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user banned 1 child; Jamaica, OH, United States 7126 posts
11th Apr '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" I understand where you're coming from. Even though I would have kept the baby if he hadn't pushed abortion- ... [snip!] ... because I KNOW I could have raised it if I really wanted too, really tried. Sometimes I feel like I took the easy way out. "


There's nothing easy about what you did!!

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
11th Apr '12
Quoting Laneys*Mama:" There's nothing easy about what you did!!"


I know. This wasn't easy for me, I just wish I could go back and fight to keep it instead of just giving into him and what he wanted.

user banned 1 child; Jamaica, OH, United States 7126 posts
11th Apr '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" I know. This wasn't easy for me, I just wish I could go back and fight to keep it instead of just giving into him and what he wanted."


I understand that. I don't think I could ever do what you did, but it's done now, ya know? :(

Queen Rowdy TTC since Jan 2013; 1 angel baby; Australia 972 posts
11th Apr '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" I understand where you're coming from. Even though I would have kept the baby if he hadn't pushed abortion- ... [snip!] ... because I KNOW I could have raised it if I really wanted too, really tried. Sometimes I feel like I took the easy way out. "


I can

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
11th Apr '12
Quoting Laneys*Mama:" I understand that. I don't think I could ever do what you did, but it's done now, ya know? :("

I know. I just don't know if I'll ever fully forgive myself for doing it. I'm trying to move on and continue my life with my son its just hard to stop thinking about it.

user banned 1 child; Jamaica, OH, United States 7126 posts
11th Apr '12
Quoting Yellow Diamond:" I can
BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
11th Apr '12
Quoting Yellow Diamond:" I can
BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
11th Apr '12
Quoting Laneys*Mama:" ! This. YOU could have done it, but how much would your child and your angel have had to miss out on because you were struggling with no support from what seems like a dead beat?"

I know. They would probably miss out on a lot. I do need to be less hard on myself.

Queen Rowdy TTC since Jan 2013; 1 angel baby; Australia 972 posts
12th Apr '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" You're right. Its not easy. And I am going to try to give myself a break. I am being hard on myself. "


Good to hear :) Dont be afraid to ask for help either. As you can see we dont mind telling you to get your head back in the game when your being too hard on yourself <3