not. Only COLA would change, which you dont receive in Missouri.
Also if it has been that long and you really think he wont sign the papers because he gets extra money for dependents, you really should be contacting his command and telling them. As long as you are still married, you are entitled to a certain percentage of his BAH. Just an FYI.

babygirl_2491 Due June 17 (girl); 16 kids; Little Rock, Arkansas 56 posts
22nd Mar '12
Quoting *WishingUponAStar*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting babygirl_2491:</b>" It all depends on what state your in and ... [snip!] ... command and telling them. As long as you are still married, you are entitled to a certain percentage of his BAH. Just an FYI."


Well here is the thing and your gonna think I am a complete moron but I dont know his unit or anything like that and since I live in Arkansas I cant go and talk to his sgt or anything like that. I have been truying to figure it out and it aint easy. I have soem of his military papers back home in indiana in my brothers garage but I cant get him to go get them for me lol. So I am in a bit of a situation lol. a silly one at that

*WishingUponAStar* 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Lawton, Oklahoma 18442 posts
22nd Mar '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting babygirl_2491:</b>" Well here is the thing and your gonna think I am a complete moron but I dont know his unit or anything ... [snip!] ... in my brothers garage but I cant get him to go get them for me lol. So I am in a bit of a situation lol. a silly one at that"</blockquote>




Did you know anyone in MO that can help you out? You can also try looking up the base website...every base has their own website. They should have a list of numbers on the website. If you call base information just tell them you are trying to get a hold of your husbands unit and give them his name and they might be able to help you. It would really help if you know his MOS (job he does), rank, and ss#. If you could somehow find out what unit he is in, you could find his unit's phone number on the base website. Good luck with everything! I hope you are able to get your divorce soon and move on! That would be so irritating!

Amy {30+} 19 kids; Wisconsin 24541 posts
22nd Mar '12

With all the calling out this should be in tdc

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; South Land, CA, United States 119219 posts
22nd Mar '12
Quoting Amy {30+}:" With all the calling out this should be in tdc"


I hit it a couple times but people didnt agree.

"Jett's Mummy" 1 child; Brisbane, Australia 977 posts
22nd Mar '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♡Sarah♡ +1.5:</b>" I hit it a couple times but people didnt agree."</blockquote>




Yeah definatley I just voted for it.
It is titled drama!!!!!!drama!!!!!!drama!!!

3 of a Kind Due March 27 (boy); 2 kids; Webster, Texas 4317 posts
22nd Mar '12

Lol ladies it is in tdc lol

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; South Land, CA, United States 119219 posts
22nd Mar '12
Quoting ValerieKris ♥ TTC:" Lol ladies it is in tdc lol"


It just went here though

3 of a Kind Due March 27 (boy); 2 kids; Webster, Texas 4317 posts
22nd Mar '12

No. O it's been there... Sorry one voted for it a while back

3 of a Kind Due March 27 (boy); 2 kids; Webster, Texas 4317 posts
22nd Mar '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♡Sarah♡ +1.5:</b>" It just went here though"</blockquote>



Aw shit I'm thinking about the wrong thread lol oops

user banned 2 kids; North Carolina 7623 posts
23rd Mar '12
Quoting kei_kei:" drama on bg to.......they going to give you advice but then talk shit about you b/c you not typing standard american english.....thats why i had to stay off here 2 i'm telling you i get mad fast"


You sound like some crazy woman who would go to jail over BG if someone pissed you off on here. Lmao.

j.Rileys mommy 1 child; Rhode Island 1055 posts
23rd Mar '12
Quoting ♥Love♥:" Dont have a facebook? Problem solved! I dont have one and I have very little drama in my life"


i got rid of mine for this reason! my life is drama free now :)