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c**t trouble after vaginal birth His Crazy Mum 1 child; Ohio 1735 posts
4th Apr '12

I cant talk to my OB, they insist on connecting me to their dumb ass nurses who dont know their a*****e from their face, so im making an appointment.
But in the mean time i was wondering if any of you mamas have had this trouble.
I am 2weeks 5days pp after having my 7lb 15oz son vaginally. I thought maybe it would ware off but its been almost three weeks with NO improvement.
My c**t obviously went through some trauma. I didnt tare at all, nothing. But everytime i sneeze, cough, flex my abodomine, push to poop and urinate (or anything else that might flex your vagina, which ends up being A LOT more than thought previous to this problem) it feels like my c**t and the surrounding muscles (just at the top of my vagina right by my c**t) is going to fall off. I cant really describe it as anything else. Its a pretty horrible pain to try to retract these muscles so they can relax and sit like normal. I have no lingering pain after ive managed to contract it back but MY GOD is it painful to try and do so!!!! It hasnt gotten any better over the weeks. And i know its still a little early but i would think there would be some sort of leeway after almost three weeks. Im not asking for medical opinions. Im simply asking if any of you woman know anyone or have had this problem yourself. What was it for you??? Im REALLY hoping this isnt permanent!!! That will basically RUIN sex for me :*( and my SO has made me into a "horny teenager" lmao
Thanks ladies. I think i posted this in the most related forum?!?!?

.free. 2 kids; Arkansas 36040 posts
4th Apr '12

You realize you just pushed a baby out of your vagina, right? Things are going to be fucked up for a while.
You're only 2 weeks PP.
Wait the full 6 weeks before you start freaking out.

Gabby311 3 kids; Hilton Head Island, 13998 posts
4th Apr '12

My junk was sore for awhile. I wouldnt worry right now. Give it more time.

His Crazy Mum 1 child; Ohio 1735 posts
4th Apr '12

Im not freakin out. Im asking with curiosity. And its painful all the time so im getting it checked up on as advised by a nurse in L&D. And yes i realize i just had a baby but everything exterior feels fine otherwise. But thanks

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 16748 posts
status 4th Apr '12
Quoting L☣J:" You realize you just pushed a baby out of your vagina, right? Things are going to be fucked up for a while. You're only 2 weeks PP. Wait the full 6 weeks before you start freaking out."


:!: It went away from me around 8-10 weeks.



I would advise you to wait until you have sex. You could get an infection easily and the changes of getting pregnant again are greater...especially since you arent on b/c yet.

.free. 2 kids; Arkansas 36040 posts
4th Apr '12
Quoting His Crazy Mum:" Im not freakin out. Im asking with curiosity. And its painful all the time so im getting it checked up ... [snip!] ... on as advised by a nurse in L&D. And yes i realize i just had a baby but everything exterior feels fine otherwise. But thanks"

Because you're still healing

tooodles 240 kids; Thailand 5075 posts
4th Apr '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting L☣J:</b>" You realize you just pushed a baby out of your vagina, right? Things are going to be fucked up for a while. You're only 2 weeks PP. Wait the full 6 weeks before you start freaking out."</blockquote>




This! Youre 2 weeks pp. You can expect things to be funky and sore down there for a very very long time. Even well past your 6 weeks pp.

.free. 2 kids; Arkansas 36040 posts
4th Apr '12
Quoting :*:CHRiSTiNe:*::" <blockquote><b>Quoting L☣J:</b>" You realize you just pushed a baby out of your ... [snip!] ... 2 weeks pp. You can expect things to be funky and sore down there for a very very long time. Even well past your 6 weeks pp."

I'm 5 months pp and still sore after sex sometimes

Mrs. Galeforce TTC since Apr 2013; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Titusville, FL, United States 2492 posts
4th Apr '12

DUDDEEEE I had the same thing. I mean it didnt feel like it was gonna fall off but it felt like anytime Id push pee, poop, ect Id feel pressure in my c**t, almost like that feeling when you have clitoral stimulation and its too much to handle, it hurts.
I still kinda feel it every once in a while.
tmi (when I masterbate now, its SUPERRRRR sensitive!)
kinda in a good way.
Give it a little bit longer, it will probably start feeling better.

tooodles 240 kids; Thailand 5075 posts
4th Apr '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting L☣J:</b>" I'm 5 months pp and still sore after sex sometimes"</blockquote>




I hear ya! I was 6 months pp exactly the first time I had sex after giving birth and it was so weird and painful and just didnt feel the same. Now its back to normal but I would say for the first 8 months my stuff was just all out of whack. At 2 weeks pp I still could barely walk normal without being in some kind of pain.

His Crazy Mum 1 child; Ohio 1735 posts
4th Apr '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Donelle Gale:</b>" DUDDEEEE I had the same thing. I mean it didnt feel like it was gonna fall off but it felt like anytime ... [snip!] ... now, its SUPERRRRR sensitive!) kinda in a good way. Give it a little bit longer, it will probably start feeling better."</blockquote>




Lmao lol.
Oo yeah i want to have sex (SO BAD lol) but WONT be doing that anytime before the six week and maybe longer lol.
Thanks guys :D

Mrs. Galeforce TTC since Apr 2013; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Titusville, FL, United States 2492 posts
4th Apr '12
Quoting His Crazy Mum:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Donelle Gale:</b>" DUDDEEEE I had the same thing. I mean it ... [snip!] ... yeah i want to have sex (SO BAD lol) but WONT be doing that anytime before the six week and maybe longer lol. Thanks guys :D"


yeah i just posted about my sex last night. check it out! lol

His Crazy Mum 1 child; Ohio 1735 posts
4th Apr '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Donelle Gale:</b>" yeah i just posted about my sex last night. check it out! lol"</blockquote>



I cant believe i missed that lol

NicoThunders 2 kids; Michigan 12847 posts
4th Apr '12

With my first I tore up to my c**t (still have some nerve damage there). Took about 5 months to heal.



With my second I only had a "papercut" but I was still sore down there. For me though, a vibrator on the c**t helped make the soreness feel so much better, haha. After about a month it didn't hurt at all anymore.



Hope you have some speedy healing!

His Crazy Mum 1 child; Ohio 1735 posts
4th Apr '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting NicoThunders:</b>" With my first I tore up to my c**t (still have some nerve damage there). Took about 5 months to heal. ... [snip!] ... the soreness feel so much better, haha. After about a month it didn't hurt at all anymore. Hope you have some speedy healing!"</blockquote>




Hmmm... might jist try it... of course just to help it heal
AHAHAHAHAHA ;D