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~Carole~ Due February 12; 3 kids; Round Rock, Texas 1507 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting ~Raven & Declans Mama~:" Have you ever dealt with the addiction that she is dealing with? If not, then STFU before you go and judge her"


Have you? And no I haven't . I have never tried drugs that would potentially kill me or my future children.

myr-a-myr 3 kids; Quebec 2280 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting ~Carole~:" SHE could have gotten help from the START. Did she? NO. She obviously didn't care enough."


Maybe she felt intimidated to do so because of people having the same type of attitude as yours? Wanted to try on her own by fear of being judged and criticized?



Who the heck are you telling someone whether they care about their child or not? You don't know her and you don't know what she is going through.

user banned Colorado 21030 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting ~Carole~:" She's still doing them at 26 weeks pregnant. She should have gotten help and stuck with it and got clean. Because doing drugs and being pregnant is just not an option. It's just sad."


Let's just hope your kids are able to think outside of the box and aren't as small-minded and mean-spirited as their mom. Goodbye, you're now being ignored.

~Carole~ Due February 12; 3 kids; Round Rock, Texas 1507 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting myr-a-myr:" Maybe she felt intimidated to do so because of people having the same type of attitude as yours? Wanted ... [snip!] ... telling someone whether they care about their child or not? You don't know her and you don't know what she is going through. "


lol.

~Carole~ Due February 12; 3 kids; Round Rock, Texas 1507 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting ♥ darah ♥:" Let's just hope your kids are able to think outside of the box and aren't as small-minded and mean-spirited as their mom. Goodbye, you're now being ignored."


Yep, I'm mean spirited. Because you know everything about me. That's for you to judge I guess. I just don't agree with doing things that would kill your baby.

myr-a-myr 3 kids; Quebec 2280 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting ~Carole~:" lol. "


:roll:

~Carole~ Due February 12; 3 kids; Round Rock, Texas 1507 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting ♥ darah ♥:" Let's just hope your kids are able to think outside of the box and aren't as small-minded and mean-spirited as their mom. Goodbye, you're now being ignored."


And here you are telling me not to judge her. smdh. lol. When you girls are judging me based off how I feel about one subject.

~RJ~DG~AS~ 4 kids; Conroe, Texas 16669 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting ~Carole~:" Have you? And no I haven't . I have never tried drugs that would potentially kill me or my future children."

Have I struggled with drug use, yes, yes I have. Have I struggled while I was pregnant, no. By the time I got pregnant I had been clean for over 6 years. I've also watched a good friend of mine struggle through her pregnancy with cocaine. Guess what, she got into rehab and her doctors and the people in rehab had her continue her usage so they could safely wean her from the drug, you can't just stop that shit cold turkey while you're pregnant.

user banned Colorado 21030 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting myr-a-myr:" :roll:"


Her age is showing very clearly lol

~Carole~ Due February 12; 3 kids; Round Rock, Texas 1507 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting ~Raven & Declans Mama~:" Have I struggled with drug use, yes, yes I have. Have I struggled while I was pregnant, no. By the time ... [snip!] ... her usage so they could safely wean her from the drug, you can't just stop that shit cold turkey while you're pregnant."


Well I'm glad your friend got clean! And yourself. I hope this girl does too. It just makes me upset to see mothers doing drugs and getting pregnant.

myr-a-myr 3 kids; Quebec 2280 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting ~Carole~:" And here you are telling me not to judge her. smdh. lol. When you girls are judging me based off how I feel about one subject. "


It's called KARMA. If you treat people like shit, people will treat you with that exact same shit you just threw in their face.

~Carole~ Due February 12; 3 kids; Round Rock, Texas 1507 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting ♥ darah ♥:" Her age is showing very clearly lol"

:) So is your ignorance about life.

~Carole~ Due February 12; 3 kids; Round Rock, Texas 1507 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting myr-a-myr:" It's called KARMA. If you treat people like shit, people will treat you with that exact same shit you just threw in their face. "


Nope its called hypocrite.

~RJ~DG~AS~ 4 kids; Conroe, Texas 16669 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting ~Carole~:" Well I'm glad your friend got clean! And yourself. I hope this girl does too. It just makes me upset to see mothers doing drugs and getting pregnant. "


I'm glad too. And honestly looking back I have no clue why I ever used in the first place, but we don't have hindsight, if we did people wouldn't make as many of the negative choices they do. It's fine to be upset about it, and it's good you are and even better that you would never do that it's great it really is, but she is and she does, and she is trying to get help now to have the best possible outcome, so don't judge, when you judge it makes it even harder for the people to want to get help

~Carole~ Due February 12; 3 kids; Round Rock, Texas 1507 posts
Apr 9th '12
Quoting ~Raven & Declans Mama~:" I'm glad too. And honestly looking back I have no clue why I ever used in the first place, but we don't ... [snip!] ... to have the best possible outcome, so don't judge, when you judge it makes it even harder for the people to want to get help"


Yeah, I understand that last sentence quite well. And I don't think I'm better because I never did drugs. I just can't stand the fact that she did it while pregnant. But whats done is done. Hopefully she will get help..