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Dirk&Kristians mommy Due June 26 (boy); 1 child; Oil City, Pennsylvania 16 posts
Apr 9th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Raven & Declans Mama~:</b>" This is not true, actually most babies born to mothers who frequently use cocaine do not show signs ... [snip!] ... are always risks but most of the time the biggest problem is withdrawl, seizures, vomiting, low birth rate and vision problems."</blockquote>




Birth defects are still a big risk so is withdrawals which the child can die from cleft palate and mental disorders are common in babies whose mother used during pregnancy there's alot of things that can go wrong with this situation since it wasn't just one drug it was multiple (pills are drugs too) not saying the baby will have problems but it is highly likely

~RJ~DG~AS~ 4 kids; Conroe, Texas 16669 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting Cassie Roxberry:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~Raven & Declans Mama~:</b>" This is not true, actually most ... [snip!] ... it wasn't just one drug it was multiple (pills are drugs too) not saying the baby will have problems but it is highly likely"


Withdrawl is a bigger risk than birth defects, not saying that withdrawl is not an issue, I know it is, I went through this with my friend. I understand that pills are drugs too. Bottom line is she is trying to stop and is asking for help now so that she can make sure her baby has the best possible outcome.

myr-a-myr 3 kids; Quebec 2280 posts
Apr 9th '12
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Aribean 1 child; California 11400 posts
Apr 9th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting myr-a-myr:</b>" Have you ever gone through such an addiction? It is torture. I've heard from some mothers who had addictions ... [snip!] ... know better you are not getting anything from me, attitude that makes many addicts afraid to come forward and ask for help. "</blockquote>




In a lot of addiction cases sometimes it isn't recommended to stop cold turkey because the stress can be damning. You should seek medical help and rehab.

~RJ~DG~AS~ 4 kids; Conroe, Texas 16669 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting myr-a-myr:" Have you ever gone through such an addiction? It is torture. I've heard from some mothers who had addictions ... [snip!] ... know better you are not getting anything from me, attitude that makes many addicts afraid to come forward and ask for help. "


Well said. And most of the time even if they wanted to stop cold turkey it is NOT recommended to stop that way because it can cause even more problems.

~RJ~DG~AS~ 4 kids; Conroe, Texas 16669 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting Aribean:" <blockquote><b>Quoting myr-a-myr:</b>" Have you ever gone through such an addiction? ... [snip!] ... sometimes it isn't recommended to stop cold turkey because the stress can be damning. You should seek medical help and rehab."


You beat me to that...

ERMAGHERD BEEDS! 3 kids; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4103 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting myr-a-myr:" Have you ever gone through such an addiction? It is torture. I've heard from some mothers who had addictions ... [snip!] ... know better you are not getting anything from me, attitude that makes many addicts afraid to come forward and ask for help. "



This. Should've would

user banned Colorado 21030 posts
Apr 9th '12
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myr-a-myr 3 kids; Quebec 2280 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting ~Raven & Declans Mama~:" Well said. And most of the time even if they wanted to stop cold turkey it is NOT recommended to stop that way because it can cause even more problems."


Agreed, which is why she needs to come forward to her OB. With the support of medical professionals she can move forward and prepare as best for her and her child's help.



I just hate it when some people go all "YOU'RE RIDICULOUS" when it's a situation they can't understand.

[♥Permanent♥] 50 kids; Georgia 2956 posts
Apr 9th '12

OP. I know you probably wont but if you ever want to talk you can PM me (it will stay between us) and I'll give you my number. You should try rehabs or NA to help you deal. If your serious about stopping then this will help. I hope you get better. Addictions can be terrible. I have had a bad addiction but it was not drugs. So I know it can be hard. good luck

Dirk&Kristians mommy Due June 26 (boy); 1 child; Oil City, Pennsylvania 16 posts
Apr 9th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Raven & Declans Mama~:</b>" Withdrawl is a bigger risk than birth defects, not saying that withdrawl is not an issue, I know it ... [snip!] ... line is she is trying to stop and is asking for help now so that she can make sure her baby has the best possible outcome."</blockquote>



And I pray she can find help. I come from a whole family of addicts so I know what its like for them and their children growing up its not easy and it takes a lot of strength and courage to ask for help...even if the help was just to know some consequences of their actions

~RJ~DG~AS~ 4 kids; Conroe, Texas 16669 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting myr-a-myr:" Agreed, which is why she needs to come forward to her OB. With the support of medical professionals ... [snip!] ... her child's help. I just hate it when some people go all "YOU'RE RIDICULOUS" when it's a situation they can't understand. "


Exactly. I'm glad she is doing what she can now to get the help she needs to get this under control so that her and her child can have the best possible outcome. I hate when people sit on their high horse and get all judgmental when they have no idea what that other person is going through.

~RJ~DG~AS~ 4 kids; Conroe, Texas 16669 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting Cassie Roxberry:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~Raven & Declans Mama~:</b>" Withdrawl is a bigger risk than ... [snip!] ... it takes a lot of strength and courage to ask for help...even if the help was just to know some consequences of their actions"

I hope she does too.

user banned New York 15996 posts
Apr 9th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ darah ♥:</b>" YOU'RE ridiculous. :roll: Obviously the woman is struggling with addiction. Something many people ... [snip!] ... people cannot overcome. I commend her for looking for help and admitting that she has an issue. No need to be an ass about it."</blockquote>



I really dont GAF what you call me. Wrong is wrong. Smh

Aribean 1 child; California 11400 posts
Apr 9th '12

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