Quoting Kool-Aid Fraud [26w]:" That's really sad. But that's kind of what one of my best friends has turned into =\"
So sad, she was my best friend. Damn near died 7 months ago giving birth to her second kid. She's been pregnant literally ..7-8 times. :? :oops:
I don't even have a relationship with her anymore. She wont even ... like.. speak on the same level. It's all baby talk with her literally. Like.. no.
I am a person aside from a mother. I kind of moved over her.. :( sucks. I have goals though. She doesn't.
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" We had our kids (her first, my only child) exactly 6 months apart. They first thing she did when she ... [snip!] ... did nothing besides squeezing out 3 more kids, I continued working and ended up going to school (I'm working on my 4th degree)."
Exactly same with me. Except have ran into some issues and have needed assistance, but i am still schooling myself.
:roll: She doesn't even want to ..try.
I had my kid at 16 she had her first at 18.. and she's like.. waaaaayyy behind me.
Op, I'm a soon to be "young mom" and I felt the same AT FIRST. Then I realized; I needed to get over myself. The women on here give great advice. Dont be so quick to make a call out. I did, but I see differently. BG isn't a horrible place. You'll always have the one person who wants to be "mean" or whatever but get over it. It's called opinions and life.
Quoting Grumpelstiltskin's Mommy:" It makes me sad when people who don't need assistance use it because it's easier. I actually had one ... [snip!] ... I actually had one of the nurses at the hospital trying to make me feel guilty for NOT signing up for WIC and food stamps :?"
Quoting First baby is on board:" Op, I'm a soon to be "young mom" and I felt the same AT FIRST. Then I realized; I needed to get over ... [snip!] ... place. You'll always have the one person who wants to be "mean" or whatever but get over it. It's called opinions and life."
This is very true OP. People will always judge you, on the internet and in real life. The only difference is on the internet they're more likely to voice their judgement.
I'm a young mom but then again most of my family is that way. I got pregnant with my first at 19 had him at 20 got married at 22 and will be 23 at the end of this month. I've noticed more judgement on the outside then the cyber world but most of the judgement I get is because I look 16 (or so I've been told).
You know what I will never understand?
People that make threads like this and then don't reply.
I don't get the point.
Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:" You know what I will never understand? People that make threads like this and then don't reply. I don't get the point."
Yeah. She got offline right after she posted this.