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do same sex lovers have to be safe? avalee. 2 kids; Miami, Florida 149 posts
1st Apr '12

with protection and what not? i'm still on my pills because my husband and i are technically still together and anything could happen but i wanted to know if my girlfriend and i have to be safe? and how does that even work? we perform oral sex on each other so say for instance she has an std, how would I protect myself from getting it? or is it not possible?

user banned 2 kids; North Carolina 7623 posts
1st Apr '12

You don't know if she has an STD? I'd find out.

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; South Land, CA, United States 118942 posts
status 1st Apr '12

There are dental dams you can purchase. Its a thin strip that you place over the vagina to protect you both.



I think that everyone who isnt in an exclusive relationship should practice safe sex, no matter the sexual orientation of the couple.

avalee. 2 kids; Miami, Florida 149 posts
1st Apr '12
Quoting chassidy.:" You don't know if she has an STD? I'd find out."


she doesn't. it was just a scenario I was using

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
1st Apr '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting rainbow love.:</b>" with protection and what not? i'm still on my pills because my husband and i are technically still together ... [snip!] ... oral sex on each other so say for instance she has an std, how would I protect myself from getting it? or is it not possible?"</blockquote>




Of course it's possible.



If she has an std, you've already l****d it up though.
But, it's still good to use protection In case she cheats.
Dental dam I think is what it's called. Or just Saran wrap.

AmandaSixx + JZS Due November 22 (boy); 2 kids; Gresham, Oregon 25811 posts
1st Apr '12

if she has an STD i wouldnt go down on her... until shes cleard or soemthing idk im sorry

avalee. 2 kids; Miami, Florida 149 posts
1st Apr '12
Quoting ♡Sarah♡ +1.5:" There are dental dams you can purchase. Its a thin strip that you place over the vagina to protect you ... [snip!] ... that everyone who isnt in an exclusive relationship should practice safe sex, no matter the sexual orientation of the couple."


i've never heard of those before. I can get them over the counter right?

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; South Land, CA, United States 118942 posts
status 1st Apr '12
Quoting rainbow love.:" i've never heard of those before. I can get them over the counter right?"


I'm not sure, you may wanna try a sex shop. I've never seen them at walgreens or any other pharmacy but then again I've never looked.

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
1st Apr '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting rainbow love.:</b>" i've never heard of those before. I can get them over the counter right?"</blockquote>




You can use Saran wrap too.

avalee. 2 kids; Miami, Florida 149 posts
1st Apr '12
Quoting ~~Lmnop~~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting rainbow love.:</b>" i've never heard of those before. I can get them over the counter right?"</blockquote> You can use Saran wrap too."


we'll try it.



I wonder if it feels the same?

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
1st Apr '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting rainbow love.:</b>" we'll try it. I wonder if it feels the same?"</blockquote>




I know that Saran wrap isn't as easy to use as the dental dam but it's readily available and cheap.



I've never tried either though, I don't like Recieving

~*~Chicken Noodle Soup~*~ Due August 25 (girl); Fort Lauderdale, Florida 220 posts
1st Apr '12

Take a non lubricated condom cut it long ways down the middle & there ya go. Same thing as the dental damns they sell in adult stores & cheaper.

taking a look at life Palm beach gardens, FL, United States 49100 posts
1st Apr '12

i found u can us unlubed condoms dry one's by cutting the ruberband part off and cutting down one side.



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