my bd NOT REAL 1 child; Dallas, Georgia 40 posts
13th Apr '12

is such a deadbeat sperm donor i cant stand him he needs to step up and be a man for real im getting so sick of his games
ugh

speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 44921 posts
13th Apr '12

Have you filed for custody & child support?

NOT REAL 1 child; Dallas, Georgia 40 posts
14th Apr '12

I get child support but i do not let him see his son because he moved away when i was pregnant with my son and got with a new girl and they have two kids together now and my son is almost 3
i want full custody i will never ever let him see his son because of his new family i dont trust him or them.

speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 44921 posts
14th Apr '12
Quoting LandensMommy=]:" I get child support but i do not let him see his son because he moved away when i was pregnant with my ... [snip!] ... son is almost 3 i want full custody i will never ever let him see his son because of his new family i dont trust him or them. "


So, how is he a deadbeat?



He pays child support and YOU are the one who is not allowing him to have a relationship with his son.

Brookelynn's Mommy 1 child; California 1385 posts
14th Apr '12

I know exactly what you mean. But trust me, they don't change and there is absolutely not point in trying to make them. The children are better off without the deadbeat in their lives.




*ETA* Yeah if he pays child support and makes an attempt to be involved then be grateful. If you are not allowing it then it doesn't make him a deadbeat.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18293 posts
14th Apr '12
Quoting LandensMommy=]:" I get child support but i do not let him see his son because he moved away when i was pregnant with my ... [snip!] ... son is almost 3 i want full custody i will never ever let him see his son because of his new family i dont trust him or them. "


Then he's not a deadbeat at all. You're just bitter :?

speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 44921 posts
14th Apr '12
Quoting Sugar Magnolia:" Then he's not a deadbeat at all. You're just bitter :?"


Agreed. Sounds like she is jealous he moved on.

[Boats&Hoes] 2 kids; Youngstown, Ohio 62966 posts
14th Apr '12
Quoting LandensMommy=]:" I get child support but i do not let him see his son because he moved away when i was pregnant with my ... [snip!] ... son is almost 3 i want full custody i will never ever let him see his son because of his new family i dont trust him or them. "


You need to put YOUR feelings aside for the sake of your son. don't be selfish and keep him away from his dad just b/c he doesn't want you. That's seriously fucked up! You have no idea how bad I wish my BD would want to see his daughter. I could never imagine keeping Jae from him just b/c he has 2 kids from someone else (and ftr, he does have 2 kids with someone else)

crewscrystal 3 kids; Morganton, North Carolina 4263 posts
14th Apr '12

he has rights to his child whether you like his girlfriend or not. you could at least let him visit his child.

NOT REAL 1 child; Dallas, Georgia 40 posts
14th Apr '12

he treated me wrong and i dont care if he wants to see my son or not he is my son and i didnt let him be on the birth cirtificate he has NO RIGHTS to him and if he wants rights he will have to take me to court and ill make sure a judge does not let him see MY son they will lie to him and tell him bad things about me i know they will they will not ruin my baby
he is only comfortable around me and my family
his dad wants to see him and let his gf and there two kids see him but i refuse because my son will not be comfortable with strangers like that they have only met him a couple of times and i told him he could come spend time with me and my son alone but he refused to leave his family because he is selfish and such an a*****e

speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 44921 posts
14th Apr '12
Quoting LandensMommy=]:" he treated me wrong and i dont care if he wants to see my son or not he is my son and i didnt let him ... [snip!] ... he could come spend time with me and my son alone but he refused to leave his family because he is selfish and such an a*****e"


1. It doesn't matter how he treated you.



2. You can't make a judge do anything.



3. Of course he is only comfortable around you and your family, you've kept him from his father and siblings.



4. They are not strangers....they are his family.



5. He pays child support, he can easily get visitation rights.



You need to grow the hell up before this bites you in the ass.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18293 posts
14th Apr '12
Quoting LandensMommy=]:" he treated me wrong and i dont care if he wants to see my son or not he is my son and i didnt let him ... [snip!] ... he could come spend time with me and my son alone but he refused to leave his family because he is selfish and such an a*****e"


Really? Because it sounds like YOU'RE the selfish one.
I hope some day he does take you to court, and that judge goes ahead and gives him rights.
Good luck refusing without jail time then. :roll:




I wouldn't want to be alone with you and the kid either, you sound like a crazy b***h.

Madisyn Ryleigh's Mommy 18 kids; New Jersey 4018 posts
14th Apr '12
Quoting Sugar Magnolia:" Really? Because it sounds like YOU'RE the selfish one. I hope some day he does take you to court, and ... [snip!] ... without jail time then. :roll: I wouldn't want to be alone with you and the kid either, you sound like a crazy b***h."


:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

ANT0911 18 kids; Oklahoma 9608 posts
14th Apr '12

Are you always this big of a b***h! I would've left your ass to because I wouldn't expect anyone to deal with that shit. I hope he takes you to court and gets rights to his child so your child can see his half siblings and spend time with his dad.

NOT REAL 1 child; Dallas, Georgia 40 posts
14th Apr '12

If he loved his son he would come reguardless of who he could bring with him
he is MY son I call the shots on who sees him
he always threatens me on taking my son to court and getting 50/50 custody and im tired of his threats i call 911 everytime he threatens me!!!!