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And now that its done ThatMama. 2 kids; 2 angel babies; California 167 posts
25th Mar '12

I had my termination yesterdy and now im filled with regret. I was 12 weeks exactally and cant help but wish I would have just went the 6 months. I felt it was what was best for my family but now im not so sure :/ . I feel numb inside . Ladies if you are concidering this option make sure you are 100% that it is what you want

The Blissful Six 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Massachusetts 10260 posts
25th Mar '12

I'm sorry your hurting and pray you can find peace with your choice. *hugs*

❀Sarah❀ 2 kids; Cocking, EU, Europe 122653 posts
status 25th Mar '12

I'm so sorry



Maybe counseling will help, getting it all out and talking.

Super Mommy! Pasadena, CA, United States 13443 posts
25th Mar '12

I'm sorry you feel this way. Terminating is by far a lot harder emotionally and mentally than having a baby. I agree, find someone you trust, get some counseling, and talk about it. Hopefully with time you will accept your decision and be able to move on with your life without any regrets.

_money makin mitch_ 2 kids; duuuuval, FL, United States 3438 posts
25th Mar '12

im sorry youre feeling that way, hope u feel better soon

You can call me Kay 19 kids; California 3607 posts
25th Mar '12

Hugs!
I hope you find peace soon.
Give it time, and I'm sure things will become more clear <3

Puff the Magic Dragon! 15 kids; Ontario 14235 posts
25th Mar '12

perhaps talk.



to .. a professional.



I was also exactly 12 weeks, it was right for my family. I chose it, and have no regrets.
If you have regrets i would, talk. You seem like you'll need a bit of emotional support.

Zoey's My World Due May 5 (girl); 1 child; New York 2123 posts
25th Mar '12

I'm sorry, sending prayers and thoughts your way for peace and reassurance.

Vodka Knockers 1 child; North Carolina 8063 posts
25th Mar '12

I wish you a quick and easy healing emotionally and physically <3
I do agree with other posters; Maybe seek counseling if you're feeling regrets, or you can always talk to other mamas on here who have been through the same.
Good luck.

ThatMama. 2 kids; 2 angel babies; California 167 posts
25th Mar '12

Thank you mams for your prayers and support. I agree I may need to seek professional help . Im going to give it 2 weeks and if I still feel this way help is for sure something I will need. you never understand a situation untill you have experienced it. I believe everything happens for a reason sometimes you just dont realize the reason sometimes for a while. :/ .

TiffanyLynnx3 1 child; Hamlet, North Carolina 934 posts
26th Mar '12
Quoting mama e.:" Thank you mams for your prayers and support. I agree I may need to seek professional help . Im going ... [snip!] ... it. I believe everything happens for a reason sometimes you just dont realize the reason sometimes for a while. :/ ."


Do you think you shouldnt have done it? Im pretty postive im pregnant just havent had it confirmed yet. Im almost 18 & already have a daughter that just turned one. Ive been crying alot lately. ik Me and the babysdad cant support another baby but i dont want an abortion :/ nor adoption i think id rather have god have my baby than another family. - Just looking for advice.

Puff the Magic Dragon! 15 kids; Ontario 14235 posts
26th Mar '12
Quoting mama e.:" Thank you mams for your prayers and support. I agree I may need to seek professional help . Im going ... [snip!] ... it. I believe everything happens for a reason sometimes you just dont realize the reason sometimes for a while. :/ ."


Very true.



Hope all goes well for you.

ThatMama. 2 kids; 2 angel babies; California 167 posts
26th Mar '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting TiffanyLynnx3:</b>" Do you think you shouldnt have done it? Im pretty postive im pregnant just havent had it confirmed yet. ... [snip!] ... i dont want an abortion :/ nor adoption i think id rather have god have my baby than another family. - Just looking for advice."</blockquote>




I do regret it. Had I known a few days ago what it would be like and my feelings after I would have not went thru with it. My edd with the pregnancy I terminated was 10 days after my sons original due date but he came a week early. This year when my sons turns 2 it is going to be a reminder for me that hed be having a brother or sister anyday. I know for some people abortion was the best choice for them but for me I do not. I hope for you that you will find whats best for you and hugs to you while you are going through this. If you decide terinating is best make sure you dont have second guesses like I did and that you are 100% sure that thats what is best for you

TiffanyLynnx3 1 child; Hamlet, North Carolina 934 posts
26th Mar '12
Quoting mama e.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting TiffanyLynnx3:</b>" Do you think you shouldnt have done it? ... [snip!] ... terinating is best make sure you dont have second guesses like I did and that you are 100% sure that thats what is best for you"


Thanks so much. & i hope you get thru your situation okay.

Momma Nat+2 2 kids; USA 381 posts
27th Mar '12

*prayers* i hope you feel better soon mama.