Stefan Salvatore Due March 29; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Fort Hood, Texas 11670 posts
11th Apr '12
Quoting newb ♥:" If he wants one, he can get one! Bahaha. I got it from this awesome lady on Etsy. She makes them for adults as well. :lol:"


I might have to buy him one. Lol

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 45887 posts
status 11th Apr '12
Quoting Puff the Magic Dragon!:" I laughed pretty hard. I have a friend like that too. Slightly younger, she is pregnant with her third ... [snip!] ... them, it's pretty sad actually. She can't do school because she is 'too busy' laying on her back and getting knocked up! "


We had our kids (her first, my only child) exactly 6 months apart.



They first thing she did when she found out she was pregnant was drop out of high school and go on welfare. The first thing I did, was start going to school part time and working full time.



That basically set the precedent for the next few years. She sat around and did nothing besides squeezing out 3 more kids, I continued working and ended up going to school (I'm working on my 4th degree).

Puff the Magic Dragon! 15 kids; Ontario 14235 posts
11th Apr '12
Quoting Kool-Aid Fraud [26w]:" That's really sad. But that's kind of what one of my best friends has turned into =\"


So sad, she was my best friend. Damn near died 7 months ago giving birth to her second kid. She's been pregnant literally ..7-8 times. :? :oops:



I don't even have a relationship with her anymore. She wont even ... like.. speak on the same level. It's all baby talk with her literally. Like.. no.



I am a person aside from a mother. I kind of moved over her.. :( sucks. I have goals though. She doesn't.

Puff the Magic Dragon! 15 kids; Ontario 14235 posts
11th Apr '12
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" We had our kids (her first, my only child) exactly 6 months apart. They first thing she did when she ... [snip!] ... did nothing besides squeezing out 3 more kids, I continued working and ended up going to school (I'm working on my 4th degree)."


*e-high five!*.



Exactly same with me. Except have ran into some issues and have needed assistance, but i am still schooling myself.
:roll: She doesn't even want to ..try.
I had my kid at 16 she had her first at 18.. and she's like.. waaaaayyy behind me.

Nigel Thornberry 1 child; New Hampshire 6415 posts
11th Apr '12

It makes me sad when people who don't need assistance use it because it's easier. I actually had one of the nurses at the hospital trying to make me feel guilty for NOT signing up for WIC and food stamps :?

Darren's Mama 1 child; Antelope, California 291 posts
11th Apr '12

Op, I'm a soon to be "young mom" and I felt the same AT FIRST. Then I realized; I needed to get over myself. The women on here give great advice. Dont be so quick to make a call out. I did, but I see differently. BG isn't a horrible place. You'll always have the one person who wants to be "mean" or whatever but get over it. It's called opinions and life.

Puff the Magic Dragon! 15 kids; Ontario 14235 posts
11th Apr '12
Quoting Grumpelstiltskin's Mommy:" It makes me sad when people who don't need assistance use it because it's easier. I actually had one ... [snip!] ... I actually had one of the nurses at the hospital trying to make me feel guilty for NOT signing up for WIC and food stamps :?"


:shock:

Stu Padasso 2 kids; Henderson, Nevada 14638 posts
11th Apr '12
Quoting First baby is on board:" Op, I'm a soon to be "young mom" and I felt the same AT FIRST. Then I realized; I needed to get over ... [snip!] ... place. You'll always have the one person who wants to be "mean" or whatever but get over it. It's called opinions and life."


:!:
This is very true OP. People will always judge you, on the internet and in real life. The only difference is on the internet they're more likely to voice their judgement.

Nigel Thornberry 1 child; New Hampshire 6415 posts
11th Apr '12
Quoting Puff the Magic Dragon!:" :shock:"


That was my reaction. I see no reason to have any form of government help if you don't need it, which we don't. She was so damn pushy about it and kept trying to get me to apply :roll:

Melinda Lutz 2 kids; Ohio 138 posts
11th Apr '12

I'm a young mom but then again most of my family is that way. I got pregnant with my first at 19 had him at 20 got married at 22 and will be 23 at the end of this month. I've noticed more judgement on the outside then the cyber world but most of the judgement I get is because I look 16 (or so I've been told).

user banned Due September 18 (boy); 1 child; California 21617 posts
11th Apr '12

You know what I will never understand?
People that make threads like this and then don't reply.
I don't get the point.

~Ba.zin.ga~ Due December 4 (girl); 1 child; Under your bed, OO, United States 3954 posts
11th Apr '12
Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:" You know what I will never understand? People that make threads like this and then don't reply. I don't get the point."


Yeah. She got offline right after she posted this.

Adriana'sMombie 1 child; Quakertown, Pennsylvania 2113 posts
11th Apr '12

Ignore it or gtfo (: