Reply
AliciaLaShay. 34 kids; Tennessee 2383 posts
25th Mar '12
Quoting Logan&Lilly's Mommy:" Hes 1 lb 4.5 oz now. The doctors said hes to small to do it, but shes trying to find a hospital that ... [snip!] ... she doesnt want to lose him. She doesnt care where she has to go she just wants to do whatever is possible for her little boy."


when it comes to having surgry most doctors get there own second and third views on things from fellow doctors. Wether the parents ask for it or not. (I know they HAVE to when it comes to heart surgerys.) There doing whats best for the baby right now, they wouldnt let him suffer im sure. If she pressures surgery at another hospital it might turn out different then what she is wanting. even though she feels as if it was best. Its their jobs to do the right things at the right times. You just have to trust them.



I my self had to have open heart & a double valve replacement and alot of blood transfusions. but they "HAD" to wait till i was a little older. In stead of 6 years old. Because my heart was to small and i had to much fluid around it and IF they was to do it then it would of put me having to have multi replacements in my heart through out my years and cause me to have a short life.. As i grew, the fluid reduced. And made it less of a risk for my surgery. My parents didnt understand that either at the time, but trusted the doctors.
(If that helps you understand.) Somthings are for the best and not for the worst as alot of people would think. I would trust them if i was her.

Logan,Lilly&Landen's Mom♥ 3 kids; Virginia 2903 posts
26th Mar '12
Quoting ALICIA♥smerfette:" when it comes to having surgry most doctors get there own second and third views on things from fellow ... [snip!] ... understand.) Somthings are for the best and not for the worst as alot of people would think. I would trust them if i was her."

Thank you. I was just trying to help her out. I've had 2 early miscarriages and they were hard i cant imagine giving birth to a baby having him here for a month then losing him.

Megan *1 Of Each* Due November 6; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Port Jefferson Station, New York 2652 posts
27th Mar '12

Just to let you all know Wesley grew his wings last night. He passed peacefully in his mothers arms.

AliciaLaShay. 34 kids; Tennessee 2383 posts
27th Mar '12
Quoting Logan&Lilly's Mommy:" Thank you. I was just trying to help her out. I've had 2 early miscarriages and they were hard i cant imagine giving birth to a baby having him here for a month then losing him."


Yeah i understand. I have also had two it made me so depressed.
But Its better to let them decided on when just so there not forcing him into somthing and his body not being able to handel it, ya know?
Maybe its for the best just give them a little time. (; and stay positive! If you dont mind, Ill be praying for yall.

Logan,Lilly&Landen's Mom♥ 3 kids; Virginia 2903 posts
27th Mar '12
Quoting ALICIA♥smerfette:" Yeah i understand. I have also had two it made me so depressed. But Its better to let them decided ... [snip!] ... ya know? Maybe its for the best just give them a little time. (; and stay positive! If you dont mind, Ill be praying for yall."

His mom needs all the prayers she can get so thats fine. She decided that she didnt want him to be in pain and suffer anymore so she held him until he passed away last night. Hes an angel now.

AliciaLaShay. 34 kids; Tennessee 2383 posts
27th Mar '12
Quoting Logan&Lilly's Mommy:" His mom needs all the prayers she can get so thats fine. She decided that she didnt want him to be in pain and suffer anymore so she held him until he passed away last night. Hes an angel now."


Im so sorry. ill be praying.

Logan,Lilly&Landen's Mom♥ 3 kids; Virginia 2903 posts
27th Mar '12
Quoting ALICIA♥smerfette:" Im so sorry. ill be praying."

Thank you.