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Having Issues at Home Ashley Kelson Due July 26 (girl); Hermitage, 5 posts
12th Apr '12

My step mom is jealous that im pregnant and believes i stole her chance to have another child even though she already has 2 small boys and my father has me and my sister from a previous marriage. My father has also expressed his wishes to not have anymore kids due to us being tight on money. Things have gotten so out of control that im currently staying at a friends because im in fear of my unborn childs safety and mine. There is a reason i feel this way. on easter my step mom had been drinking and usually starts arguments for no reason. she told me she had come into her resentful stage and threw full Aluminum beer cans at me and my sister . She used all sorts of colorful words calling me a wh**e and A Slut , and blaming everything going on between her and my father on me. She also had been degrading my dad which upset not only myself but my sister. nothing im not use to though, im always the reason for stuff going wrong in their marriage. She and my 15 year old sister got into a physical altercation where chunks of my sisters hair were pulled out and she had some blackening around her eye. me and my sister left and went to my grandmothers house, then to my friends house so my sister could countiue going to school. The next day my father came and picked us up, promising that she wouldnt be there. well ! guess what !? the next day while my sister was at school, she came to the house and spent a considerably amount of time there, calling me wh**e and the usual verbal abuse.
so my step mom is making my dad give my real mother custody so that he can keep his marraige and children without paying child support to my step mom. i cant help but feel like my Father will always choose to keep a woman that makes him and his previous children miserable rather than put his kids (me and my sister) First for once ? Anyways so i tried to file a police report for the altercation i had witnessed between my sister and my step mom. Nothing was done because it was after the fact. I want to go live with my real mom in Tennesse beause i feel so abandoned by my father and his abusive wife. I have to get out of there not only for my safety but my childs as well. Is anyone else having any problems in there house hold ?

My Lil' Monsters 5 kids; 3 angel babies; Surprise, Arizona 4144 posts
12th Apr '12

I hope you find a loving and caring environment soon. If you dont mind me asking, why dont you have visitations with your mother and how did she loose custody of you and your sister?

Ashley Kelson Due July 26 (girl); Hermitage, 5 posts
12th Apr '12

My mom lost custody because my dad was proven as the better parent. She moved to tennesse to get out of a abusive marriage herself and she left us in our dads care thinking everything was peachy because me and my sister were to scared to tell her what was really going on ... we were just kids then. but now the emtional, physical and mental abuse is to much and if she attacked my sister like that i dont anna be around when she comes at me like that because im 24 weeks pregnant and she could hurt my baby .

A M B E R Due October 25 (girl); 1 child; Windsor, Ontario 128 posts
12th Apr '12

I'm not sure how easy it is for you to get your own place, I'm Canadian and I took advantage of social assistance because there was just no way I could stay home.
There are definitely pro\s and con's to living alone. I find on my own is much easier. I do things my way, and I have no reason to be stressed or get upset.
I think it's good for young moms to move out especially during pregnancy because it helps you become more independant. I felt that being able to be independant (in most aspects) helped me to become a stronger mom in the long run.
My son is now 20 months old and I`ve gone every step by myself, and I love it.

lolaborola123 Due November 10; Kansas 8 posts
29th Apr '12

im 3months pregnat nd due november 11th. but my mom letted my sister throw me around nd hit me nd my stomache hurted afterwards and she didnt even call the ambulance than my other sister strtd writting on fb that a womans stupid if she gets in a fight and pregnat dat shes endangering her child excuse me but if pregnat or not no1's gonna let themselves b thrown around. itried to move n w my dad nd his wife told me dat my sister said dat if they let me stay there shes taking her kids away from them nd icant let that b my fault dis happened two weeks ago now my moms always insulting me and offending me jus because shes mad dat im trying to make things work with my babys daddy the sucky thing is i cant move out cuz im on phrobation im almost done w it hopefully by june jus feels like forever tho

♥Sophia'sMommyϖ Sevierville, Tennessee 117 posts
2nd May '12
Quoting Ashley Kelson:" My mom lost custody because my dad was proven as the better parent. She moved to tennesse to get out ... [snip!] ... sister like that i dont anna be around when she comes at me like that because im 24 weeks pregnant and she could hurt my baby ."


I would talk to your mom, and move in with her. Thats the best advice I can give to you. You dont need to be in that kind an environment. Much less bring your baby into one.

animaLibera_ 1 child; Ohio 7933 posts
2nd May '12

My household sucks emotionally but there aren't problems physically. You need to get out of that house. You're old enough I'm sure the courts would let you choose who you want to live with.

animaLibera_ 1 child; Ohio 7933 posts
2nd May '12
Quoting lolaborola123:" im 3months pregnat nd due november 11th. but my mom letted my sister throw me around nd hit me nd my ... [snip!] ... daddy the sucky thing is i cant move out cuz im on phrobation im almost done w it hopefully by june jus feels like forever tho"


If they're doing those kinds of things they don't need to have their children with them anyway. You need to think of yourself and your child in that situation and not care about feeling guilty about them having their kids taken away. How would you feel if you stayed JUST for that reason and they ended up abusing their kids?